✨🍵 Spilling Tea Poll 🍵✨ [Monthly Newsletter Topic]
Added 2021-08-13 11:15:14 +0000 UTCSo, what would you like me to babble about?
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A bit late to the party, but i'd love to hear Teas opinion about "Why a Girlfriend Won't Cure Your Depression" Me, long time single, knows that a GF wouldn't be the solution to all my problems. But it would help tremendously with so many, many things; be it a kick in the butt or just a soothing hand and some kind words.
Klaus
2021-08-17 07:18:35 +0000 UTCNot sure if I missed it but "Asexuals/Aromantics aren't broken" would be a good one...
Stuart Galloway
2021-08-15 16:35:39 +0000 UTCThat means you physically become a citizen of Switzerland
cpt_yakitori
2021-08-14 17:36:34 +0000 UTCWhat is body neutrality?
Brandi Corell
2021-08-14 12:33:38 +0000 UTCI agree. I think the issue is when any of those points are taken to the extreme. Is there anything wrong with being in a relationship whilst experiencing mental health issues? Absolutely not. People are people and more often than not, people feel unwell, overwhelmed or just plain like they don't want to be here. In the same breath, is it wise to assume that meeting someone will instantly change every aspect of our lives? Probably not. It's all about balancing expectations and seeing people as people. People can absolutely change our life for the better, but it's important to recognise the need for personal accountability and managing expectations. As I said, people are just people - not miracle workers, not ideas, just people trying to do their best for themselves and the ones they care about.
TeacupAudio
2021-08-13 23:57:06 +0000 UTC'why girlfriend won't cure your depression' is a needed one always amazes me how people try to push ideas like 'you're not a burden', 'it's okay to ask for help' and with the same breath dismiss that we could lean on a partner. Oh and my favourite one is about perfectionism how no one is perfect yet they tell you to wait until you are to be 'ready' for relationship. While all of those are valid points they are pushed too far.
Samwise Thebravee
2021-08-13 22:17:56 +0000 UTC"In my opinion" should just be implied at this point. :P
Brooms17
2021-08-13 21:11:05 +0000 UTCI mean the last word performs pretty well in destiny 2 so I don't quite see your argument on that one If you don't know how to use the weapon just get better by practicing more. Jk I know you're not talking about destiny.
Nathan Brown
2021-08-13 19:15:08 +0000 UTCI was well aware of the fact I'm a literal bastard in the classical sense of the word. But the miserable part is new to me. Can't wait to hear how to help that part. xD
Fr0stdino
2021-08-13 17:15:55 +0000 UTCWhat does Tea mean by “Big Dick Energy” in the first choice?
Coby-O
2021-08-13 15:01:50 +0000 UTCThe topic that I want will never come up * cry in Bi *
peanutbutterxxx
2021-08-13 13:13:04 +0000 UTCI would love to hear your view / perspective on "You'll Spend Some of the Best Times of Your Life Alone [In My Opinion]". I've been very isolated for almost a decade, (made COVID isolation seem normal to me.) I reclused myself because I was so ashamed and embarrased about myself, and how I had treated other people because of what happened. (TL;DR Story: I met a woman with very similar view on life, hobbies etc., we became really really good friends, no romantic relationship, then out of the blue she had to go get drugs on a movie trip, a bit later I did them with her and was manipulated and exploited for money because I was blinded by love and young inexperience. P.S.: I'm clean and sober since 2010 after 9 months of drugs and me not realizing what I was doing to myself by being around her.) Anyways, I've already yakked an ear off here - thank you for your continued amazing work, Tea.
Nicki Løvstrup Hansen
2021-08-13 13:00:43 +0000 UTCNo, Brie, you're fine, sweetie :D
TeacupAudio
2021-08-13 12:16:19 +0000 UTC"How not to be a miserable bastard" Is that a personal attack or something?
Frohawk
2021-08-13 12:03:17 +0000 UTCHonestly, I’d love to hear what Tea has to say about any of the choices…she’s a pretty wise lady 😳
MalikTheRonin
2021-08-13 11:55:13 +0000 UTCI picked how to not be a miserable person!✌🏼 What about you oh the great JuNe?
Kaisel
2021-08-13 11:52:30 +0000 UTCTea, I have never heard you babble, whether I agreed or disagreed with your opinions.
Bear
2021-08-13 11:49:51 +0000 UTCI think why having a girlfriend won’t cure depression is a fantastic topic, I feel like searching for happiness in someone else isn’t the right answer but I can’t help feel like it’s a connection with someone I’m missing. I mean regardless of what wins, tea puts out solid content
Reise
2021-08-13 11:44:18 +0000 UTCOf course "How Not to Be a Miserable Bastard" is winning. 😅
Savage Dragon
2021-08-13 11:26:30 +0000 UTCI would gladly read/hear a few of (and apparently I can select multiple), but I think the big one of my preferences (even though the girlfriend-depression one is something I need to learn), is the love language one. I'm a blend of touch, time spent, and affirmation (with the latter being a result of content creators like you), and I'd like to hear your thoughts. It doesn't appear that any of my several will win, but I can always push for them in the future. But regardless, I hope you're having a lovely day or night. Have fun, please... 💜
Lachlan Parker
2021-08-13 11:25:05 +0000 UTCThank you
June
2021-08-13 11:18:14 +0000 UTC
