We LOVE Paula!
Added 2025-03-09 20:55:59 +0000 UTCHi, kids! Darbo here.
Paula, the lesbian who basically keeps this ship afloat, lost her mother suddenly last night. Needless to say, she is devastated and could use all of the kind words and thoughts you can spare. I told her to worry about herself and take an IMHO break, but I know she's still going to regularly check everything, so feel free to post your support here or on our social media.
Also, we'd love for her to not have to worry about food for a while. When we lost Jerry, Curtis said that people sending food or gift cards for food was such a relief at that time, so hopefully this can be comforting to Paula, too! As she's in Costa Rica, sending money through PayPal is easiest for her. Her PayPal is paula.madrigal.rosabal@gmail.com (@paulamr04) If you can, please consider sending a little something her way.
Thank you, everyone, for lifting up our Paula today <3
Comments
I’m so sorry for your loss. Please be kind to yourself. Sending you love
Vanessa Brown
2025-03-15 03:54:54 +0000 UTCHey Paula. Yr Mama was very proud of you. My Mumzie will hook up with her in that other dimension, and look out 4 her. You will miss her everyday, and they like it that way. Mxxx PS - can send a few dollars from my deadly funeral fund, but don't know where
M S
2025-03-13 14:37:26 +0000 UTCbrain damaged older lezzo here. that email, not a a pay pal. Why not have a secret go fund thing? I suffer from cost of living daily in Oztraya, but have put aside a fiddy for P, with no where to drop it. Sort this out will ya.
M S
2025-03-13 14:28:06 +0000 UTCbig hugs Paula
Anthony Morrow
2025-03-12 11:56:14 +0000 UTCsending you love paula 🫶
ryanniee
2025-03-12 07:48:26 +0000 UTCSending all the love and positive thoughts your way Paula 🩷
Olivia
2025-03-11 22:57:43 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss, Paula! Take all the time you need. Thank you for all the work you do here in keeping us entertained and everything on track. Much love to you and your family <3
Kyle Daileda
2025-03-11 21:19:01 +0000 UTCPaula. There are no good instructions for grief. Everyone has their own challenges and quirks. Losing my mum was a lifetime marker. Allow your grief to happen and it won’t come bouncing back at you later. 🌹❤️
Rob_Nem
2025-03-11 20:35:05 +0000 UTCsending lots of love paula. sorry for your loss
phogoat
2025-03-11 13:17:06 +0000 UTCSending my love to you and your family Paula!
Matthew aka Peace2Mateo
2025-03-11 10:27:01 +0000 UTCSending lots of love, I’m so sorry.
Emily
2025-03-11 03:36:48 +0000 UTCSending so much love to you, Paula. ❤️ Thank you for sharing these photos of your mom with us
Emily
2025-03-10 22:00:58 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss Paula! The IMHO community loves you and sends you love from the US.
Cody Driver
2025-03-10 21:55:58 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry. It’s so hard. My mom was diagnosed with cancer almost two years ago and it’s been such an emotional journey. Hang in there. Sending love to you as well.
Danu Calderon
2025-03-10 17:22:16 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry Paula. Thank you for all the good energy you bring us. My heart goes out to you.
Danu Calderon
2025-03-10 17:15:58 +0000 UTCPlease realize in this time how much joy you bring to other people. Save a little of that for yourself to help you grieve and get to the other side of an awful life hurdle. You're loved Gal, Even from homos you never met before.
Andy B (;
2025-03-10 15:06:29 +0000 UTCi cannot begin to express how much this means to me ❤️🩹thank you all so much, truly
Paula Madrigal
2025-03-10 14:09:10 +0000 UTCI'm so sorry, Paula! Sending you so much love!
Micayla
2025-03-10 08:16:51 +0000 UTCWe love you so much Paula 💚✨ I am incredibly sorry to hear about your loss. You're an incredible person who has a positive impact on so many around the world on a daily basis, and we are so thankful to your mother for bringing us such light. I hope you find comfort in your memories and loved ones during this time.
Kris Solberg
2025-03-10 08:10:34 +0000 UTCThat‘s horrible and I‘m so sorry for your loss Paula. I wish you all the love and support you need right now. Take all the time you need to grief. Take good care of yourself! Sending you much love 🩵🫂
Peter Giovanni
2025-03-10 06:03:37 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss Paula ❤️ Sending you lots of love and I'll be keeping you in my thoughts ❤️❤️❤️
Kenan (pronounced like Kevin, but with an N)
2025-03-10 05:53:24 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry Paula, I can’t begin to comprehend how you’re feeling, I’m sending you so much love from Ireland 🇮🇪❤️
Kissa Rosebud
2025-03-10 03:13:51 +0000 UTCMy heart breaks for you, Paula. Sadly, I understand what you are going through. Several times over, actually. My condolences to you and your family. Do what you need to do to care for yourself and your loved ones. We are all here to support you.
John O
2025-03-10 02:29:31 +0000 UTCSending you love, sweet Paula 🩶
Katharine Murphy
2025-03-09 23:14:38 +0000 UTCSending you so much love, Paula!! So sorry for your loss! You're such an important part of our weird little community, and we all love you! 💚
BenjiB
2025-03-09 22:58:24 +0000 UTCMuch ❤️ to you and your family Paula, I am so sorry
Matthew Taylor
2025-03-09 22:33:02 +0000 UTC💜💜💜💜💜
Pure NRG
2025-03-09 22:20:24 +0000 UTCPaula, I am writing this to you from my mother’s bed in hospice where she is actively dying. I am so sorry for your loss. I have such enormous sympathy for you. The only comfort I can find is by knowing that my mother isn’t in pain any longer. 💕 sending you something via PayPal.
Jenna
2025-03-09 22:19:06 +0000 UTC❤️❤️❤️
Juliann Lee
2025-03-09 21:35:16 +0000 UTCPaula, I'm very sorry for your loss. I know how hard it is to lose a mother. Don't be hard on yourself, everyone grieves in their own way. Remember all the great memories with your family during this time. And know that she's is always with you. Also take as much time as you need to take care of yourself. Sending love 💜
Krystina
2025-03-09 21:33:38 +0000 UTCsending so much love paula
rornrnronrnron
2025-03-09 21:25:24 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss, Paula.
Carrie Tobey
2025-03-09 21:24:35 +0000 UTCLove!
Matthew Montelongo
2025-03-09 21:22:25 +0000 UTCWishing you all the love Paula ❤️ Our loved ones never leave, their impression lives w you always
Todd Carr
2025-03-09 21:17:12 +0000 UTCAw so sorry to hear this! We love you Paula!!!
Vincent
2025-03-09 21:15:20 +0000 UTC💓💓💓💓 Take care of yourself my fellow lesbean💓💓💓💓
Ali Taylor
2025-03-09 21:11:41 +0000 UTCWe love you and appreciate you. I am sorry for your loss
Joanne Robertson
2025-03-09 21:10:31 +0000 UTCI'm so so sorry for your loss! Sending all the strength and love!
Sophie
2025-03-09 21:09:47 +0000 UTClove you paula ❤️❤️❤️ sending love to you and your family
Ramen Hamster
2025-03-09 21:07:42 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss. I hope you’re able to take all the time you need to navigate this 🤍
Cora
2025-03-09 21:06:56 +0000 UTCPaula, sending you and your family so much love. I'm very sorry for the loss of your Mom.
just kc
2025-03-09 21:05:23 +0000 UTCLove you Paula❤️❤️
IHateBerwald
2025-03-09 21:03:33 +0000 UTCsorry for your loss paula. sending you and your family so much love 💛
Rose Aquino
2025-03-09 21:02:27 +0000 UTCPaula, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself in whatever way you can and allow yourself to grieve on your own timescale. I lost my dad last year, and it wasn't sudden or unexpected but it is just an experience you can't really prepare for. I hope the love and support of this community helps even a tiny bit at this most difficult time xxx
ImaginaryMenagerieManager
2025-03-09 21:02:22 +0000 UTCI’m so sorry Paula - much love, you are loved ❤️
adrianne
2025-03-09 21:01:34 +0000 UTCSo sorry for your loss, Paula. May her memory be a blessing ❤️
Sarah Shhh Later
2025-03-09 21:01:00 +0000 UTCAll the love in the world Paula! 💗 Losing a loved one is always tough but I hope that you don‘t ever have to feel lonely, in a lovely community like IMHOs ✨ The P today stands for Paula 💗
Salvatore Miranda
2025-03-09 21:00:00 +0000 UTCAll my love to Paula and her family 🖤
Daniel Massarani
2025-03-09 20:59:16 +0000 UTCYou have her smile ❤️ I’m so sorry for your loss.
Drew Scarymore
2025-03-09 20:59:07 +0000 UTCPaola, I cannot even begin to understand how you feel. I hope you have a strong group of friends and loved ones you can spend time with. Lean on those you love the most in times like these, and I hope you have many loving and cherish memories with your mother to help you through these times. <3
David Rocha
2025-03-09 20:58:32 +0000 UTC
