Life update

Hi pals I wanted to catch yall up because I’m aware I haven’t been uploading much lately there are reasons I swear!

The initial pause was because I was moving house in fact I’m still moving house peoples vans keep falling through and I’m getting quite stressed out by it as I’m running out of time in the old place but I digress

I’m also in the process of getting divorced the paperwork in my life truly never stops and whilst my divorce is super amicable it’s still a stressful process I don’t deal with formal situations well and you don’t get much more formal than divorce proceedings

I also am getting my breast reduction in three weeks time

Please don’t misunderstand I am delighted but I’m sorting out payment plans and pre ops and organising recovery time with my day job

Speaking of my day job I’m currently applying to be made permanent there

All of these things are ultimately great things for my future and this isn’t meant as wahwah my life’s so hard I’m mostly excited BUT these things are taking up my headspace and time and so there is going to be a pause in my ability to produce videos. I adore Ref Rambles but each video from research to final product is at least 20 hours and between my day job which is how I pay my rent and all the things I mentioned above I just can’t make videos probably for the next month at least.

The reason I’m writing this is because I really appreciate you guys’ support and I don’t want you to be hanging on waiting for videos that aren’t coming for a while I want you to be able to tap out of being a patron for a month or so if you want to (and that’s totally fair by the way) you can.

As ever I appreciate your support so very much and when my life calms a little I can’t wait to create videos for you guys again!