I see

I see

95% or relationships are not meant about romantic pairing

Most of connections that comes are for a specific experience to have in our life by sharing space together

and that’s all what it is about

Some journeys are longer some short

what ever it is even if we are sexually active in that connection it doesn’t meant it is partnership that will lead to long life relationship

Let’s broke the ,,Long life rs pattern,, in our minds:

Which is super confusing in our upside down collective believe about intimate connections via when there is intimacy involved ( which mean our unmet needs and desires included) we tend to idealise the connection and like that push it unconsciously in direction that is not true and natural for the connection

+ if we don’t communicate out or there is no open space for clearly communicate out of observation of ourselves and the dynamic

then we rather end up in fight or broken hearted or in toxic repetitive patterns

And doing from that connection and experience something else than it is …

I see many ppl including my own experience to suffer in rs just bc I was driven by strong desire for romantic connection(coming from collective beliefs+unmet childhood needs) equal between men-women

covering the actual truth about what the reality in the connection is

For example I met this guy with whom I desires to build life but all we were facing was mother-child dynamic.. i was super unhappy trying to change or manipulate him in to get what I wanted, torturing both of us, but on the end of the day it didn’t work bc it was mother-child dynamic🤷🏻‍♀️,

that were there for me meant to reflect on myself

Any person you are intimate with came to your life just so u can became closer to yourself

or just have profound realisation or new experience or anything that will help u reshape the world of you

I feel any connection is here to make u richer

I see connections in my life for what they are teaching/bringing me

& if I will tend to make it something else & push in direction that doesn’t feel natural to it

then we are both loosing freedom in it & postponing the real reason why we cross paths and infiltrating with unnecessary amount of suffer

Communication is my Excalibur!!

best way to keep freedom and respect is transparency

Anyway I wanted just say that if you see connections for what they are you will always remember even if they are uncomfortable that they serves to your essence in the most beyond loving way .. ..this is the way of heart

And on its end will be possibly dealing with sadness and cry but your soul at peace and grateful

To understand what are connections in your life about can safe so much of your energy and shift you in completely different empowered way to flow with nature of life

I feel maturity in this movement of un-idealising connections and relationships I can enjoy fully what they are about and let them go with peace when its their time, remembering them w appreciation and gratitude to servers me how I needed (even without me knowing I needed it at the mmt)

but either if you choose stuckness and repeat is not wrong bc we are just experiencing this life, but if you feel natural currents of this reality it will end up in presence that’s never repeat and coz expansion on this planet to higher D..

Photos by Gabriel galvez