For those of us wanting to dive into doing in-person sessions within our Domme work, Impact Play can be a big part of most sessions, as a large majority of subs will request it. The thought of it for a beginner can be intimidating, but once you learn the in's and outs and get a little practice, i...
2020-12-07 20:13:40 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Holidays!
My organization, Black Domme Sorority, is hosting a toy drive for SWers with families/children. We are still accepting registrations for those in need to sign up! If you are needing help this holiday season, please register at the link below!
Let’s post about our wins! Whether it’s getting new subs, new SD, gifts, OF subscribers, etc...how has the lifestyle so far changed things for you?
2020-11-23 22:42:27 +0000 UTC View PostIt's no secret that often times working in this industry can be overwhelming, but it doesn't have to always be that way. To avoid stress and feelings of not being productive, it's best to learn how to manage your time in SW, no matter what part of the industry you are apart of. Here's a few tips:...
2020-11-20 18:15:15 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Monday! I am now back in action with a new laptop so no longer have to do courses through the app! This week:
Things are slowly opening back up and people are going back to being their kinky selves (social distancing and masks included of course). If you’re interested in attending your first BDSM event in your city, here are done tips about how to go about it.
1. Research events in your a...
2020-10-24 18:41:10 +0000 UTC View PostNew month, new suggestions!
Please only suggest courses that already haven’t been covered! I will compile a list and provide what you all will want to see. Comment below (be sure to add your tier beside your comment).
2020-10-06 15:17:41 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning! Happy Friday!
I want to touch base on a topic that is very important in this community and your future journey within it: mental health
As SWers, no matter which category, sometimes it’s easy to get overwhelmed with filming content, communicating with clien...
2020-10-02 13:35:51 +0000 UTC View Posthttps://www.dropbox.com/s/j8h4876cs6pmko0/SAFETY.txt?dl=0
In Findom, a wallet drain is an online session consisting of the sub sending you amounts of money back to back to your payment methods (drain). These sessions are usually set up through DM or email with the sub letting you know what they’re looking for. I recommend carrying out these sessions t...
2020-09-01 18:09:35 +0000 UTC View PostEver find yourself feeling like you’re coming across a lot of timewasters? It could be how you’re presenting yourself in your pro domination work. Subs tend to waste the time of those who they feel may not be taking their work “seriously” or those who seem unsure about their pricing, prot...
2020-08-28 18:24:07 +0000 UTC View Post5 part video, all in google drive . This course covers how to start your domme business outside of just doing it casually.
* fixed last video that wouldn’t load
2020-08-27 21:39:39 +0000 UTC View PostThis course is for all tiers!
The bread and butter of having a successful Dom/me journey, SW journey, or SB journey is your content and photos. The clearer the better. The more focused the better. The more creative the better. Here are some tips I use to take good pictures, all on my PHONE....
2020-07-22 17:17:23 +0000 UTC View PostGood morning all! I wanted to touch base on an important note.
I’m noticing that I’m getting messages and comments asking questions about things that have already been answered in courses. It is important that you read through all course materials and only message or comment if you ABSO...
2020-07-19 10:20:19 +0000 UTC View PostI’ve been getting a lot of questions on how to know who to match with on vanilla dating sites. With these sites, you have to mutually match with someone before you can start chatting. You may think just because you set the age filter to older men that they will all be walking wallets; not quite...
2020-07-09 22:10:52 +0000 UTC View PostPSO = Phone Sex Operation
For those using Niteflirt, Sextpanther, or any other PSO website, this course is for you!
In my opinion, PSO is the easiest method to make coin. You can do it from the comfort of your bed without getting dressed, at any time of the day and the only tool you...
2020-07-03 14:54:48 +0000 UTC View PostThis post is for everyone; sugar babies, SWers, Dommes, Subs, etc
We are all wanting to jump into different lifestyles and most of us want to make sure we look the part. There is no set style or way that you should dress within your marketing and branding; it’s all about YOU. Are you femi...
2020-06-17 14:33:36 +0000 UTC View PostThis course is for subs who want to know how to market themselves as a pro sub, whether for sessions, events, performances, etc.
Your marketing will be similar to a Dom(me) in the sense of tools such as graphics, posting on social media, and content, but please be aware that pricing for you...
2020-06-17 03:51:53 +0000 UTC View PostAnother check in for the month of June! Let’s chat updates, wins (whether monetary or within yourself), progress, findings, etc.
Comment below 💓
2020-06-08 16:13:03 +0000 UTC View PostI know this will be a touchy course especially with the recents events these past couple of weeks. Trigger warning.
Raceplay is a topic that comes up often in BDSM and SW: as a Black person or person of color, should I participate in it or not? From my perspective, I wouldn’t recommend. 2020-06-04 17:59:23 +0000 UTC View Post
As we’ve learned, there are many avenues for promoting yourself, your brand, and your content. One of those avenues can be through cam work.
Cam work opens you up to interactions with many different viewers with different interests, similar to PSO. You can cam on different platforms and ...
2020-06-02 09:21:02 +0000 UTC View PostWhat is team viewer?
Team viewer is a computer and mobile app that allows you to remotely control another persons computer. Although this is mostly used in educational or business settings, it is also now being widely used in findom sessions.
A paypig will typically hit up...
2020-06-02 09:13:32 +0000 UTC View PostLet’s all follow each other on our social media SW, Domme, or SB pages to increase engagement. Comment your links/pages below! 😇❤️
2020-05-29 01:48:51 +0000 UTC View PostDO:
1. Communicate effectively with finsubs to let them know your financial expectations
2. Always have your payment methods easily accessible, especially for silent tributes
3. Post tributes that you get here and there; this sometimes en...
2020-05-20 14:29:32 +0000 UTC View PostJust like any other job, SW is work. And just like any other job, you should learn to save your earnings. In this field of work, there is no guaranteed paycheck or a set hourly rate per hour. You could meet your money goals in less than 5 hours or have a slow week. SW can be seen as fast money, b...
2020-05-18 20:45:48 +0000 UTC View PostDropbox video: https://www.dropbox.com/s/ugpemd76e1mwncb/TASKS%20FOR%20SUBS.mov?dl=0
2020-05-15 19:38:45 +0000 UTC View PostClip sites can be an alternative or addition to websites like Onlyfans or AVN. With clips sites, your subscribers don’t have to sign up for a monthly fee, but instead can buy your clips straight out, meaning you can charge higher prices.
Some clips sites:
Manyvids
I Want Clip...
2020-05-10 22:31:54 +0000 UTC View PostSo now that you’ve created your Only Fans page and have gained a few subscribers, it’s important to be interactive with your “fans”. You want them to keep coming back to pay that monthly subscription - not just subscribe and go. There are many ways that you can interact with fans:
1...
2020-05-09 13:36:26 +0000 UTC View PostYou can make kink a big part of your life, but you also have to remember that sometimes you will have to “come down” from the experience, especially after a session. Unless you consider yourself a lifestyle kinkster, it is okay to not practice BDSM 24/7. Take some time to unplug if you need t...
2020-05-07 14:04:41 +0000 UTC View Post