Live Book Club Today: Let’s Talk Pleasure
Added 2025-08-12 13:17:01 +0000 UTCWe’re going live for book club today and reading one of my favorite chapters: Good Sex is Pleasurable.
This one’s all about what it actually means to experience pleasure on your terms, in your body, without the pressure to perform. We’ll unpack defining pleasure, sensual pleasure, bonding pleasure and how it shows up differently for everyone, and why it matters!
Join me at:
⏰ 5.30-6.00PM ET
📅 Aug 12th
🔗 https://crowdcast.io/c/l70y1oo3zp2y
Bring a beverage, a snack, your reading glasses (if you need them) and see you there! 📚
P.S. If you haven't read the chapter, come for the convo anyway!
Comments
I posted the incident with the hookup partner telling me I got what I deserve as I think it was about prowess. After I figured out that not all men have multiple orgasms I began researching including with my co workers. We got in a discussion about multiple male orgasms and his girlfriend arranged a blind hookup to check my performance and report back. I was not interested in having sex with a stranger, but it was a "put up or shut up" situation. I went in with intent of having 3 orgasms with her and did just that. I sort of suspect that she thought I was using one of the ejaculation control things or something and thought it was an effort so said I deserved time with her for the effort. In reality, the orgasms just come along quite easily and naturally as long as I'm stimulated. I suspect more men would find they have multiple orgasms if they'd ignore the popular notions and just cruise along. The man who has PE may find that it is just the first in a series if he didn't think he'd failed with the PE and given up. They never shared the performance report with me, but the speculative look he gave J (all coworkers) when he learned we had just married was interesting.
Guy (works)
2025-08-12 22:33:22 +0000 UTCHmm... I'm more into hopped beers, porter stouts and hefeweizen. Unfortunately I have only brandy available at the moment and that is likely to take thing off the rails.
Guy (works)
2025-08-12 19:36:56 +0000 UTCGreat, I'll be there with a ice cold Little Kings!
RJ S
2025-08-12 16:37:23 +0000 UTC
