Ted to Liz, 1978
Added 2023-01-31 06:08:04 +0000 UTCOn June 15, 1978, six weeks before his famously public indictment for the Chi Omega murders, a jailed Ted Bundy composed a bitter, melodramatic letter to his ex-girlfriend, Elizabeth Kloepfer. The letter was then (mistakenly?) addressed and delivered to Carole Ann Boone, who was still living in Seattle at the time. Carole dutifully forwarded it on to Liz, and included a brief, facetious note:
“Dear Liz,
Enclosed is *your* letter. Either old Bun is slipping or he's playing a prank on us. I believe a similar incident originated in a 1948 Joan Crawford movie. We could chastise him soundly (I love to nag) or else forget it. Life is hard. Ted gets a bit addled (adled?)
Regards, Carole”
Liz later described receiving Ted’s “sickening” letter in her book, The Phantom Prince:
“At the end of June, I got a strange letter from him. It was addressed to me but had been sent to Carole Boone who forwarded it to me with an odd, light-hearted cover letter. Ted wrote that he had heard I had gone to the police and had been saying some ‘fairly uncomplimentary things’ about him. He said he was having a hard time believing I would do something like that:
‘From a purely factual perspective. the reports filtering back to me reveal what you allegedly told these people and what I told to you over the phone that night from Pensacola are two very dIfferent accounts...
I still cannot imagine you broadcasting the conversation we had. While I will not pretend to be Prince Charming, I do think it fair to say that for 2 and a half years now I have done everything to keep your name out of the news and avoid embarrassment for you...
Several friends and reporters have called me a fool since they believe that you were in some way responsible for the things that were happening to me...
But if you did go to the police, you went to them thinking they might be able to use what you thought you had heard. What if, dear Elizabeth, the King County authorities were desperate enough to charge me, based on your representations...
Do you want to hurt me so badly that you would twist the truth to see me swing from some wooden beam by my neck?...
AlI I am saying is that you could have gotten yourself in much hot water, and you are fortunate that what you thought you had was of no value to the police...
If you did what I have been told you did, you were not thinking of your welfare, or Molly’s, or your parents’, or your new life…’
As sickened as I was by the letter, the guilt trip didn't work any more; it didn't change the truth. Several weeks later he called and sheepishly told me that he had never intended to mail the letter and that he was very sorry that he had ever written it. We talked for less than a minute. It was the shortest phone conversation we had ever had, and it was also the last time I talked to him.”
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Tiffany, I would love to read the letters he wrote to Carole and her to him. I remember Dorothy Lewis saying in her documentary that Carole sent her all the letters Ted wrote her. Any chance you could get copies of those letters?
Linda Lasater
2023-02-10 18:00:06 +0000 UTCWow this is a manipulation and gaslighting masterclass. No wonder Liz could never let go of him. If she was persuaded to believe even a portion of this, she'd be crippled. That last paragraph would have broken me. He understands people and human nature very well, he's like a grand master of human chess.
Joy Mulvaney
2023-02-06 06:31:42 +0000 UTCI think he probably did send it by mistake. He's obviously not at his best here; his prose is usually of much higher standard; he usually captures attention well and has a natural flow; he doesn't here. The attempts at manipulation are less sophisticated and more obvious, too. It is quite child-like compared to some of his other epistolary communication I've read. I think the psychological state must have been off; he doesn't even come off as authenticate to himself - a facade he was unusually good at constructing. It is like he has some confused sentiment he wants to convey but doesn't feel stable and able enough to put it across in a way that pleases him.
Joseph Wartke
2023-02-05 15:23:43 +0000 UTCIt's certainly indicative if one aspect of his personality. Though none of us are 1 dimensional. There is the manipulative murderer Ted but there is also the Ted who stopped a purse snatcher, saved a child from drowning, prevented suicides and wrote a humorous letter to a Washington retailer asking if they ever planned to open a store in SLC. That letter, which you posted not long ago, offers great insight in that it wasn't written for an audience outside the recipient. He wasn't acting, putting on a show or trying to be anything other than himself. Sorry for the block of text; creating a new paragraph on the mobile site isn't easy
Nunya consoin
2023-01-31 17:42:53 +0000 UTCYep, exactly. It really shows you the kind of person he was.
Tiffany J.
2023-01-31 17:27:44 +0000 UTCTed knew within minutes of meeting Liz that she was co- dependent and that he could manipulate And mentally abuse her until he couldn’t. I truly feel he completely destroyed her with his lies, manipulation and his gaslighting her. Thank God, she was finally able to breakaway and see him for what he truly was. I love ready the letters he wrote to Liz and Carole.
Linda Lasater
2023-01-31 14:36:08 +0000 UTCFrom the very beginning that letter is full of manipulative, narcissistic, guilt-tripping. Can be summed up as "I'm so 'sorry' to intrude into your happy life while I'm miserable and incarcerated but it's your fault I'm here and you never loved me, but I still love you. Poor me. Boohoo."
Nunya consoin
2023-01-31 12:20:22 +0000 UTC