Could you suggest a title for the video on how to respond compassionately to abuse disclosure?
Also, if you wrote comments on the video itself, and you're willing to post them on the version that goes public on Wednesday, that would be wonderful.
THANK YOU!
2020-09-01 17:31:49 +0000 UTC View PostI just posted a link to a video about my experience with secondary victimization and some of the ways we can do better to prevent trauma like it in the future. This is a poll to help with next steps. Feel free to choose as many responses as you'd like.
2020-08-31 20:11:30 +0000 UTC View Post
hi. As you may know the last few months have been a new kind of challenging for me. An old abuse case that I had resolved for myself as a victim has new victims which means I'm often recounting the abuse and revisiting the trauma while building a case for all of us to stop the perpetration.
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Hi All,
As you know the last few months have been tricky. I'm working on it and trying to make sure sex education stays a priority. I recently got to talk with my dad on camera and it was really special to capture how thoughtful and curious he is. Obviously influential on my psy...
2020-08-26 18:42:01 +0000 UTC View PostToday I'm feeling more vulnerable on Patreon than ever before. There has been an influx of patrons who believe that by supporting me here they will unlock nude photos and videos or at least feel justified in asking for them. This has made being on this platform and my email inboxes uncomfortable....
2020-08-06 22:34:30 +0000 UTC View PostHow do you feel about me reformatting the Sexplanations' episodes into a book?
Do I need to write all new sex education so it's original?
Would you like a book-version of the video episodes?
What do you think would be best for the world?
2020-07-09 19:15:18 +0000 UTC View Post
Here's the link to the google drive of photos: https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1SzSdsRXSJCHfxj-FWwjpcmg4LOd204Dz?usp=sharing
The company that makes the vibrati...
2020-07-08 19:33:04 +0000 UTC View Post
This week I signed a contract to work with Crave. They make the vibrating necklaces I wear which are super quiet and well-built. Anyway, as part of the set-up, I needed to send them photos of me with the Vesper (the necklace). With quarantine this has been very difficult but eventually we pulled ...
2020-05-24 21:29:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi All,
Let’s have a board meeting. I’m writing from my couch in my new house four blocks from the sea on the east coast of the Baja Peninsula in Mexico. As you may know I came here to improve my physical health, work on a book, and make your support go further. I also happen to b...
2020-05-24 20:53:15 +0000 UTC View Post
I've wanted to make this episode for a long time and I feel so grateful that I finally got to. Especially now with so many people sheltering in place and needing contraceptive resources. Thank you for making this possible!
2020-05-20 20:56:24 +0000 UTC View Post
so...
2020-05-17 19:33:28 +0000 UTC View Post
I didn't answer all the questions you asked but here's some of them.
2020-05-17 19:31:42 +0000 UTC View PostHi everyone,
I wanted to give you an update on some changes that we’ll be seeing which may affect some of your pledges. Due to new laws passing in several countries and US states, Patreon will be required to start charging sales tax on some pledges starting July 1st. 2020-05-16 22:08:55 +0000 UTC View Post
I'm a little stuck on what to do with this episode. I don't love the thumbnail or the choppiness of the cuts at the beginning and the end. I'm not sure if it needs music in the background, or if it should be scraped altogether. I do think it is important and I did find myself talking to the scree...
2020-04-14 23:24:13 +0000 UTC View Post
Hola from Baja,
I hope this video brings you joy. I had fun making it and watching it. She’s a silly sexologist ;o)
Quick updates:
You’ve been on my mind everyday for the last month but it has felt like I didn’t know how to move the words from my throat to my mouth, or in this case my keyboard. Now is the time. I’m ready.
As you may know from my last email, I live in a small town called La Ventana in Baja C...
2020-03-09 01:59:45 +0000 UTC View Post
As you may know I rarely have the same guest twice. This is because there are so many voices out there; I want to make room for more people to share their stories. That being said, I've worked with a select few on multiple projects because I enjoy their company. Amp, for example, feels like a kin...
2020-02-01 22:10:52 +0000 UTC View PostIf you're able to see this post it is because you pledge at an amount which gives you access to voting and decision making. Thank you. I'm writing to check-in and pose some questions.
First, I'm in El Sargento, Baja California Sur, Mexico. I'm parked at an RV park here where there's a...
2020-01-13 20:52:50 +0000 UTC View Post
This is a preview of my interview with Midori (author, artist, educator, expert). It has been edited from so the footage is only 20 minutes compared to hours BUT I’m uncertain whether or not to cut it shorter from this. Usually we crop videos to less than 10 minutes, closer to 5. I’m going to...
2019-12-30 19:10:17 +0000 UTC View Post
This week a TikTok video made by another sex educator on how to put on condoms was flagged by TikTok and I think removed. She didn't say anything about sex, just how to put a condom on properly. Such a bummer. We made /this/ video a couple of weeks ago before going on the road and I know that it ...
2019-11-14 02:32:06 +0000 UTC View Post
What's the difference between them? Is one better than the other? Am I a monster?
2019-11-07 02:43:28 +0000 UTC View PostOver the last week I have mailed out close to 100 packages. Half of them went to people who donated $200 to the Road Tour during the livestream and another chunk went out to you yesterday. I took them boxes and a laundry basket into the post office of small town Dillon, Montana (where I’m told ...
2019-11-05 20:35:46 +0000 UTC View PostThe other night I had a dream that I was running down a hall in a big convention center to my wedding. But I wasn’t sure about getting married so I stopped to ask these girls who displayed Baliwood Anime on a table in the hall if they had any sex questions. My thinking was I’d give them sex a...
2019-11-05 20:28:06 +0000 UTC View Post
I'm borrowing a computer and the brain of my editor to operate a live stream that works. It is all set up and scheduled to connect us at 5:45 Pacific.
Here's the agenda:
Say hi. Talk about the upcoming tour'ish adventure. Rally pledges to pass my sexual belongings onto new homes...
2019-10-24 21:18:22 +0000 UTC View Post
