CRP Patreon Exclusive: “When She Earns More Than You”

I’m a woman married to a man who makes considerably less - he’s the stay at home dad as a matter of fact. And man is it a bitter pill to swallow - CRP is right. But I’m over the wall with 2 kids, so where am I going to go? Hubby is really lucky that I’m a good woman who prioritizes family above everything else.

There is a difference in the TYPES of people that would target you.

In the video, you mentioned about the difference between 100 million and 10 billion, I understand that at that point, there really isnt much of a difference. My concern is that my girlfriend comes from a wealthy background and her family owns a hotel business which nets 2-3X as much as the job I am pursuing, which is becoming a doctor in the U.S. and I'm currently a resident. Inevitably, the business is going to be handed to her since shes an only child. Do you see this as a problem, CRP?

If She is vurgin and you are 100% sure of it, like it's confirmed by a doctor then marry her as long as she is not 30 and still very beautiful fresh with good boobs and a sexy ass

as a man, you should make more

Super_Monster_2011

The bitter truth has helped me learned to influence those to my own benefit.

I agree with everything in the video but it contradicts your older video where you have said that it´s about confidence and that status and money are just an excuse. I don´t know if you remember but you got responses from many bitter guys about it.

Your reasoning’s correct here! I’ve totally been guilty of this thinking pattern.

I think the video is not 100% correct. From my experience when a woman loves you nobody can snatch her from you. That paranoid way of thinking is going to attract just that when she senses you derive your confidence from your finances cause you lack looks or vice versa. I've dated dimes working the silliest jobs. I would say 1-work on your body 2- have a job 3-play the numbers game by having an abundance mentality 4-STFU 5-keep it casual and occasional.

Have seen one couple where women earned more than him 3 times more to be exact. Their relationship was rocky at best. It was a disaster poor guy, he was so stupid when it comes to intimate relationships.

https://youtu.be/7FL_kcn_F5s

I guess it depends. Especially in western society there are legions of women which left the financially safe haven to fuck the insolvent badass, while making the ex-hubby pay for her living.

Depends what you're looking for. If it's casual it doesn't matter. If it's a nice gal for long-term, then realize the implications if she is a high earner more than you are. Plenty of dating coaches have exclaimed that in their most broke years they had the most sex. It goes to show that being a fun, dominant alpha male lands you more pussy than just the dough. Being exciting and having social value will always trump the money thing.

So should I date a woman on slightly the same level as me or slightly less then I ? My BBM is dumb , stay at home and a real burden finance or otherwise. I regret my life choices of staying with her puting up with her stupidity and selfishness but adore my toddler.

RIP Kobe

They try to marry the alpha and turn them into beta

Dear coach red pill, I have a question. Does the 18 to 25 years of age rule apply to religious girls who are virgin from good families but are in their late twenties or early thirties who are looking for marriage? I meet many of them and reject them for marriage just for the mere fact that they are older than 25. Please provide your insight. Thank you coach.

Should be mentioned attractive women have a much easier time landing a big job in the interview. Particularly if she has cleavage and flirts with a male Interviewer. A reason the woman might earn more than the man.

Could you use your personality to make up for the lack of money and then focus on the short-term and dating many women until you achieve your financial goals. Or maybe a 6 and more would just prefer to date a married man who has money and an average personnality than to date a poor guy with a good personality. By personality I mean good social skills or game....

Dear coach red pill, I have a question. Does the 18 to 25 years of age rule apply to religious girls who are virgin from good families but are in their late twenties or early thirties who are looking for marriage? I meet many of them and reject them for marriage just for the mere fact that they are older than 25. Please provide your insight. Thank you coach.

Sorry to hear about your impending divorce. But yeah, the money thing always leads to disrespect.

When I married my wife (soon to be ex wife) she had nothing. Not even a car. Brand new to Florida. I was successful in commercial real estate and she was head over heels. She eventually got a good job, and now makes more than me. Everything coach is saying is 100% true. We will most likely divorce in a few months and the money thing really kickstarted her disrespect.

Marriage was supposed to create social stability by limiting hypergamy. Now that marriage is complete unstable and not binding then why bother?

They don’t last long term from what I got from this video.

Damn...so no sugar momma?

Excellent video. This is why I pay you $5 / month because I support you and your content. Keep up the great work.

You should do a video on quarter life crisis at age 25 or mid life crisis

Great video! Thank you coach

That's rare.

and there are those who intentionally keeping their spouse weak, just to dominate him...women are controlling is it?

I was lucky to get out alive and with a bulk of the rental properties, which always made money, but once the other party starts making $300K, $400K, things change, and they really change... She became the most greedy and resentful person I ever met. She used to yell at me and force me not to have a job or 'we will go bankrupt' and I let her keep me in this little box for about 10 years....

So... 16 years ago, I met my wife... she was just starting out in her real estate career as a Realtor in Florida... making $30K a year... she was 25, I was 32. I was making $90K in IT, pretty good job for the area, I was happy. About 5 years into the relationship I began running our rental properties full time, which didn't kill me, all for her career, which exploded. The last 5 years she made $450K, and this past year when we divorced, she is closing the 2019 year at just over $600K. Now, it's different when you're talking $30k a year, to $120K maybe, but this fella's... and CRP respectively, was a huge difference, especially when we started out different.

Thanks for the heads-up!

You say economic class translates to social class, that sounds true. I was wondering isit possible to be high up on the social level, say a local community leader for example, church leader etc. while also not make a lot of money, and still be of value to your women?

Hey Gonzalo, there are some people who unsubscribed themselves from your CRP channel and are not aware that you have returned to post there. Perhaps you should start the next Gonzalo Lira video with a quick announcement, or post the whole " I Made A Mistake" video to the GL channel?

Thomas Levy

Women have one flaw they are human beings. Human beings have one flaw they are selfish.

I live in Indonesia where men are culturally expected to make more than their wife. It's sad to see men in western culture these days, they cant even figure out these facts anymore and have to search for the truth when it's supposed to be taught on an early age. I watch your content because i find it interesting to see problems men are facing in the west today - thx coach :)

Coach thank you so very much for doing this video.