PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Why women use indirect methods of conflict with men

I can’t relate to this but I’ve been gaslit, accused of being indirect despite being brutally honest in what was bothering me. He didn’t understand that I didn’t care about blame or accusations, just expressing my needs & desires, so that we could have a chance at a proper relationship. Either bc he only has experience with very different women or because he is just a broken liar. :/

RhodiumMaiden

Usually you don’t give so much advice pertaining to people in active relationships. This was one of those cases and it is great advice how to gently train each other how to interact with each other , is such a fundamental skill!!! not only in conflict resolution, but in everything from conflict to, how the other person should treat/treat you!, it makes me a little sad I don’t have anyone to use this on right now but I do recognise that in the past the i was sorely lacking in this. I hope in the future of this video and the methods pop into my mind and if not, at least have the presence of mind to look it up again.

Peter

Your realisation fits very nicely to the recent video. Matt did wondering if understanding equals compassion and that women would be better able to engage with the make experience This would very much speak to that concept, and if it works this way, perhaps it would work the other way If those darn feelings that rule a woman’s world would not be the one wall, and almost to be all

Peter

I had a realization. Many men are frustrated that women do not take accountability or responsibility for their actions. Is this because of evolutionary reasons, that if a woman was more accountable and responsible, or had traits that would lead her to have these behaviors, that she was less likely to reproduce? This would mean that women are biologically hardwired to avoid accountability, as it’s counter to their survival instinct. Whether this is wrong or not, I think this has helped me realize why women are the way they are, and helped me take a step forward in feeling more empathy towards them. I hope to someday apply all the methods I learned from this video. According to Mark, it seems that it will likely be met with resistance from women, but I now think that these approaches to help the women in our lives become more direct to help us help them, are the key to relationship success.