VULNERABLE
Added 2019-06-03 19:43:48 +0000 UTC
(Here is a sneak peak of my blog ;) I'll be officially publishing it tomorrow. Let me what you guys think! I feel so much passion behind this one, and I'm interested in your opinions! <3)
In my college success class, my professor was discussing the concept of self-analysis; how the way you perceive yourself and the way others see you can be completely different. There is a difference between caring what others think about you and wanting to be seen a certain way. I don't let what others think stop me from doing what I love, and at the same time, I want to be seen as a happy, outgoing person who is always here to help. I want to live in a more social world. I want smiles and greetings to be more common than not. In situations that I feel insecure; I find myself unable to speak. Silence is a dead give away of having self-doubt or can be seen as rude and closed off. Being rude or mean to impress others is one of the largest misconceptions of our time. The other day I heard someone say "people who are rude usually feel powerless in their own lives, terrified of not being in control." I was so mind blown! Whenever I think of a "bully" from my past; there isn't one that doesn't fit that description. It's sad when the only thing "bullies" have control over is the emotions of another. When someone is polite and kind-hearted, they are seen as confident and secure. Wanting to be there for others and be the "sunshine" in everyone's day is what impresses the ones that matter.
Vulnerability traditionally is identified as a weakness. I think being vocal and open about the things that make someone feel weak or inferior can only make them stronger. Some might fear that if the world sees who they truly are; they will be judged. The other day Vanesa Seco said, "I find it amusing that we're all pretending to be normal when we could be insanely interesting instead." The ways that people differ is what truly makes this world so amazing. Pretending to be like everyone else, deprives the world of the unique gifts it has given. When I open my heart to the people around me; I can fell myself grow more comfortable with being who I truly am. Picture the heart as a home. No one can get inside if the doors are locked. Choose to have an open heart. Unlock the doors. No one is going to love you unless you're one hundred percent yourself. Make a point to smile and be kind each day. Thanks for making this world "insanely interesting"; if you ever need me, my doors are always open! ;)
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You are beautiful, kind, strong and a very intelligent person. Always stand up for what you believe and never settle for what others think you should be.
2020-12-30 22:09:12 +0000 UTCWhere to begin, hhmmm, well the minute I read this blog, I instantly knew why I have been so drawn to you. They're are millions of beautiful women to look at everyday. So, I knew there was something about you that was more than just your outer beauty. But it was only an intuitive feeling until I read this blog. You are insanely interesting! Love and happinesss are the keys to confidence and security and clarity and ATTRACTIVENESS and the way to live happily ever after. Being this love and kindness, that you are allowing, is the ultimate BEST way you can help other people. Helping others isn't always about physically helping out being there for people. It's as you said, sometimes smiling and flowing love in just your behavior or your thoughts towards people that is a huge help. Because, we can never FULLY know all the details of another's difficulties. Sometimes they have to be in this low spot to better help them decide what they truly want, and then move up the emotions toward feeling better. And that's where you being this love lifts us up. So reading your inspirational blog has confirmed, the universe has given me a blessing in you on this social platform. Thank you so much for being yourself, leading by example and choosing to be happy daily... And then sharing it with us! Much love to you β₯οΈ
2019-06-17 16:36:54 +0000 UTChi i just subscribe you are very pretty you should make sexy videos and put a higher tier
2019-06-04 05:14:31 +0000 UTCI canβt begin to explain how much that means to me. I admire your mindset and I love how you can relate to my thoughts! Thanks so much for sharing your story it makes my heart so full that you appreciate my workπ
2019-06-03 20:05:25 +0000 UTCI think it's fantastic. I find that the more I allow myself to love others and to love the imperfections of the world the more others love me and the more I am loved, the more I love myself. I find that the world is for the most part filled with good and awesome people who fear exposing themselves, but in truth when we relinquish that fear, others feel more comfortable with us and we more comfortable with the world we live in. Jada, I think you've done an awesome job with your blog so far! I've really enjoyed reading it and I love that you have this amazing openness and willingness to share who you are. I think you should be incredibly proud! Keep it up! I'm sure you're making things better for all your readers and by doing that you're making the whole world a better place for everyone! Cheers to you!
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2019-06-03 19:58:14 +0000 UTC
