PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): We are entering the soft girl era
Added 2023-12-25 05:00:03 +0000 UTC
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Probably lower quality males. Most Chads don’t need money to get women, & high quality men don’t go for gold diggers.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-05-06 23:23:31 +0000 UTC
Ok wow you got into a train of thought there
I can’t place all of it
But i think all of it combined transports the message
. yea , the echo chamber is not great .
glad you seem tobe in a relationship you are enjoying
Peter
2024-03-06 20:15:06 +0000 UTC
Ngl The manosphere and its constant flood of airhead girls full of entitlement and delusion and youthful nievity ( i had it too but it wasnt this materialistic hell scape.) does do my mental in.
The manosph podcasts, the feminine energy talk, the girl boss the future is female feminists. Its just everywhere
Can it really be THAT bad out there. (Whats your experience? )
Its like destilate if the pornhub world and blue hair feminists (male and female abd i used to like bright hair! Now its ruined)its kinda ugly.
Then you have all the mra crowd or women whoes obvious demographic are men. They are biased. And. Their empathy to be taken with a grain of salt“you don’t bite the hand that feeds you“ salt
And it would actually be nice to have some real world views, maybe the real world is that bad. Maybe 80% of everyone is swimming around that swill.
But then if would be nice to have a template for what high quality looks like.
Peter
2024-03-04 04:39:29 +0000 UTC
A soft girl wants a Sugar Daddy. I want to see who these soft girls are with. Probably all Chads.
Eric Linden
2024-03-02 12:28:39 +0000 UTC
How is it simpy?
Masculinity is developed/earned, unlike femininity. It's only natural if I have neglected developing it, that it would not be "up to a basic standard."
Enough money is partially decided by me. For example, if I was poor, why would I start giving money to women? I need to fill my cup before I can give. Especially if I want to be able to give a lot.
We have to compete for mates. Hypothetically, if a woman chose another man instead of me, why? Because those men were enough and I was not. If she chose me, then I showed promise that I'd be enough.
You can't tell me I am enough, for the types of relationships I'd want, because you don't know what qualities I possess or not...
I will know I am decent quality (dating-wise as opposed to for example my soul's value lol) when it is not rare that I find mutual attraction. Then I can choose among those interested in me.
Mack T
2024-01-22 05:45:51 +0000 UTC
Yeah it seems a lot of these women just want to be lazy & don’t understand how much hard work & skills well-developed femininity requires. It should be a relatively equal exhange of value & contributions, always.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-01-02 11:56:30 +0000 UTC
I should have expected no less.😝 You are a thirsty girl. 🤪🤪🤪😂😂🤣
And i mean that neutrally as human possible. We all need a drink of water.. 😇some people just enjoy the water more than others😊😊😊 first ex. guys generally more that girls.
But what is interesting is how you are “allowed “ to express it.
A guy in his “cougar” hunting young fresh meat.
Yeah we have differ names for that.
Infact i was recent told off for being impossibly sexist coz i said. Avril lavinge has aged really well. Bruv i was told OFF! No one joked about a guy being thirsty or anything…
( its interesting to see my thought process go from happy go lucky playfull to serious, almost macabre😮💨 dee breath)
🙂
Back to topic. I would actually also like most street interviews with men. These brainless teen girls who think the average wallmart bagger makes 150k a year… they are featured way too often
Peter
2023-12-31 05:05:59 +0000 UTC
Sorry Alex, that 30-year old plus — her parents didn’t “fail” her. They didn’t fail to make her “safe”.
Newsflash: None of us get handed anything. We all have to work for it. It did not come easy for anyone.
I say this for everyone. This took me a long time to come to terms with. Money for men is a must have requirement. How much is scalable, but try doing it without money and see how far you get.
After financial crash of 2008, I was a “broke Alpha Chad” and I rented a house that went into foreclosure. Naturally I stopped paying, but women assumed that it was mine, and I literally looked like I played Tight End in the NFL.
When they found out I was making $34k, they bolted.
I never claimed I was owner or tried deceiving anyone. They just made assumptions.
I never blamed them either. I knew that I had an expectation built upon me and I had to meet it. And through years of hard work, sacrifice, delayed gratification, I achieved it.
Entering 4th year in a major career pivot change of $100k (giving me greater leverage when I decide to test market), 3rd consecutive year of maxing out all retirement contributions (close to $150k), no debt, 800+ credit, and worked myself into phenomenal shape again.
However—There’s 0% chance that I put in all the work, sacrifice, delayed gratification, for any woman to tell me that she can go into feminine energy with me now & live “soft”.
Soft = BS. You better bring value to my life if you want in. Most important: respect. I have earned it, and hit the road without it. Sexually, not accepting the “I don’t do that” BS. Can’t cook, you better learn.
Soft life my arse. You need to bring the value I want to get the Value you want.
Bill Washinski
2023-12-30 12:23:44 +0000 UTC
The amount of female comments has gone down 🤪 where is your eye candy matt?
Peter
2023-12-29 07:34:30 +0000 UTC
Great video. Eye opening and uplifting plus bringing the focus back on ourselves as men.
I must add, after watching this video, as a man, I FEEL FUCKING AWESOME!!! This is a complete 180 degree turn from when I watched your videos for the first time back in March.
First off, it is uplifting to see women (in general) are starting to maintain their side of the street with the purpose of having a positive relationship with a man and the family they create. Plus, Alexander, I appreciate the points you made about what men need to focus on to develop and maintain our masculinity which is our side of the street.
Your six points evoked some key thoughts and feelings I want to share:
- as mentioned earlier, as a man, I FEEL FUCKING AWESOME because I feel strong in all six points.
- i believe feminism has raised the bar for men on points four to six and men should take advantage of the opportunity to step up. This is a positive evolution from the traditional patriarchal ways. Version one of the patriarchy was lazy, simple minded, and sometimes cowardly (especially when spanking children) when it came to addressing points four to six. Men stepping up to the new standards of masculinity in these areas will help society "level up".
- I believe your third point on men being responsible for determining family morals is the foundation for masculinity and the family. Men keep things simple and consistent. With my two daughters, I have three rules: (1) be kind and gentle; (2) listen to daddy and daddy's helpers; and (3) keep your hands and feet to yourself. It is amazing how many unwanted behaviours are addressed by these three rules. Furthermore, a man allowing himself or his woman to have a blind spot in their morals will cause everything to unravel. This, I have personally experienced. The sooner these blind spots are identified and addressed, the better.
Alexander, thank you for the topic. What a great way to march into the new year.
Mark Bryski
2023-12-25 17:04:39 +0000 UTC
Soft girl? Ok, can she be loyal?
Alexander Knight
2023-12-25 14:25:23 +0000 UTC
I think it is crucial right now for us men to stand up and not be taken for these crappy "I don't know what the f I want " rides anymore. We just went through 30y of "girl power" and portrayal of 50's woman bashing. Now the 50s woman is reborn into the "soft girl"? Soft girls will encourage toxic masculinity, not the healthy one. Wtf?
Mircea N.
2023-12-25 11:40:50 +0000 UTC
I learn so much from these videos. Amazing!
I'd never heard of the "soft girl" movement, and honestly, it sounds too good to be true, but let's hope it is a real trend that will kick modern feminism to the curb once and for all.
You nailed it when you said that women don't want to live in survival mode, it's brutal, hell, it's brutal for men, but we know how to deal with it.
Anyway, watching this started my day on an optimistic note.
Merry Christmas!
Jon of Arc
2023-12-25 08:37:50 +0000 UTC
Idk if I want a girl on the extreme side of being soft, but I do want a feminine woman and need to develop my masculinity better. I am also far from being a good enough provider (even if there was a wonderful women who came along). I still have time to work on it, but I need to get there well before “middle age.” It’s tough, because there’s still the drive within me to be intimate with women, but I’m not “enough” yet. Sure, some women may still like me, but I think I lack most short term and long term value traits. It’s going to take time.
Mack T
2023-12-25 06:15:52 +0000 UTC
In other words, women are doing what they have always done best - MANIPULATING any which way for their own best interest in the moment