Happiness is a Warm Sun

You are welcome here just for the fun of it, you don't have to buy a thing. I enjoy sharing my favorite music, fashion and my sometimes clumsy, but always joyful dancing with each and every one of you! If I can inspire something of value to you, I'm a success as a human. I read all of your messages and it makes me proud to hear I've inspired others to find joy in their bodies. I'm always thrilled to see people ditching associative titles and sharing and celebrating whatever genuine self they have to offer, whether that title be "female" and the societal standard that comes to mind, "sexy" and the societal image that it conjures, "American" and the personality expected, "Manly" and the limitations of personality that are expected to belong to that term, "Muslim" and the narrow concept associated to such a diverse sect of humans, "Nationalist" and the hateful supremacy we imagine dominates their every thought..

 Through my encounters with all types of people I have learned that those who are seeking control over another and those who act out with violence are really just hurt, scared, ignored humans who have been overlooked or abandoned by "the cool kids" in some way. I strongly believe that all humans are capable of healing and that it is the responsibility of those who have found happiness and self love, to extend their kindness and protection to the weak and fearful. Perhaps they would stop seeking comfort in taking, and like those who will understand this message, could seek comfort, recognition and joy in a human community that does not give power to labels, whether that be the power of fear, power of desire or power of love and instead recognize and celebrate, even reward the pieces of the individual that you want to see grow. Ive had my life threatened on multiple occasions, raped, drugged, abused in many ways, but never did I truly hate any of these humans who were acting out. Never have I recognized any of them as pure evil. I see in all of them humans who were once made to feel unworthy of love, attention, success and did not have the emotional tools to recover. Give love where its needed most and we will create a future where everyone acts with love.