After how many dates is it dead if he hasn't taken your key? You gaped yourself each time and he hasn't even used you publicly yet... is he even interested? Ok maybe he's new to it... he's hot but at the same time, you're not gonna teach him to make you his toy, are you? Alright, you'll do the fourth date... but then it's over and you'll stop plugging yourself imagining it's his fist...