PATREON EXCLUSIVE: What are the ethics of sleeping with a woman you wouldn't commit to?
Added 2023-07-03 08:59:30 +0000 UTC
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Tldr: the list of character, trait and standards he said for others is also an aspirational list for you yourself to meet before you try expect that from others . In that match for any list for others is a list for yourself to . That is a thought I hadn’t had until another Patreon Commenter mentioned it , and that is a very powerful thought …. It’s not all about getting, you start and then you expect the same. If you want to Viktoria six model, are you the male equivalent ?) I have previously heard about thinking about what you want you want an partner? What are the very specific traits and values you want and need? Start with a very long detailed list and keep whistling it down to something like your top five actually very important traits And go from there I’ve never really gotten around to doing it, but Matt list sounds like a very good starting point I don’t think there will be much to add to his list Especially since things like personal preferences be used for music or sports are covered by a person being genuinely interested in growing together (I forgotten which S that would be) I’m a firm believer that before you set standards for others, you should meet the standards yourself in that a list of requirements for your partner is also something that you would bring to the table, and as such Matze list is much aspirational for him (me) as aspirational for his(my) partners. And I honestly hadn’t thought about that way I had expected myself to fulfil the requirement before requiring out of others, but that very specific link of a list of traits and characteristics for my partner. If I meet the same characteristics myself, I had never thought about That was a little bit of a revelation Thanks for the comment section, expanding on the video and my previous perceptions 🤝
Peter
2023-07-06 05:47:07 +0000 UTCIt is something, I also had not thought of that, a man providing sex without the relationship that the woman is hoping for is analogous to the man providing relationship with out the sex that he is hoping for. As such both are bad situations to be in. The point about agency and treating someone as an adult in allowing them to make their own mistakes is one. I had an argument over recently. The argument was if a guy wants to hold out hope against hope and the woman is forthright about the situation then it is entirely up to him And my feeling is that you can be part of the problem, and the pain that they most probably will feel for you cannot Even if someone wants to hurt themselves, I reserve the right to not be part of them hurting themselves But this definitely requires there to be open communication about the intention Is the situation is just unspoken and one please the fifth and plays done with this because well, I never said that I would, but I also never said I wouldn’t. That is a fairly shitty thing to do with that friend zoning or having a sex buddy I think in either situation, you can initially try it and if you are forthright about the situation to 3 times and you can still see the other person being invested beyond what would be usual for the casual arrangement then I feel it is your duty to withdraw out of the situation . But they are surely people that I just fine with that arrangement.
Peter
2023-07-06 05:44:18 +0000 UTC
