CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Side Piece”

I like a lot of the things CRP talks about. Suggesting infidelity is not one of those things. Takes a complex psychology to have a side piece if you want to also have a long term relationship with a woman - especially if you have long term aspirations for her, and she is the mother of your children. The children of parents who stay together - the studies have shown time and time again - have better long term outcomes. Man up, put your family above selfish desires, and invest your goddam precious time with the people you love - not some 6 month side piece. The side piece won’t be there when you’re on your death bed. The only common factor in every failed relationship is you, and the quality of your relationships are most often a direct measure of the effort you put into them. Not saying there aren’t trashy women out there. But if you have any respect for your “Alpha woman” - or any self respect for that matter - you don’t need a side piece.

I think I’m actually on board with this idea. I think the feeling that would make most men reluctant (myself included) to have a side piece would be this statement; “how would you feel if your woman had a side piece?”. The answer to that question is obvious, we’d feel betrayed- but I feel this question is framed in a way that is deliberately designed to guilt trip a man but not a woman. The real question is; “how would your woman feel, if she was sleeping with another man?” The answer- she wouldn’t care about your feelings if had gotten to that point, you have already lost her long ago.

well does he speak russian or ukrainian then or are they just in silence?

The simple fact of the matter is that men need sex and as you get to know a woman and as she gets old she cannot satisfy you sexually. It's not her fault and it's not yours. I really feel sorry for some guys who never accepted this fact.

I bet CRPs wife does not understand English. If not, I’m amazed at how CRP hide this stuff to his wife, can you please talk about how to not get caught in anything in life.

what to do if the side piece gets angry with you because she wants more attention or whatever, and actually threatens to tell your wife about you two?

This advice could have saved my parents' marriage, had my father known the dichotomy between the alpha woman and the side piece 💔 Thanks coach ✊

This and the hooker video are my favorites. Good, honest explanations about the ways of the world from an experienced man. Young people may not see it that way but they'll understand better why men of means eventually take mistresses, and how this doesn't break society, in fact it helped it stay together for thousands of years.

How about hen you have a side piece that has a partner, what do you think about a guy who fucks someone else's wife, girlfriend.?

Hahahah fuuuuckk

Indeed, this is the one thing where I am not on board with Coach. The real sin in cheating is not really the sex, but the lying. If you are talking about married couples that agree that he (or both of them) can have a side piece, at least that is honest, but I still think for practical purposes it is a bad idea. Heterosexual monogamy is ideal, for reasons that have been learned over millennia of human society, Still, even in cases where I disagree with Coach, he presents the issues in a way that get me thinking.

Very sweet to hear men disagreeing, thank you! I was feeling a bit down after this. I find our coach very insightful but don't agree with everything he says. Like now I guess. Love is love f h, it's not about side piece, not about age, maybe the damaged goods thing have a sense but I really hope not. Oh yes, you know the video "Never settle"? He says if you settle you lose that little percentage of energy that actually makes the difference? The same might apply to the couple when you cheat I think.

I wonder how CRP would feel if his wife got a “side piece” because she got bored in the bedroom.

I’m sorry but you’re part of the problem if you justify cheating.

Soren

That's an interesting view. I see what you're saying and it kind of makes sense in a way but I guess you could just be honest with the side piece and be careful. My biggest problem with the whole thing would be the guilt I'd feel because I really care about my wife and for her, the idea of me bring with another woman would just kill her emotionally. He talks about being pragmatic and not feeling guilty but in my case it'd be easier said than done!

It sounds good and hedonistic, but I am not sure if it is worth the risk. If you really have a good relationship it is not worth risking it all for a side piece. You have invested so much time and resources and you can loose it all and cripple yourself for life aka. alimony. If side piece finds out (as you mentioned at the end) that you have a happy family life , she will want it as well and will contact your wife/girlfriend. It will ruin your marriage or it will damage it. You will get rid of the side piece since you will have to choose, and your wife won't trust you anymore. Nothing that you really want. My advise would be to go to hooker if you really need sex that much, it is cheaper in long run, or look like or be more attractive for other women around your wife so it will look like you have options for her. She will have to "fight" more for you which will improve sex life and relationship since she will have to invest in it emotionally and physically.

In the MGTOW world we call that monkey branching, more than a side piece, the natural instinct for women is to try to marry up whenever possible.

Monogamy is not an inherent trait of our species, has been imposed by society, seeing other people is what we're programmed for, but if polygamy was allowed, most women would flock around the top 20% of men, rendering most men involuntary celibates, which would result in a very violent place to live because of the fierce competition to get some pussy.

Well said Coach... I have a question here,,, what is the right way to approach a women with the intention of having her as a side piece? How can you address that to her without making her feel bad about herself. ?

I understand the need for a side piece when casually dating, but in WHAT UNIVERSE is it ACCEPTABLE to cheat on a spouse or someone you are supposedly serious about? It is not "perfectly normal". I wouldn't want her to cheat on me so why would i cheat on her? If you feel the need to date around while in a very serious relationship with someone, then (in the words of CRP) leave your main relationship. This is part of the reason why i am STILL SINGLE. It is morally wrong and it brings about bad karma when you defraud the person you vowed to never let down when you married her. When i am ready and when i have found my "main piece", then i will settle down and i will be exclusive to her. I suggest the rest of you do the same as well. I strongly disagree with CRP in that one regard of the video. Stop trying to justify your own behavior CRP.

Thank you so much for this. But the way, better with the beard.

Bringing so much risk and complicating your own life, just to have a good fuck. I don't think it is worth it. But that's just me.

Youza.... Guilty of letting my side piece escapade blow up because I just didn't care for my primary relationship any longer. Lesson learned. Moving on...

Beard’s looking good. How do you hide your YouTube videos/Patreon channel from your wife? Seems to me this can get you busted easily, especially if you become Million+ popular... Also, aren’t you making these videos for your son? Wtf, that’s one helluva way for his mom to find out.

OJ