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RELATIONSHIP COURSE: Love Languages

Different people give and receive love in different ways. Dr. Gary Chapman’s book The 5 Love Languages teaches what love languages are and how they help us nurture and enrich our relationships.

With Dr. Chapman's expertise and Jonathan's insights as a licensed therapist, this course will guide you through the five love languages and help you understand how you and your loved ones prefer to give and receive love.

RELATIONSHIP COURSE: Love Languages

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"Get the oils" oh my gosh 💀😂

levi duppong

Oddly enough, I struggle with whether my *primary* love language is words of affirmation or physical touch, because physical touch, for me, is a given, if i'm not able to touch my partner or my friend, they wouldn't be my partner or friend for very long. every visit with my family starts and ends with hugs and kisses. getting a hug at the end of a day from my lover doesn't mean something *extra* special for me because it's so necessary, it's a given. does that make me a physical touch person? the quiz says things like "to celebrate an achievement, would you want a hug or a gift?" and i'm thinking, i need hugs every single day so it wouldn't be a celebration. *but* getting a kiss in public would mean a lot to me becuase i have trauma in my history about epople hiding their feelings for me from the outside world. knowing my partner is proud of me and willing to let the world know he loves me, that would mean a lot, and public displays of physical affection would touch me. jono posting all over social media that his wife is amazing - that would definitely work for me, bud.

Jennifer Sherman

I'm a words of affirmations person, and I actually *have* been working really hard on my cross stitch! it's a picture of me and my sister and it looks flipping rad and this spoke to me :)

Jennifer Sherman

Hey Jonathan! How did you get the text on your computer screen that you showed in a video? I want to do that.

Elliot Summer

I really enjoyed this. It's very practical and usable. I was laughing a little bit at the end about the Thinker/physical touch. I'm a Thinker, and I hug people and I do fine with people hugging me, but I have to expect it. When someone comes at me with a really enthusiastic hug that I wasn't expecting I literally duck and cover or try to put a barrier between us. If someone says, "Can I hug you?" and gives me that three seconds to process what is happening before attacking me (and unexpected hug 100% feels like an attack) I react so much better. That said, I know who the huggers are in my life and I don't mind greeting with a hug. I just have to know it's coming.

JollyLlama

The explanation for the gift giving and quality time really hit home for me. I don't like that people assume gift-giving means that we are materialistic people. For me at least, the gift is like a manifestation or a physical form of the care and love someone has for me, and if it has no thought behind it, then it feels empty and that can feel heart-breaking. With quality time, even with ADHD, I make a huge effort to stay off my phone or avoid getting distracted when I'm with someone I care about. And when I do really care and love that person, it's so much easier to not get distracted because nothing else matters to me than the person in front of me.

gummi

0% receiving gifts for me. I like big gifts on holidays/birthdays but usually its because its practical or results in quality time (like kitchen appliances or board games for the former and latter). Little things are nice but not the most important! I am a touch person. I love love love a big hug and a kiss.

Aurora Maplefury


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