A big warm welcome to new community members Lauren, Alyssa, Kristie, Alan, Christine, Elena, Seline and Fen! You're the reason I do what I do!
Today, cuties, as a follow-up to the LDR video last week, I want to remind you that it's OK to ask for attention, it's OK to ask for alone time with...
2020-04-19 11:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
The top request this week was to hear about coping with LDRs, since even local partnerships can feel like they're long distance during quarantine. So today, I offer you 10 ways that help sustain my LDRs, and hopefully that will be helpful to you!
In case you don't ha...
2020-04-12 16:26:51 +0000 UTC View PostTimes are lonely right now, so we can all be forgiven for romanticizing any memory of IRL connection. That said, some people really do need to stay in our past.
So when I find myself feeling nostalgic for a past partner — particularly one that gave me more low points than high ones — I...
2020-04-05 13:02:39 +0000 UTC View PostThis is a stressful, uncertain time. So I've put together 10 ways to feel less shitty as we cope with the social ramifications of COVID19:
1. Mind your temperature. If you’re feeling cold, take a warm shower. If you’re stressing and panicking, put an ice pack on your fo...
2020-03-15 10:05:18 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
As I prep for my international move tomorrow, the stress got me thinking about sustainability during growth. Specifically, how much we need to stabilize our foundation when we go further and build higher.
Today is a short n' sweet video on this topic. I hope it serves....
2020-03-08 16:49:18 +0000 UTC View Post
A big warm welcome to our new community members Emily, Stacie, Melanie, Veronica, Mary Jane, Rebecca, Baylee, Maria and Nadine! So happy to see our extended chosen family expanding like this!
OK CUTIE - Question: do fears and self doubt still creep into your relationship(s)? Does ro...
2020-02-23 13:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Ever been vulnerable, then started second-guessing everything? Brené Brown coined the term "Vulnerability Hangover" to describe this feeling.
In today's Patron Exclusive video, I share 3 ways I keep this reaction in check, so it doesn't turn into self-sabotage.
I hope it serves...
2020-02-09 14:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
A big warm welcome to our new community members Ella, Anne, Katie and Köatzin!
So cutie, we've talked about breakups recently, and I want to expand on the post-breakup process. Non-monogamy allows for flexibility, which sometimes means keeping our exes around, just in a different context. ...
2020-02-02 13:00:02 +0000 UTC View PostHappy Sunday! And a warm welcome to our new community members Sam, Lauren, Emily, Sylver and Samone!
Today, let's unpack how the book Spiritual Polyamory discusses non-monogamy through a Buddhist lens. (View in browser or on th...
2020-01-05 20:12:54 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
Originally this was going to be a review of Clementine Morrigan's 35 page booklet Love Without Emergency, but it basically became me saying "yep, I agree" every 5 minutes lol — So instead, I will just give you the link to ...
This interview was a labor of love with cuties Roz, Jaz and Logan of @adventureswithchaco - I hope you enjoy!
2019-12-08 18:03:51 +0000 UTC View Post
There can be a LOT of pressure on romantic and sexual relationships to be each others' primary emotional support, but sometimes our partners just can't help us (and vice versa!).
Today I share 4 things that guide me toward solutions, when this happens to me and my partners. Hopefully that's...
2019-11-24 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View PostLet's talk gaslighting, and how to navigate it. Below are 10 recent examples of gaslighting in my own life, and how I responded. Hopefully it can be of service to you!
NOTE...
2019-11-17 13:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie! As you may know, I got married this week! I also got dumped.
In this video, I unpack this as a case study to real-time processing of 2 extremely different relationship statuses happening at the same time. Hopefully it can be of service!
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2019-11-10 13:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostToday, let's explore how The Americans defines "cheating" within consensual non-monogamy.
Spoilers ahead for seasons 1 & 2.
First a quick recap of the show: 2019-11-03 13:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Hi cutie!
This is a very broad overview of how I stay patient during the slooowness that is evolving poly boundaries, and growing as people.
I offer a few core focuses that really serve me well during hard conversations. Hopefully it can be of service to you, too!
Xx
Morgan
Hi cutie!
Today's bonus video is about how I process my needs in real time, especially the ones I fear expressing. I hope this is helpful to you!
Hugs
M
The following contains spoilers for Netflix's She's Gotta Have It miniseries (Episodes 1 & 2)....
2019-10-06 12:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Today, I chat with hierarchical spouses Laura & David (together for 10 years, poly for 4).
Feel free to skip to the timecode of your choice!
0:33 - Opening the Marriage
2:50 - Defining (and Evolving) Boundaries in Hierarchy
6:58 - Safe... 2019-09-29 12:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Saying no to friends or partners can be uncomfortable. We need to draw lines and set proper expectations, but don't want to cause harm to them, or the relationship.
I don't use the term "people pleaser" because the more accurate phrase for me is "conflict avoider." Too many...
2019-09-22 12:11:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey cutie!
You ever been told, "just talk to them about it"? But how do we even start? Or what if we already tried, and it went terribly?
In this video, I offer 10 phrases that help me express my needs effectively, by owning and reporting how I feel, without attacking my partner. I ho...
2019-09-15 16:27:56 +0000 UTC View Post
Today we look at how to self-advocate (if you choose to) around non-monogamy, especially with judgmental or defensive family members.
Willow Smith is our case study!
(see the full Red Table episode here: 2019-09-08 13:00:26 +0000 UTC
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Hi cutie,
Today, I'm sharing a piece that I basically just rewrote from scratch, based on an archive post from 3 years ago. I want my Patreon archive to stay fresh, so I'll often go through and update points on which I've evolved. But when I saw my old Relationship Escalator post, I knew it...
2019-08-25 12:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Today, I chat with Brody @brody_polinsky about the following topics! Feel free to skip to the timecode of your choice, if you don't have 12 minutes to spare!
...
2019-08-11 12:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
The following contains spoilers for Black Mirror (Season 5, Episode 1: "Striking Vipers").
Is it possible to have a virtual reality metamour?
Black Mirror, ...
2019-08-04 12:05:29 +0000 UTC View Post
Trying a new format this week, let me know your thoughts!
Today we look at how to push back on ignorant questions about non-monogamy, while staying composed and not getting defensive.
Angelina Jolie is our case study! (P.S. it's a super old ...
2019-07-21 11:59:59 +0000 UTC View Post
If you're hungry for even more chats about non-monogamy, here are some cuties with a lively and nuanced podcast!
Hope it serves.
xx
Morgan
Interview Number 1, baby! These interviews are 100% funded by patrons.
Today, I chat with Sierra @alkalineasfuck about the following topics!
Feel free t...
2019-06-30 12:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
I’ve been searching far and wide for more complicated polycules in pop culture. (By which I mean — “we have plenty of triads on TV, where are the quads and beyond?”)
... 2019-06-23 12:01:00 +0000 UTC View PostWe hit our 50+ community goal! Big thanks to Crystal, Kara and Madeleine for putting us over the mark!
Next I’ll start interviewing poly folx from all over the spectrum of relationship styles, genders and orientations!
Stay tuned, and keep spreading the word, cuties. Thanks so much ...
2019-06-18 08:52:39 +0000 UTC View Post