CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Keep Your Insights To Yourself”

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Not in this society, sadly. I've seen this play out too many times.

There was this one time I had a co worker and we talked about stuff, he told me at one point he appreciated honesty, so I put him to the test and told him something about him that I noticed, and instead of saying "Yeah I know, you're right that is a problem" he got PISSED...which surprised me, I had to calm him down after a while. I was just pointing it out as a means of helping him out and not trying to one up him or anything. I lost another childhood friend like that too, wasn't even that bad it was more a failure to discern that I noticed about both of them. I never met people that got so infuriated when you pointed out a flaw in their character to them, he wasn't even a "competitor" now I know better lol

Well I did that shit and lost a lot ..now I will try to apply it in life

I would love to share this video... but as I understood the message, I can‘t 😅 the same with the „how to lie“ and „how to use other people“ - I would love to talk about those things with someone. But can‘t be someone in my social circle for obvious reasons.

The Poker analogy is GOLDEN!!! very good advise.

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Remember Goldfinger? The archetypal villain from the James Bond movie. He tells James Bond his whole plan before trying to kill him in some stupid way. Bond escapes and fucks it all up or him.

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He didn't figure you out. He was only "on point" on something meaningful to you.

You gotta make this one public on your channel, coach. There’s too many men that need to hear this.

This comment is for the young men that are listening. If you're about to run a race and you notice your competitors' shoe is untied. You tell him that they are. You don't hope that he trips over the laces so you get an easy victory. How you win matters more than if you win. A strong moral character will carry you victoriously through life.

You might win the hand but If they figure out how you did they'll want nothing to do with you after and they may lash out. Your biggest fault is that you're not a real man, you'd sell out your friends to stay alive. You've never realized yet that life is not about living as long as you can it's about how you live and what you stand for. I ain't telling you this to Lord it over you I'm telling you this because you need to change and I owe you for what you've done for me. You'll never have any quality friends because they'd never trust you to have their back. A coward dies a thousand deaths. We all eventually die. So why waste the time you have living in fear and being disgusted with the person you truly are.

1:32 oh good question! perhaps he didn't see you as a competitor, coach?

Learn to read man. He said he doesn’t have a problem with 5 bucks

I'm 45, have a professional career, and a couple of fun and lucrative side hustles. This was such a fantastic set of reminders. Thank you CRP!

This is like telling the Empire about the flaw in the Death Star.

What if the insights you figured out about someone are positive and uplifting. Do you keep them to yourself too ?

I think the guy who "figured you out" had no other plans except to expose you to yourself to make you feel negative. It worked and therefore he's not so stupid after all. Hence, why he didn't keep his insight about you to himself.

Maybe this is the reason why ppl end up being indifferent to me. I self sabotage by exposing to ppl how I know what they think/feel based on their actions/behavior and thus becomes guarded. Had to take a monthly $5 video to slap me upside the head awake. Thanks coach!

videos like this is why i have no problem paying you $5/month, coach!

Is this just self-sabotaging behaviour involving other people?

Coach, I would like a couple more specific examples so I can identify this issue better if need be. In addition, I would like to know when the right time is to reveal information; I say this as it is important to pull the metaphorical trigger. How exactly does this video relate to the smart guys are cowards video?

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You’re on the path to wisdom, John. Keep it up!

This is another video that will help me significantly. I am that guy. I am isolated by my own volition but who am I kidding... most people probably don’t want to be around me because I come off like such an asshole. Some puzzles are better solved in private.

That’s why you never let females know this side about you. They need to think that you’re clueless about their psychology, and game. And that’s how you win in the dating game.

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Keep your insights to yourself because information is power

Nice video. I knew a guy just like that. Very nice, intelligent, charming, but too talkative. His reputation became one of a gossip girl. He ended up quitting his banking job.

The thing is coach, as a young guy who is just starting to figure shit out, I am unsure if what I figured out about other people is true. Figuring other people out also requires a lot of articulation and finding the right words to use. While, like you said, it is very stupid to tell people that you figured them out and they will resent you for it, the ability to understand people well has to come from practicing (i.e. failing). And this practice has a cost becomes sometimes the only outlet for this practice is direct confrontation. You have to push all types of buttons and see what works and what doesn't and do it early and do it hard. Once you become older and wiser, only then you can shut the fuck up, use your knowledge, and get what you want.

Great video! Smart guys with low self esteem. This is a lot of guys given current imbalances in the sexual marketplace. Smart guys who’ve achieved some degree of success in their careers and finances, but are still a zero with the ladies. I’ve known guys like this. At best, these guys are annoying. At worst, they inspire hatred and contempt.

This assumption is flawed. NOT ALL men should be leaders, max 5% coz there also should be followers.

Sage advice. And it was very kind of you to give this guy a valuable lesson in this way.

Hey CRP,

Thank you so much for this video it was so helpfull and please don't ask me why!

Good topic. Women tend do this just as much if not more than men in my experience. It’s funny because half the time they’re wrong about me or others because they’re projecting their own insecurities on us.

Coach can you talk about why all men should take on a leadership role or something along that subject?

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