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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Seven: Clinical Applications & My Apologies)

Chapter Seven of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.

08:43 Rupture repair

22:50 Dr. Kirk's apologies

1:27:52 Listener reflection

1:31:49 Changes in the podcast


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Seven Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 2)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Seven with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.

00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Seven Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 2) 01:02 Chris Brown on Larry King

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Six: The Four Phases of Forgiveness)

Chapter Six of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


04:53 Phase 1 - Uncovering phase

13:57 Phase 2 - Decision phase

16:37 Phase 3 - Work phase

22:00 Phase 4 - Deepening phase

23:33 Predictors of forgiveness

39:32 Struggling with ...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Six Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 1)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Six with an analysis of Chris Brown’s apology.

00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Six Intro: Chris Brown Analysis, part 1) 

00:33 Chris Brown's apology


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Five: Forgiveness)

Chapter Five of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.

00:56 Giving & receiving forgiveness

17:51 Definitions

34:47 Forgiveness vs. Acceptance

42:02 Dr. Kirk's forgiveness


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter 5 Intro: Taylor Swift Apology Analysis)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Five with an analysis of Taylor Swift’s apology.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Five Intro: Taylor Swift Analysis)

00:24 Joe Jonas & Taylor Swift's apology


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Four: Culture)

Chapter Four of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.

00:00 Culture & transgressions

09:10 Dr. Kirk's family culture

19:40 Culture and meaning

29:58 Accusations in therapy & a hypothetical apology

35:14 Mob assumptions about Dr. Kirk

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Four Intro: Donald Trump Analysis)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Four with an analysis of Donald Trump’s apology.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Four Intro: Donald Trump Analysis)

00:08 Analysis of Trump's apology

09:02 Culture preview


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Three: Efficacy and Effects)

Chapter Three of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:00 Apology efficacy

12:35 Intensity markers

15:35 Remorse

22:37 Prior relationships

27:34 Independent vs. Relational vs. Collective peoples

32:28 Effects & Outcome

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Three Intro: Bill Clinton Apology, part 2)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Three with a continuation of the analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology. 


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Three Intro: Bill Clinton Analysis, part 2)

00:23 Analysis of Bill Clinton's 2nd apology

17:09 Bill Clinton's (lack of) apology t...

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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Two: Predictors and Goals)

Chapter Two of Dr Kirk Honda’s deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.

00:10 Predictors of an apology

18:08 Goals of an apology

21:19 Closure

35:04 Acceptance


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter Two Intro: Bill Clinton Apology, part 1)

Dr Kirk Honda begins Chapter Two with an analysis of Bill Clinton’s apology. 


01:05 Analysis of Bill Clinton's apology

30:16 Bill Clinton's grade


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Apology Deep Dive (Chapter One: Definition and Components)

Dr. Kirk Honda starts his deep dive on apologies and forgiveness.


00:00 Apology Deep Dive (Chapter One: Definition and Components)

00:27 Apology exercise

13:41 Definitions of forgiveness 

28:47 Happiness = Deep dives

35:55 Other terms in an apology View Post

Personality Disorders - All 14 (Deep Dive)(2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk does a deep dive on all 14 of the personality disorders. 


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Jeffrey Dahmer and The Dark Tetrad (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.


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Upcoming deep dive

Finishing up the first chapter of my deep dive on apologies and forgiveness. This deep dive is way more complicated and meaningful than I thought it would be. Publishing next week. Can't wait to hear what you think of it.

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Sex Offender Treatment

Dr Kirk Honda interviews an expert on sex offender treatment, Casey VanHoutan, LPC, SOTP. You can contact her at casey@iceprogrampdx.com.

00:00 Becoming a specialist with sexual offenders

06:03 Myths about sexual offenders

14:35 A potential profile

17:48 Sex education

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Hugs, Ethics, and Anger

Dr Kirk and Bob talk about hugs, ethics, and anger. 

00:00 Hugs, Ethics, and Anger

00:06 Hugs
02:52 Favorite trips
05:35 Bob & Dr. Kirk's ideal trip together
08:08 Patron break
09:04 OPP
11:10 Medical termination
14:51 Bucket lists
17:09 Justified anger View Post

The new chair

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The Psychology of Jeffrey Dahmer

Dr Kirk and Humberto review the new Netflix show about the serial killer, Jeffrey Dahmer. 

00:00 Jeffrey Dahmer & homophobia

24:09 Anne Heche & substance abuse

34:01 Assessment of Dahmer

1:24:23 Seeking closeness vs. sadistic psychopath

1:32:21 Show crit...

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More Therapists Getting Sued (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda and Bob review a case in which a therapist was unethical.

More Therapists Getting Sued


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Kirk's Developmental Milestones (2015 rerun)

[Rerun] Have you had moments that changed your life forever? Dr. Kirk Honda discusses his developmental milestones. 


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Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.


00:00 Bob's Return to Butler Syndrome and Other Things

00:35 Betrayal trauma

03:10 Emotionally distant

04:59 Butler syndrome

31:21 Charities & OPP

34:33 Kirk & Bob's first impressions of each other

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Drunk, Judgy, Stressed Therapists

Dr Kirk and Rebecca react to Reddit.


00:00 Drunk, Judgy, Stressed Therapists

01:15 Broken trust in therapy

09:42 Feeling judged by therapist

18:30 Shamed in therapy

22:26 The new chair!

32:00 Vinyls & estate sales

42:28 Stress in the profes...

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Therapist Complaints (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] We discuss a listener's complaints about their therapist.


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Lightning Round Rantings

Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.


00:00 Lightning Round Rantings

00:36 Tragedy & empathy

03:11 Biggest lesson in our careers

06:52 Relational trauma & anger

20:38 Therapist secretly testing clients

22:13 House of the Dragon

23:34 Se...

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Our Modern Life is Making Us Miserable - Interview with Dr Christopher Ryan (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Has civilization ruined our lives? Should we be living as hunter-gatherers? Is it against our evolution to have houses and cellphones? Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Dr. Christopher Ryan (author of Sex at Dawn) who answers these questions in his new book, Civilized to Death.


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The Brave Feminist Protesters of Iran

Nazanin Nour explains why the protesters in Iran are fighting and dying for their freedoms. You can find Nazanin on Instagram @iamnazaninnour and Twitter @NazaninNour.

00:00 Mahsa Amini & Iranian protests

14:44 Viral support & previous movements

27:40 Experience with mor...

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The Psychology of Armie Hammer

What makes Armie Hammer tick? What is vore fetish? Dr Kirk and Humberto watched the new documentary on Discovery+ and have a lot to say. 


00:00 Armie Hammer intro

06:07 Backlash to documentary

13:12 Love bombing 

25:50 BDSM

30:33 Grooming

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