sexplanations

How should we celebrate our anniversary?

Below are 5 of my ideas. If you have more just let me know and I'll add them to a follow-up poll. 

Proud sexologist

Dear Sexpla(i)nauts, 

A while back I asked which topic you'd like me to cover next on Sexplanations and so many of you responded 'sex and disabilities.' It really motivated me to put together the thoughts I have and commit to an episode that I've wanted to do since day one. 

This t...

Which topics?

These are some of the topics swirling around my head. I'd love for you to have a say in which ones you'd like me to cover sooner than later.

SUCCESS!

We're doing really well with Patreon on right now and I just wanted to drop a quick note to let you know that I'm paying attention. I'm grateful and I'm proud. What a great community to be a part of!

Ever so warmly, 

Lindsey

You earned it!

I think this video was made in 2004. My friend Louey (who now works for SciShow) directed, shot, and edited it for a school project. 

As a special treat for being a part of our $6,000 per month funding of accessible sex education, I'm giving you an unlisted link of it. 

It's a stra...

YOUR SEXPLA(I)NAUT CERTIFICATE

In case you don't already have it, here you are, friend!

Human paint brush

And here's one of me covered in paint from the Project for Awesome fundraiser.

Family Portrait

In case you were having a difficult time finding this in the backlog of our Patreon wall posts, here is a family portrait for you to cherish for all times ;o)

So close! Let's celebrate!

Sexplanations Patreon total is edging toward $6,000 per month which I consider a big deal. Every dollar is a valuable part of increasing sex education accessibility and I take that very seriously. 

To celebrate reaching $6,000 I plan to share a unlisted video of me from 2004! It's a silent fi...

HFS Podcast ideas?

In the next couple of weeks I'm going to be on the podcast Holy Fucking Science. The format is four people on couches sharing scientific research with each other. Each episode has a unique topic and for the one I'm on the topic is sex... 

All four participants including yours truly are suppos...

Today

I thought you might like knowing what my day consisted of so here's a rough outline:

8:15 Alarm went off on my phone. I was sleeping on the couch because the night before I'd painted my room "lime kiss" and I was avoiding the fumes.  I hit snooze twice and finally woke up to my daughters argu...

Questions?

I'm doing an Ask Lindsey episode and thought I'd reach out an see if any of you have short questions I should include. 

Warmly, 

Lindsey

GIVEAWAY FROM OUR SPONSOR

There's a giveaway in this episode and I'm looking forward to one of you winning the prize!

Sexual racism

I've been asked multiple times now whether or not having racial preferences for dating, sex etc. is a form of discrimination. The answer is yes but having any preference is a form of discrimination and psychology (like me) would argue that some discrimination is good. Discriminating between children...

April's Video Topic

Choose which topic or topics you'd like me to cover in April. It's a perk of supporting the channel.

Blooming

A few months back I did an interview with someone writing an article for late bloomers. The author of the article was a self-identified late bloomer himself and was very surprised that my answers to his questions were so shame-free. I realize that this is because there is a social stigma attached to...

We're still learning

Thanks to you I have an amazing way to let people know sex isn't sans struggle and those who suffer aren't making it up in their heads. Thank you for affording us all a place to learn about all things sex, not just the sexy things. 

VIDEO EARLY!

To show you how much I appreciate you, I'm giving you a thirty minute head start on today's video. It's all about friends with benefits and as usual promotes curiosity. 

Thank you for making what I do possible! 

Warmly, 

Lindsey

Gratitude

Oh my goodness, thank you so much, I'm in awe! The channel is doing so well and it feels really energizing. I just got back from speaking at University of Idaho in Moscow. Today I bought groceries. Tomorrow I'm shooting an episode with Matthew and Tuesday I leave for presentations at Georgia Souther...

Pick the topic:

Why is this happening!?

It is mind-boggling to me that people who have been abused are more likely to be abused again. I hate it and feel distraught everytime I think about it. So I made a video out of my own curiosity to understand why. Hopefully it is helpful information to you as well and we can all use this knowledge t...

THANK YOU!

Your generosity has been a precious gift to me. 

<3 

Lindsey

Just wanted to say...

You're awesome! I check out Patreon pretty frequently because it's one of the most direct measures of the channel's sustainability. I see your names and think of each of you cheering us on. Even though you might not hear from me in a personal one-on-one, please note that I have triple hot sauce warm...

I'd really love your feedback

This was a hard episode for me to do. It's not a socially acceptable lesson I'm promoting but I really believe in it.

So to really sit with the feelings I was having, and understand them, I asked my teen girls to let me read the script to them and talk about it with me. Was I off? Was I suggesting...

What a week!?

Can I just say how grateful I am for your support? I love that you have no checklist of expectations for our content. That I don't have to write back and forth explaining what I want to do and how it benefits you. I LOVE JUST BEING ABLE TO DO MY JOB and know that you trust and support me. GAHHHH, it...

YOU!

In case you hadn't seen the video yet, we invited Nick (the original Sexplanations' director) back to shoot a cinematic foreplay scene and he nailed it. I'm really thankful he pulled this off in his busy schedule, I'm thankful to Matt who did everything else, I'm thankful for Adam & Eve supporti...

WOW!

One of you asked what our biggest accomplishments were for 2016. It didn't make it into the final cut of the video but I have an answer for you.

1.  Traveling together as a production team successfully. Matt and I have very different personalities but we managed to tour LA and coordinate with...

NEW POLL FOR 2017 TOPICS

I just took a few moments and thought about my recent curiosities and the things that I enjoy teaching. Now they're listed as options on the poll I created and you can click on as many as you'd like to give preference to those you're most excited about me covering. This of course is not a comprehens...

You've earned yourself 6 new fanfics. Here are the first two:

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Wade Wilson, DEADPOOL

When I think about dating Deadpool I’m conflicted. In his on-screen relationship with Vanessa Carlyle, he’s extraordinarily passionate and committed, what Dr. Sternberg calls Fat...

Toys for the holidays

I'd like to send each of you a toy from my ever-growing collection as part of your Let's Get Physical Perk. Adam & Eve has sent a lot of toys to me and they're still in their boxes, only handled once or twice for videos, but never used for their intended purposes. 

If you'd be so kind, I'...