CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Nostalgia for the Ex-Girlfriend”

Hi Coach, I still feel nostalgic for my first gf/love, I'm in my 40s now, and we broke over 10yrs ago but I still think about her, I ve made many relationships and had sex with dozens of women since, but still I never found someone like her and how it made me feel. it's kind of sad I know but its the truth.

Most of the nostalgia I had just now went away after I thought about why I broke up with her. She had a short temper and broke up with me many times and then calls me the next day to get back together. The worst incident with her was when she chose to pull the breakup stunt during New Years Eve right before the countdown. I should have been used to it but I still ended up crying like a bitch that night. I was on the phone with her in the washroom while all my buddies were drinking and counting down together. To this day I assumed she only did it because I was partying and she was at home not doing anything. So I think she didn't want me to have fun either. But yeah she was pretty hot. I think that's why I tolerated her.

For incredible sex and/or a first love...sure. other than that...loser.

Coach you are talking to me here, I am that one person who always go to my exes when I'm down or something isn't working with my current partner. This really help me a lot going forward, I will stop and think of every reason why I parted ways with my Exes I'm pretty sure that will give me a good reason to stay away from them. Thanks again

I really needed this video, since nostalgia has been hitting me pretty hard for the past two weeks now. Thanks coach!

Thank you for a great advice Coach! Very much appreciated.

I’m in the same boat. Most cases of child abuse come from homes with a step parent, and that’s another reason I can’t just up and leave. It’s not so much about responsibility, either, it’s love. The best thing we can do is to work on ourselves so that we can be better over time. That’s the only way to improve life at home around everyone, and make staying in the relationship a better action than leaving. If there’s too much negativity, then how is that worth it for you or your child?

Glad I finally join up here

solid advice

Well I met this girl when I was a teenagers and she was perfect. But I was an jerk to her and she left crying. I was fucked up in my head to handle a normal person... This spring I'll prawly go back to that place in Jersey where I met her. Now she is to old for me and she is probably married anyway but if I meet her again I just want to tell her that she was a cool kid and I sincerely hope that she found a good husband and had kids.

Nostalgia is a very natural emotion, of course, but I would rather make new memories with a new girl than to depress myself thinking about what was with a girl who in the end wasn't good for me. Any man who reaches out to an ex for the sake of Nostalgia and/or because he is unsatisfied with his current relationship is a beta. Break up with your current girl and find a new one. Exes aren't worth the thought. I am planning a summer vacation with my current girl, I couldn't give two fucks about my exes. I am too busy making new memories and enjoying the present

Sounds like your describing girls

you no longer post on youtube

I have been having this kind of Nostalgia from time to time throughout the last 10 years and Coach is right - it only happens whenever the sudden feeling of sadness rushes into my brain about my current position and the women I’m with. Now we have one kid to raise and deep in my heart I know I am really unhappy with my job and family that sucks up all the time I possibly have everyday. Damn, I have been trying to break free from all this - but then I think of the damage that could do to the kid so no I couldn’t just walk away ... that’s just so sad.

My gf broke up with me 2 years ago because I was living in USA and she was in Denmark. We stayed friends and I even help her get a job in one of my client's company in a Marketing dep. Now my GF is a cousin of the co-founder and COO of the company where my ex is working. Since I have to communicate most of the time with the marketing department as a part of my job as their contractor. I'm in contact with my ex and another sexy marketing manager. My gf is actually more jealous of the Manager with whom I have not slept, rather my ex. :-D To be honest, my ex is no longer attractive to me, however, I feel like my ex is more mature and I can talk with her about more technical stuff I'm interested in, of which my gf get bored of and doesn't wanna talk about.

Filip Salamon

I needed to hear this today. Was in a mode yesterday thinking about all the porn star sex I had with my ex a year ago, the old me would of been blowing her up about how much I missed her but truth be told. It’s her lost.

Never did that to any woman. But many women do leave someone for an ex. Don’t know the statistics, but it’s very common.

i have never commenting on anyone's content. For whatever it is worth, I just want to tell you how much I appreciate you sharing your knowledge. It has really helped me gain alot of perspective on alot of the situations that happen in my life that I have no one to talk to about. I know how difficult it is to remain consistent as you build, so I just wanted to let you know that your contribution is valued and appreciated.

Such a good video, Thank you again Gonzalo!