Almonte Tells Me Why I'm Ignorant

Imo true romantic relationships are about trusting someone so much that you don't even think about behaving some type of way, being 100% how you are, transparent and being comfortable with it. And I don't see how you can have that intimacy with different people at the same time, obviously both of them might be attracted to somebody else but it won't be worth it because of what I said before, and I don't think that discredits their "love". That's very hard to find tho and unrealistic tbh. Would love to see more with Almonte

These two should collab more often.

Ong, especially when Almonte was about to spit sum facts.

Enock Seri

what kills me is why we gotta have so much fucking vocabulary to life like fuk just live!!!!

bro i just love this video

Almonte: *breaks it down practically, unbiased in his judgment, real examples to support his claim Sneako: lets oversimplify everything. Ppl I went to college w represent the world. Nah but this was a good talk. Ppl definitely need to be more honest w themselves on what they want. But it's about making open relationships part of the conversation not cheating or forcing monogamous ppl to act on every impulse. I don't think anyone is 100% committed to anything, you can have your dream job, love it but feel tired with it some days. But I think it's still an accomplishment to have put your energy into this one thing and see it grow. No one's the same person they were 5 yrs ago so the food analogy ain't it. To each their own. We do gotta throw out the old paradigm where ppl choose to stay with ppl they hate. But there are ppl who know how to communicate and make their relationships worthwhile, not an obligation.

Sneako: unapologetically says problematic things all video long Almonte: "some people say 'ain't nobody rlly straight'" Sneako: tHAt'S hEtERopHObiC

honestly this is such a good learning experience for sneako, no shade just keeping it a buck.

19:56 hahahahaha

sneako rlly thinks that asexual people are just people who can't get laid.

i'm with almonte on this one. it seems that while sneako is able to explain his views and experiences in life, he forgets that a lot of people don't necessarily share the same views and experiences on relationships, cheating, polygamy, etc. Also, he be interrupting tf outta almonte...

Pure and true monogamy is impossible, yes. Temptations and thoughts about others whilst in a monogamous relationship is innate, animalistic and inevitable desire deeply intrinsic within us all. No one is void of it. Where monogamy is possible and where it thrives is in the asymptotic effort on the part of the couple to love one another wholeheartedly with the knowledge that they are both susceptible to having thoughts about other people they’re attracted to. ‘Asymptotic’ is the important word here. It means that one will come as close as possible to the ideal, but will never attain that ideal. The couple needs a dignified self-awareness which allows them to see and acknowledge their proclivity for polyamorous thoughts. What needs to be made clear is that suppressing these thoughts and desires is not a bad, unhealthy or detrimental process for an individual. This is because LOYALTY, just like fucking, is PART of our intrinsic animalistic desires. Loyalty is found in tribal behaviours of animals and in their possessiveness over their territory. Loyalty to their herd and loyalty to their land. They are possessive over these things because these things provide STABILITY. And animals, like humans, thrive off stability. Long-term allegiance to one’s clan and allegiance to one’s belongings means comfort, confidence and assurance for animals and humans. There are people who want and desire to be with one person only and they are not “delusional”. They may have thoughts about other people, but their suppression of these thoughts is seen to them as something valuable because they realise the sexual relationship they have with their partner is fulfilling as is, and their sexual loyalty to their partner is stable and sufficient for their happiness. Others, I’m sure, will suppress them because of the societal pressure to stay married. But you cannot put all married people in a box and call them delusional. (I am also in no way saying that monogamy is an objective ideal when there are many successful polyamorous relationships working for some people). So the goal should not be to “normalise cheating” when there are valuable benefits to being loyal, but, this is obviously not everyone’s cup of tea. If you wanna go and fuck some other chicks while youre with your girlfriend, tell her and be open about it. But, this proposition is not one that is going to happen on a social level as you may like it to; it seems like an idea for some to follow and not others.

Almonte could get it in that see through shirt

I became a patron again and came back to even more great videos. Keep it up Sneako

Almonte truly dropping wisdom

Almonte the best podcast guest ever fr. Keep recording wit him and I won’t ever leave your Patreon

Honestly thought yall were going to kiss at the end.

You and Almonte talking about race & capitalism would be mad interesting as a podcast episode, seems like more & more people are talking about capitalism and the connection between capitalism and racism

Almonte acknowledging twin flames. thank youuu!

I mean I get why you think bisexual men are really just gay and supressing it but I dont think its really fair because you're just going off of the 'bi' men that you have met. I mean bi men that I've met including myself genuinely just like both genders, and that's kinda all there is to it. I get what you mean by saying that bi people just dont want to accept the gay title, because I've met guys that do that, but it's kinda unfair to assume that all bi men are just gay. I understand it though

great video.

Bruh the love you have for your family is soooo different from the love you have for a S.O. Idk what type of relationship you have with your parents, but there’s a lot of sides to me that my parents know nothing about and probably wouldn’t accept. My boyfriend knows those sides of me, likes them, may even think they’re sexy. I can really be myself with him and be intimate with him. That brings forth different emotions and bonds that I just couldn’t have with family. Especially when it comes to expressing those emotions. It’s a whole different experience from how I walk, talk, feel and act with my family