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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 8)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 Lobbying & Growing Up Duggar

13:47 Police report & Josh's statement

29:10 The mindset of Jim Bob & Michelle

57:12 Child on chil...

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TToB: 16-year-olds are more likely to ghost romantic relationships than 21-year-olds. Tough of Bluff???

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 7)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 Perpetrators & their family

25:55 Should it be illegal to have children on reality TV?

56:52 17 Kids and Counting & intervening with chil...

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Attachment Theory Emails (Part 1) (2020 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk answers patron emails about attachment.

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 6)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 The Coogan act

31:16 Reality TV & the law (Patron-only portion starts)

46:26 Jon & Kate Plus 8 & child beauty pageants

58:45 Ch...

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 5)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 The Duggar's specials

11:44 The letter & taking action

21:52 Statute of limitations

38:41 Internet & the first season (Patron-...

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TToB: Although most claims of regional personalities are unfounded, research shows that West Coast people are more friendly, NE people are more creative, Southern people are more temperamental, and Midwest people are more relaxed. Tough or Bluff???

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 4)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 The Duggar family on TV

09:42 Duggar family structure

20:48 Parentification

30:57 Humberto's parentification

49:09 Moving forward fro...

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Attachment Deep Dive - Chapter 6 - Other Stuff (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Chapter 6 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory.

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 3)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 Early Duggar Family timeline

01:48 Miscarriage trauma

24:16 Having 19 children

33:54 Religious beliefs

57:39 Familial abuse in the Du...

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 2)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 The Duggar Family

13:35 Why do people enjoy the show?

29:57 Identifying with TV shows

39:46 Betrayal in parasocial relationships (Patron-on...

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TToB: When a customer maintains eye contact with the salesperson, that indicates they are more receptive to persuasion. Tough or Bluff???

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Duggar Family Deep Dive (Chapter 1)

Dr Kirk and Humberto analyze the Duggar family, modern Christian cults, the ethics of children in reality TV, and so much more.

00:00 Intro & child abuse

07:37 Deep dive road map

20:22 Caveats

31:22 Summarizing the Duggars

46:31 Other reality TV (Patron-only port...

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Attachment Deep Dive - Chapter 5 - Sex (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Chapter 5 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory.

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Cuteness Aggression, Fat Phobia, Introversion, and Daddy Issues

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Managing genuine apologies

11:26 Internalized relationships

27:02 PIS announcements & OPP

35:04 Cuteness aggression

55:29 OPP 2

57:41 Differentiation fatigue

1:06:28 Fat phobia

1:15:36 Dependent Personality D...

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Therapist Flirts With Client

Dr Kirk reviews a case in which a therapist flirts with a client.

00:00 Individual therapy within a family

10:35 Transfer & countertransference

20:50 Attraction to a client

40:24 Distortions & personality disorders

50:10 Therapist red flags

1:03:11 Emot...

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TToB: People who hang toilet paper rolls under (vs over) are more likely to be bossy overachievers. Tough or Bluff???

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Kirk’s Health Woes and Vulnerability Hangovers

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Kirk's health woes

24:39 Emotional processing

35:15 Graduate school burnout

48:36 Shame & bravery

1:03:20 Balancing vulnerability

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Attachment Deep Dive - Chapter 4 - Culture (2019 rerun)

[Rerun] Chapter 4 in Dr. Kirk’s deep dive on attachment theory.

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JK Rowling, Clingy Boyfriends, Woke Professors and Other Things

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Intro

01:07 The Witch Trials of JK Rowling

12:12 People-pleasing impulses

19:20 University lawsuits

33:49 Deep dives & outlines

36:38 Choosing a graduate program

50:55 Do what is helpful

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Abuse Compassion, Histrionic Favors, and Kirk Apologizes

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Intro

02:11 Compassionate & accurate conceptualization

18:28 OPP

22:58 Reflections on episodes with Sue

38:09 Indecisive or histrionic?

48:01 Sleep training

54:03 A teacher's apology

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TToB: Listening to an astrophysics lecture can promote generosity. Tough or Bluff???


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Infidelity, Kirk Triggers, and Wrong ChatGPT

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Emotional infidelity

09:48 Gender generalizations

17:43 OPP

19:13 Flaw shame & perfectionism

35:34 Compassionate burnout

1:08:07 OPP

1:08:50 Who does ChatGPT think Dr. Kirk is?

1:35:21 PIS mission statem...

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Attachment Deep Dive - Chapter 3 - Attachment Therapy (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk describes how to use attachment theory in therapy.

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Cheating, Self Aware, Kirk Transference, and Dumping Clients

Kirk and Bob answer patron emails.

00:00 Betrayal trauma

17:18 Being 'too' self aware

33:03 Kirk transference

42:51 Ethical termination of therapy

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Sex Worker Therapist, Breadcrumbing, Objectophilia, and Cognitive Dissonance

Dr Kirk answers patron emails.

00:00 Sex work therapist & disclosures

12:54 Violating trust

20:26 Overcoming insecurities

26:16 Breadcrumbing

33:14 Objectophilia

38:40 Cognitive dissonance & projection

49:44 OPP

51:04 Gender oppression

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Therapy Firearm Ethics

Dr Kirk and Bob review a case in which a counselor was sued for not following the standard regarding firearms and other issues.

00:00 Introducing the ethics case

05:20 Therapy firearm ethics & crisis plans

20:19 Treatment resistance documenting

35:16 Unexpected situati...

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Attachment Deep Dive - Chapter 2 - Attachment Theory (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk describes attachment theory in this 4 hour episode.

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Mom Interview - (Chapter 3) - Mom's Self Esteem

Kirk interviews his mom.

00:00 Intro

00:18 Was Dr. Kirk always a nerd?

08:08 Sue's musical abilities

11:37 How does Dr. Kirk take after his parents?

31:35 Sue's perception of parenting

1:05:57 What sibling role did Dr. Kirk play?

1:11:05 Was Dr. Kirk a di...

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Mom Interview - (Chapter 2) - Kirk's Shame

Kirk interviews his mom.

00:00 Elaborating on the last episode

06:02 An unforgettable family vacation

18:25 Family traditions & gifts

30:36 Differentiated parenting

33:52 Christmas family traditions

42:18 Sue's Swedish heritage

43:33 What's special ab...

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