PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Should Women have reduced credibility when it comes to making decisions in a relationship?
Added 2024-03-03 02:00:04 +0000 UTC
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This is the way I see it... Men are trailblazers, cutting down the vegetation and making a smooth path for his family. But because he has to stay focused on the 'big picture' of where they are going, it falls to the woman to tell him about the things he cannot see on the flanks. Basically, HE is up close in the thicket and she is stepped back - two perspectives helping each other get through life, neither more important.
g0ld3neag1e
2024-03-19 18:16:46 +0000 UTCI love hearing these details about Emily & your relationship! It’s lovely to know there is one good relationship/family (the one I knew, died of old age). I hope you have more kids too because your parenting sounds fantastic.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-03-04 19:38:43 +0000 UTCDetails are much more important than they might seem. They really add up too, if they’re not appropriately tended.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-03-04 19:31:39 +0000 UTCResponsibility without authority/power is slavery Authority/power without responsibility is tyranny
Peter
2024-03-03 18:34:20 +0000 UTCHow Alexander and his wife divide the decision making and responsibilities isn’t important. What is important is that you do. For the most part, it’s masculine/feminine, but not always. With some couples, the man is the one who loves cooking more. That doesn’t make him feminine. Some things are partly shared. With my wife, she suggests places to go on vacation. Then I pick one, and we discuss it. Then we pick rough dates. Then we both attempt to get the time off at our jobs - sometimes we can’t both get the same time off, and we have to go back to the drawing board. Then I take care of plane tickets, and she arranges accommodations. It works for us.
Eric Linden
2024-03-03 16:27:40 +0000 UTCI think Alex never heard of the concept of senior and junior partners xD Sexes don't need to be equal for cooperation to work. For the vast majority of recorded time, men were in a superior position and viewed as superior. Now the balanced shifter and women are in the superior position. It is what it is. You will have pathologies either way. And fully equal partnership while having different functions... Is not something attainable society-wide.
Cezary Skoczek
2024-03-03 10:22:22 +0000 UTCJoint decision and big picture doesn't mean more important, can often be the opposite where men are so lost up their own buttholes thinking about abstract philosophy that it falls on women to do the important work of making sure children and fed and clothed.
Alexander Grace
2024-03-03 03:39:36 +0000 UTCI think the title here is more provocative than the actual content. My partner doesn't do the dishes or the laundry.... her mother does! She often decides where to go on vacation. Generally I figure out how to pay. The only thing slightly questionable is that having started out by saying men and women are just different (rather than one sex being better than the other) Alexander goes on to say men make the 'big picture' decisions implying women make the less important ones. So I'm curious about who should make the decision about whether to have (or try to have) another baby in Alexander's world view? Is it the man, the women or a joint decision?
Andy
2024-03-03 03:01:47 +0000 UTC
