We've discussed this course before in plenty of Zoom calls and past posts, but here's a refresher:
When communicating with subs, whether potential subs or current ones, the goal is to always speak from an angle of your needs. Yes, the subs needs matter too, but as you are the Dominant and t...
2021-09-07 15:13:21 +0000 UTC View PostHappy new month! 🎉🥳
I hope everyone has been utilizing the many courses here on the Sexcademy. Please also utilize the resources! There was an open Q&A Zoom Call last week that only about 60 students attended. I can only help you if you’re trying to help yourself. 2021-09-01 23:50:29 +0000 UTC View Post
For those of us on NF that need help creating banners for pages, here’s an example of mine. It was created by http://myadultdesign.com/ in less than 24 hours and I highly recommend reaching out to them!
2021-08-25 13:47:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Name marked out for confidentiality. This is a basic contract. Depending on the D/s dynamic, contracts can be more in debt
2021-08-12 12:54:57 +0000 UTC View Post
We've all heard of safe words when it comes to pleasure. Some see them as jokes (made in pop culture, music, etc), but in BDSM they are ESSENTIAL to any kind of play session. Safe words can make all the difference between a successful session and an unsafe session. The word you can use is up you,...
2021-08-08 23:53:17 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Saturday!
Today I bring you a transparency post. We often discuss the things you could be doing to get to the bag, educate yourself, grow within your journey, and network, but we often don't discuss the things you AREN'T doing. This post won't apply to everyone; it's more so generally...
2021-08-07 13:45:50 +0000 UTC View PostThis a topic that was suggested and one that I really want to touch base on. As you are exploring your journey as a Domme, whether lifestyle or professional, life is going to change. You're going to come into new experiences, new money, new crowds, and you're going to learn things about yourself ...
2021-07-20 01:20:35 +0000 UTC View PostThis is for all tiers who are actively using twitter to promote their content.
Happy July! Its the first week of a new month which means fresh starts and fresh goals!
Here are some tips/advice/reminders moving forward for this month:
1. Be sure that all of your social media is up to date. This includes Twitter, IG, Fetlife, Seeking, AVN, OF, Niteflirt, IWC, etc....
2021-07-06 19:03:59 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Friday! Here's another session series post for the month of June. This time we will be discussing chastity devices and how to work them into sessions, both online and in person.
Chastity devices, or cages, are pieces of equipment that can be worn on the sub's private areas. These cage...
2021-06-12 00:28:19 +0000 UTC View PostHere's the link to the Discord Engagement group: https://discord.gg/G3yqdB53th
Reminder that this group is solely for the purpose of engagement, RT, likes, etc on social media to work as a community to create visibility.<...
2021-06-03 15:24:58 +0000 UTC View PostI’ve decided to introduce a new collection of courses to the Sexcademy called “Sessions Series”. These courses will help to give you ideas on what to do during RL sessions.
Let’s first start with foot worship:
Floor worship sessions, to me, are typically the e...
2021-05-21 18:53:07 +0000 UTC View PostThis post is for anyone who may be having trouble or internal struggles when it comes to this line of work, no matter what learning tier you are on. Here are some reminders to keep with you:
1. Don’t compare your journey to someone else’s. Focus on your work, your craft, and you...
2021-05-06 14:39:47 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
I’ve recently cleaned up our twitter engagement group to be more active. This group is for those of us on twitter that work together to help each other gain visibility through retweets, likes, comments, etc.
To be added, please comment below with your twitte...
2021-04-28 13:15:37 +0000 UTC View PostGood afternoon!
I’ll be hosting another soon check in for May. For those who are new, this check in allows me to check on your progress and you to ask questions. This is for ALL TIERS. This will be held on May 13 at 6 PM EST and will be recorded to access later.
Often when we come into this work, whether in BDSM or SW, we think that we need to have a certain personality to be able to sell our content. This is FALSE. I always tell people to just be themselves, literally. Yes, you can also play a character or different personality online if you should choo...
2021-04-13 13:30:48 +0000 UTC View PostAs discussed in previous courses some subs will not always be able to tribute or pay you for a session. This does not mean that the sub cannot be useful. For those that are just starting out in the industry, hiring subs for the purpose of content can be very beneficial. Most of the time you can f...
2021-03-21 21:00:30 +0000 UTC View Post* This guide will only be posted once.
This step by step is for new students who sign up on the Sexcademy. I needed to make this guide as some new students sign up and don't know how to go about learning.
1. AFTER SIGNING UP, TAKE TIME TO LOOK THROUGH THE COURSES.
Through observ...
2021-03-12 18:32:58 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Friday!
I’ve teamed up with @sexualessentials to bring you all a course on attracting followers to your pages. I think we can all benefit from other opinions of outside instructors!
D/s relationships involve A LOT of consent and safety. In any dynamic where one party is giving up control, things can get more risky.
SSC - Safe, Sane, and Consensual :
Ask yourself is the kink is safe, sane, and if everyone consents to it. Make sure to all be on the same...
2021-03-11 00:30:40 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Monday everyone! This is our monthly check in post. Please comment below with any wins you may have or things you want to get better help on. This post is for POSITIVITY, help, and encouragement, not for comments such as “nothing is working for me”, especially if you’ve just joined wi...
2021-03-08 17:42:32 +0000 UTC View PostThis was a course suggestion by a student, so I thought I'd dive into it!
Being an educator in the kink and fetish world can be both rewarding and challenging. The first things you have to ask yourself: what makes me qualified to teach? What work have I done on my end that will prepare me t...
2021-03-02 20:43:09 +0000 UTC View PostThis course will explain the steps in setting up and in person session, what to do during the session, and what to do after. Please note that this is just a guide of suggestions. Only do things that you are comfortable with and don't hesitate to adjust some of the bullet points to your liking. 2021-02-21 15:35:47 +0000 UTC View Post
I've received messages from some of you having a hard time with promoting yourself through Findom to attract subs. I will say, after checking out some of your Twitter pages, I am noticing that majority of you are lacking actual content - instead I am just seeing text posts with tags. Yes, subs do...
2021-02-18 13:42:35 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning!
I am back momentarily from my hiatus to check in on everyone and their progress. I hope you have been studying the lessons, editing your profiles, posting content weekly, studying more about kink, curating your aesthetic, and much more!
I am always looking for ways that ...
2021-02-15 13:11:14 +0000 UTC View PostGood afternoon!
For everyone who attended last nights meeting or watched the recording, I introduced the idea of an engagement group on Twitter strictly for us. An engagement group is for those who are in findom, femdom, or content creation who wants to have more eyes on their post. We basi...
2021-02-01 18:04:28 +0000 UTC View PostAffirmations are repeated words or sentences that raise your vibrations and put you in a state of receiving what you want. This can be used in all areas of life, but I’ve specifically written one for money and success. Repeat this daily or write it in your journal:
“Money, su...
2021-01-10 15:48:08 +0000 UTC View PostHappy New Year Academy Babes!
I am so happy to have made it into the New Year with you all and I'm looking forward to another year of teaching, learning, growing, and continuing to create relationships with everyone. If you are recently new to The Sexcademy, WELCOME! This is an open environ...
2021-01-01 16:17:58 +0000 UTC View PostHere's a public guide on how to sign up on Reddit, create your page, and sell content!
https://docs.google.com/document/d/174TK6zOxJzKcbB0o9HFhf8N70B0EiNs0b4Whq5JzIvk/edi...
2021-01-01 16:03:02 +0000 UTC View PostSensation play is a good element to add to any session, seeing that there are many different types of sensations to explore. Hot, cold, sharp, soft, rough, etc...the options are endless!
1. Ask your sub if they’re allergic to anything
You don’t want t...
2020-12-20 20:10:39 +0000 UTC View Post