Why You Have To Make Women Wait for Commitment

As you may know, women are very good at hiding secrets. As Chris Rock once said, men and women lie the same but women tend to lie "bigger". You can see this play in real life if you pay attention: men lie about a quick fling with a girl whose name he forgot and will never see again, women lie about the children being yours. See Chris's point? 

It  can be frightening to a young inexperienced man who is deciding to enter a relationship with a woman knowing, innately, that women are good at manipulation, guilt, and overall making themselves the victim in all situations, which is a running joke passed down from our boomer fathers and grandfathers. The good news is that men have a special leverage when dealing with courting women who they are not sure about. 

Our special leverage is time. While we do command rational thinking and deductive logic as a tool for vetting even the most experienced of men can be fooled by women's disposition when courting and vetting a woman. They are good at what they do. Usually more experienced men know this and try to pass this on to younger generations of men but now we have a blocking mechanism that hinders the passing of basic red pill mental models to men that truly need them: female emotionalism. 

I'm here to tell you to ignore emotionalism at all costs. This is your life. Make them wait. Marriage, hell, even a committed relationship is a big risk to men. There are no problems that marriage solves. None. So understand first, that even though women say "Why do broke men worry about gold-diggers?" in a chastising tone, you still have a lot to lose in opportunity costs with other women, future resources you'll have, and overall mental health. Make them wait. 

When you make a girl wait you give yourself and her time to evaluate the relationship and what she brings to the table. Remember, the first few weeks of meeting a good candidate will involve sex and mostly lustful feelings for each other. This can blind a man to the reality of all the skeletons she has in her closet and this is exactly what women with a troubled past want. Don't give in. Things you have to know before committing and submitting yourself to romantic love are debt, STD status, genetic diseases, past sexual behavior, how she handles problems in her own life, bad family situations, and so on and so forth. You may be okay with some of these things or take a gamble but trust me, you want to know as much as possible before you commit. 

I am personally going to recommend 3-6 months, you may need less, you may need more but at the end of the day IT IS YOUR LIFE. You have to protect it or else someone else will dictate your life for you, and that is hell. 

- Nuke