Abortion ban abolished, Korea first in world to launch 5G and why talking about mental health issues is important.
Added 2019-04-16 07:25:39 +0000 UTC[Danny From The Seoul Ep. 19]
1:30 - 5G is LIVE in Korea
12:08 - Abortion ban abolished in Korea
27:33 - Being open with mental health issues, and its benefits
Comments
Most people don't talk about abortions to me directly, it's more like people find out some how. Rumors spread very fast in college campuses and offices.
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 07:32:59 +0000 UTCYeah I've stopped using that phrase 'men getting abortions'. I have been thinking from a korean male perspective all my life, so that just came out haha. But thinking about it, it's obviously weird to put it that way
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 07:32:24 +0000 UTCfunny thing - in korea actually you need the consent of both the man and the woman to operate an abortion. I guess that shows the family oriented values of Korea? or maybe how patriarchal it is lol.
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 07:05:11 +0000 UTCI mean if I had to stop a heart beat as part of my job, i'd be traumatized
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 07:03:45 +0000 UTCI'm getting too high too often, so I actually had to tell my doctor to lower my dosage so that I can function like a normal human being lol. Anyway, yeah I'm even telling people that are not even close to me about these things and I'm thinking it'll lift the stigma little by little(or maybe they'll just think i'm crazy)
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 07:03:08 +0000 UTCPeople call it a slippery slope fallacy, but I'd rather be cautious than sorry.
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 06:59:20 +0000 UTCBirth control pills are very easy to get - it's just that we never receive proper sex ed about any of that except for maybe condoms. There's even a stigma against birth control pills that only women who sleep around a lot take them.
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 06:58:12 +0000 UTCThat's very common in Korea - a lot of Korean men don't really like wearing condoms and a lot of girls i know got pregnant because of that sole reason. It's fucking stupid and sad
DKDKTV
2019-04-26 06:56:54 +0000 UTCthanks for talking about your treatment. i've managed depression and have come so far. today i had a huge, downward mood swing and listening to your podcast was the best thing that helped me today, alongside some thai food. also i'm surprised you know people whove had abortions as it's still really scary for women in the usa to talk about their abortions. i work in journalism and there are some nonprofits who actually train women to talk about their abortions so that they can have that perspective in media.
Anna
2019-04-16 22:04:06 +0000 UTCGood episode! I have to say it's a little startling to hear you refer to men "getting abortions" I don't think in the States, at least among most people, that would be something people would ever say. I think it's an interesting insight into where you and perhaps other Koreans are placing responsibility and decision making authority. Anyway most women would never just casually get an abortion the same way they would buy a hamburger. I think society will be ok on that front. Thanks again for sharing your experiences seeking mental health treatment. I'm also getting treatment for depression and anxiety and some days it's great and other days it's a struggle. Weird thing is my Dad is a psychiatrist but it still took me years to actually take advantage of professional mental heath care when I needed it. Despite having grown up in a home where mental health care was very normalized it took a group of friends who were more open about their experiences to get me to go too. Hang in there for the ups and downs! So many of us are on this ride together. Much love.
Aubrey
2019-04-16 21:16:22 +0000 UTCfunny thing I keep remembering from Friends episode when rachel got pregnant and Ross freaking out why condom protects 97% xD.... but I guess they need better Education. the abortion and doctors issue goes with hippocratic oath, first rule before anything "Do no harm" so I guess it goes against the oath! Plus the heart start beating after 40 days, so could be painful at time to kill that heart beat... So I stand partial!
maiz
2019-04-16 19:38:37 +0000 UTCThank you for your insight on the abortion law change. I find the perspective of your fellow soldier interesting. I have heard from men here that they are often not involved in abortion discussions. I believe many women feel like it's their body and only they have the right to make the decision to terminate a pregnancy. Of course, I've heard of men insisting on abortions but it's ultimately up to the woman. As far as a doctor's right to refuse service, that's common here. There are hospitals in my area that are owned/operated by religious groups that do not allow doctors to perform abortions. I think that's ok, doctors shouldn't be forced to perform a procedure they're morally opposed to. On the topic of sex ed, I find it so interesting that people who are diametrically opposed to abortions are often opposed to proper sex education as well. There are numerous studies that show with better sex ed, the rates of unplanned pregnancy and spread of STDs drop significantly. Abstinence only education does nothing but keep uninformed children from understanding the consequences unsafe sex. Last, I'm glad to hear talking about your treatment with friends has been helpful to you and them. I hope that one day the stigma around mental health issues doesn't exist anymore. I know a lot of folks have been recommending getting a second opinion on your diagnosis and you should do that if you don't feel comfortable with the treatment you're receiving, but as I mentioned before, it takes time to see how medications affect you and sometimes you have to try different combinations to see what's right for you. Sorry for the essay but obviously these are topics I'm passionate about!
Cate Smith
2019-04-16 17:05:27 +0000 UTCAs someone who has gone through therapy and treatment, definitely ask about different options for medication. Not all medications make you "high". LOL. But I have been there and it's a weird feeling. Mental heath is such a sensitive subject. It's good to trust someone and talk about your treatment. That why they understand the changes going one with you. Also you never know who needed to hear that someone they know and trust is going through issues. Keep speaking out and being encouraging.
Bklyngirl913
2019-04-16 16:17:12 +0000 UTCDanny very interesting topics. For the abortion topic, I am not sure of the laws in SK but I would think one of the issues with allowing doctors to deny the service for personal beliefs is then where does that line get drawn. Can a doctor then deny a patient care due because they are a different religion? It might become a sticky situation. That is what happens in the US - where do you draw the line. Abortion is not birth control and it is scary when you hear a story like your fellow soldier who just treats it as that. Also thank you for sharing your current health issues. Just the act of talking about it can help . I appreciate your honesty. It may take a while to feel more comfortable but just give it time. You have cheerleaders out here rooting for you.
Cathy
2019-04-16 15:14:39 +0000 UTCRegarding your concern about ppl casually getting abortions, this seems like an idea mostly men would have. The emotional and physical trauma that comes from having an abortion, even using the Plan B pill, makes me believe it will never be a casual act for most women. Also, how hard is it to get birth control pills in SK? You are the wrong person to ask, but you must have some idea?
3xdeadsmith
2019-04-16 15:05:23 +0000 UTCMy first podcast with you, interesting, thx. Appreciate your view on all 3 topics. I am an ED nurse, and mental health issues are huge in the US. The suicide rates are alarming, and it breaks my heart to realize that so many people are suffering without hope or without having access to help. Also agree with you about taking responsibility during sex, I get people saying “heat of the moment”, but it’s a shitty excuse. I had a patient tell me last week that her boyfriend doesn’t like condoms, but then he called her irresponsible because she doesn’t want the abortion he wants her to have! That’s messed up...
Deborah Dupont
2019-04-16 13:05:42 +0000 UTCI don't know about being intelligent but I do talk about controversial topics lol
DKDKTV
2019-04-16 08:46:48 +0000 UTCDo I sound different? I don't really know if I feel better yet but I guess I am better than where I've started, so that's a good first step haha
DKDKTV
2019-04-16 08:46:29 +0000 UTCDanny I wholly appreciate you continuing to do your podcasts, and that you aren’t afraid to talk about important and controversial topics. Your podcasts unravel a more intillectual side of you we don’t really get to see everywhere else, and I feel you provide honest and intelligent views on what’s happening in Korea. Thank you! :)
Michael W
2019-04-16 08:23:21 +0000 UTCGlad to hear things are getting better for you on the mental health front Danny. Good on you for opening up to your friends on such a vulnerable topic and being there for them. I am very happy for you and relieved - you seem to be in a better head space in this podcast.
Jade F.
2019-04-16 07:50:58 +0000 UTC
