The older I get and the more years I've had without contact, the more I appreciate how hard my mom was trying to be a good mother, to keep her family together, to share love with us, with me.
I went no-contact in 2010 and my life got substantially better but my heart still hurts.
2023-05-14 06:50:24 +0000 UTC
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Remember that baller Consentacles and Consenticles faux-Ancient-Greece disk painting-thing I did for my friend, Clare?
2023-05-11 04:32:06 +0000 UTC
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Here's my round-up of projects and posts from April!

Sometime after I moved to Portland, I bought my first sleeping bag. Considering that that was 17 years ago, this guy has held up really well! But time comes for us all and the case-thing that keeps it wr...
2023-05-03 06:13:21 +0000 UTC
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Lemony Snicket is my potted Improved Meyer Lemon tree that I got abouuuuut…. three years ago? Oh wait, it was not too long before the pandemic, actually. I remember because we had a couple stay at our house for a few days and we had to relocate Lemony from her spot at the dinner table so all th...
2023-04-23 22:29:21 +0000 UTC
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Well, I finished them!
My 18th century pockets, I mean.

They’re ‘sposed to be worn like this â¬...
2023-04-22 07:02:00 +0000 UTC
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Y'all ready for some Vintage Erika Comics? This one comes fresh out of the oven circa 2003ish, when I was experiencing my very first heartbreak as a 19/20-year-old.

2023-04-20 21:36:15 +0000 UTC
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Today is Friday, April 14th, and I am walking my cat on her leash around the yard. Literally, right now, as I write this, I’m typing with my right hand on my phone while the loop of her leash is hanging on my left wrist.
2023-04-18 03:44:18 +0000 UTC
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I did it! I drew all 171 word prompts that you guys shared with me for the Joy Project! (This is a giant collaborative fiber art piece illustrating the things that bring people joy)
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2023-04-12 23:36:07 +0000 UTC
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Here's all the posts and projects I got up to in March!
I Still Stand By This (drama-alert) (🔒 Private!)
Locked because the internet is literally ...
2023-04-05 03:12:45 +0000 UTC
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Ok, so I was sitting on our couch just now and the setting sunlight was casting the most amazing shadows through our thin white curtains. There's this curvy little crabapple tree dead center in front of the living room window. The trunk and branches aren't, like, gnarly, but they're ligh...
2023-03-31 05:11:11 +0000 UTC
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I did my first creative work on the Joy Project (working title)! You remember? That collaborative project that I used to lure a bunch of you into signing up to this Patreon? Yeah! That o...
2023-03-26 04:34:32 +0000 UTC
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In my last post, I mentioned that my recovery from COVID has been rough, but I didn’t really get into details. And even here, now, where I’m posting the photo/text updates I shared privately with my friends-only list on Instagram, I still don’t really express just how shockingly bad this h...
2023-03-21 07:18:02 +0000 UTC
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Winter is over when I can turn the external water supply back on 🙌 (If this collection of footage looks completely random to you, you probably live in a climate where your pipes don’t freeze)
COVID has completely derailed my life for the last few weeks and honestly it’s been a rough ...
2023-03-20 05:13:00 +0000 UTC
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Matt is an avid climber (indoor bouldering, specifically). Even though he's invested in pants specially made for the activity, he climbs so zealously that he regularly reduces them into scraps.
2023-03-15 20:23:41 +0000 UTC
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Matt found some photos he took of me (on film!) in 2005.

I was 21, an American spending her semester abroad in France while he was a 19-year-old student in England who had been reading ...
2023-03-13 19:38:32 +0000 UTC
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This is my first day of feeling comparatively better since I got knocked off my ass by Covid (first time around for me! I only coughed up a little blood, hardly worth mentioning U_U)
You remember that I am obsessed with the late 1980s fantasy princess doll, Lady LovelyLocks, ...
2023-03-08 06:31:38 +0000 UTC
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(Cross-posting my essay from the Oh Joy Sex Toy Patreon! For patrons on both accounts, this one has some minuscule tweaking. See if you can spot it!)
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2023-03-03 05:38:34 +0000 UTC
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What the hell happened last month? Let's recap.
February

New eBook added!<...
2023-03-02 01:14:29 +0000 UTC
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I squawked in delight when I spotted the beginnings of tiny white flower buds on Lemony Snicket, my potted Meyer lemon tree!
January 29

Her last two batches of flowers bloss...
2023-02-24 19:11:52 +0000 UTC
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In the 18th century, dresses had pockets. And I don’t mean, like, little pockets that can barely fit a chapstick. I mean, they had industrial-size, heavy-duty, strap-on pockets the size of bread bags that were tied on to the body separately from the dress itself, which simply had discrete slits...
2023-02-17 23:59:19 +0000 UTC
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Ok! So!
My collaborative fiber art project proposal was... very successful. Way more successful than I anticipated.
2023-02-09 21:15:41 +0000 UTC
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Two years ago my dear friend, Clare Bayley, made the mistake of commissioning me to illustrate an inside joke.

At the ...
2023-02-07 02:07:25 +0000 UTC
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Sunday, January 29

Dude, occasional drinking is where it is AT. It’s like, once every few months I get to feel like just ~magic~. People who drink regularly? They don’...
2023-02-01 06:17:52 +0000 UTC
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Sunday, January 22

Hoisting the Tig out of the shirt drawer. Her little arm all jutting out as she resists. She likes to nest in there, digging up the folded shirts, leaving carnag...
2023-01-29 01:49:48 +0000 UTC
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The following comic was made for Oh Joy Sex Toy's big fundraiser-thing in April, but I'm sharing it here with you guys because I want to and I can U_U Obviously, please don't share this one!

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2023-01-25 08:10:00 +0000 UTC
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Sunday, January 15

Matt has a bunch of friends he’s made at his climbing gym, but they’re all gym-friends not real-life-friends. UNTIL TODAY, that is. One of his gym-friends (w...
2023-01-22 06:47:50 +0000 UTC
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UPDATE 2/3/23: Submissions CLOSED.
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I went to bed with this Patreon still needing three more sign-ups before I could start 2023-01-17 23:27:49 +0000 UTC
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Sunday, January 8

Very domestic day! Laundry folding and then cooked a whole-ass chicken casserole to deliver to one of my 2023-01-14 23:06:37 +0000 UTC
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Every so often I do a daily self-portrait project for a set period of time. Once I did it a whole year but this time I’m gunna stick to just January. Every picture is taken on my phone with a remote timer in my hand.
Sunday, January 1st
2023-01-08 04:50:48 +0000 UTC
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