COMMUNICATING WITH POTENTIAL SUBS

We've discussed this course before in plenty of Zoom calls and past posts, but here's a refresher:

When communicating with subs, whether potential subs or current ones, the goal is to always speak from an angle of your needs. Yes, the subs needs matter too, but as you are the Dominant and the sub has a consensually agreed to serve you, it's up to you to provide tasks, directions, and overall communicate your needs to them.

REMINDER THAT THE BEST WAY TO KEEP COMMUNICATION IS THROUGH OFFLINE APPS SUCH AS KIK, GOOGLE VOICE, TEXT FREE, OR SKYPE. I DO NOT RECOMMEND KEEPING SUB CONVERSATIONS IN SOCIAL MEDIA DM UNLESS IT IS A QUICK TRIBUTE CONVERSATION. SOCIAL MEDIA CAN BE GONE WITHOUT WARNING.

The idea is to keep your sub interested, but it's not for you to go out your way to keep communication. You should never have to beg your sub to talk to you, tribute to you, or follow your directions. I believe in stating something UP TO two times; after this, I will either let the sub know I am releasing them from ownership or I will ignore until they get the message (be aware that some subs like being ignored and may not see this as a punishment; assess this by the conversation you have beforehand regarding kinks and interests)

Here's some examples of communicating with subs you already own:

"Good morning. How are you to serve me today?"

"Good afternoon. I have a few tasks I need you to complete to fulfill your sub duties today. These tasks include (list tasks, it can be anything from a humiliating photo, to domestic duties, social media duties, video session, tribute, etc). I need these tasks done by (insert time frame here)."

"You've been such a good boy in serving me but I know I can push you to be even more obedient. In what ways can you go above and beyond for me?" (remember with pushing limits that consent is mandatory.)

"I'm going out to eat later and need you to cover the bill so I don't have to lift a finger. Send (list amount here) to me." (this is for subs you've established financial domination with).

Here's some examples of communicating with potential subs:

"I see you want to serve me. What are your hard and soft limits and what can you provide for me so that I am priority?" (you can refer them to your sub application to move this convo along."

(For findoms) "I only allow subs to serve me that have sent my minimum tribute. The more you send, the happier I am and the more I want to own you. My tribute methods are on my page/bio."

"What makes you want to serve me? How do you think you can step up to make all of my kinky needs come true?"

These are just a few examples that can be edited based on need or conversation. DON'T BEG. DON'T BEG. DON'T BEG. You can't make subs tribute, do tasks, etc. You can only give them the direction that is needed for them to continue to communicate with you. For subs that are on good behavior, you can reward them with photos or videos that you are comfortable with to keep them on their toes or make them aware that they have met your needs.