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Khadija Mbowe
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Can the besties just be gal pals?

Welcome to another Patreon exclusive. Sharing more of my unfolding thoughts on performative bisexuality, particularly with the femmesss!

Can the besties just be gal pals?

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Wow this dropped on my bday and I missed this!? Wow! I have had almost the exact experience but no tests or anything. This was definitely refreshing 💀

Catherina (Copious Cat)

Ouuu I felt and sadly live this! I’m still considered young enough to explore and expand but I don’t want to “experiment” with women, I never had a chance to have a “phase/trial” in my early years but 🤷🏽‍♀️I don’t have anyanswers yet. But, I can totally relate.

Catherina (Copious Cat)

It is super interesting and frustrating how much having an out or recognized relationship impacts how people view you as bi - I have…weird attraction, and am like 60% for masc folks, 40% for femmes, but like…have been told (or thought!) I’m “not gay”. I get it’s frustrating to have someone who can pass as straight, and escape the discrimination, but I also wonder if my bisexuality would’ve been stronger if I didn’t have internalized biphobia and had been more able to explore my gayness as a younger person. Not trying to blame anyone or anything other than society, just thoughts from a bi lady who grew up in super homophobic background

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