Dr. Susie Gronski - Doctor of Physical Therapy

Have you tried edging for better orgasms? 💭

Added 2025-05-05 14:07:00 +0000 UTC

Edging = bringing yourself (or your partner) right to the edge of climax, then pausing… and repeating. Why? Because it builds pleasure and makes orgasms more intense.

Here’s how to do it:

1. Slow. It. Down. – Rushing defeats the purpose. The goal is to hover at that almost-there feeling, not sprint to the finish.

2. Mix It Up – Change the speed, pressure, and sensations. Hands, toys, oral—switch it up to keep things interesting.

3. Pause Before It’s Too Late – If you hit the point of no return, you waited too long. Pull back when you’re at 75-80%, not 99%. Understanding your arousal gradient is key.

4. Explore 2-3 Times – Think of it like charging up a super move.

5. Curiosity = Pleasure – The mental game is just as important. Letting go right at the perfect moment takes practice, but it’s worth it.

Bonus Tip: If you’re doing this with a partner, tease them with words, touch, or control. The build-up makes it even hotter. 😉 Tried edging before? Drop a 🔥emoji if it’s your go-to, or an 🤔 if you’re curious!