Sex Tip Tuesday 🍆
Added 2025-07-15 13:07:00 +0000 UTCWhen your 🍆 doesn’t get the memo…now what?!
An erection isn’t the measure of your masculinity or your pleasure. Pressure to “perform” can actually sabotage arousal. Instead, shift the focus to sensation, connection, and exploring what feels good without a goalpost.
Engage your whole body, not just your penis. Use breath, touch, fantasy, and communication to dial into pleasure. And remember, there are plenty of ways to have amazing sex that don’t require an erection. Give yourself that permission.
Have you noticed changes in your erections, like timing, firmness, or frequency? How do you usually respond when that happens? Let us know in the comments below.
Comments
Absolutely, Steve!
susie@drsusieg.com
2025-07-22 00:04:33 +0000 UTCWell, as I've posted before, there do seem to be some changes from the photo J took of my erection early in our intimacy. Angle, maybe length. Producing erections when I was castrate at age 74 was probably the first time I really gave it any notice. Knowing the why and that it was only for 6 months made it "okay". After recovering I did feel that I was not having spontaneous erections and that is when I was introduced to pelvic therapy. Looking back over my experiences, I've become curious about whether I may have missed noticing changes in firmness during intercourse.
Guy (works)
2025-07-15 17:11:36 +0000 UTCThere are definitely other ways to have pleasure with a less than rigid erection. Also, if my erection isn’t quite firm enough for penetration, the penis pump is an amazing tool😎
Steve Jellerson
2025-07-15 15:45:24 +0000 UTC
