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CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Yandere”

Sorry I was late today—irl got in the way. 

I've had some experience with “yandere” girlfriends—here's a discussion.

CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Yandere”

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Jodi Ann Arias

That explains why most chinese women are the yandere types. Most asian parents prefer to have a boy than girl because they can pass on their legacy and it’s so ingrained into their culture. The girl? Most of the parents sees them as a liability. Which is why most aborted their child once they found out that it’s a girl during the 1 child policy and now china has a shortage of women problem

Your scary clingy girlfriend keeps reminding me of this girl: https://www3.f2movies.to/movie/solaris-12900 particularly at 1:31:15 She feels such a lack of a separate independent self that without him she fears she can have no existence at all. She breaks down a metal door with her bare hands to avoid separation from him.

Your scarey clingy girlfriend keeps reminding me of this girl: Your scarey clingy girlfriend keeps reminding me of this girl: Your scary clingy girlfriend keeps reminding me of this girl: https://www3.f2movies.to/movie/solaris-129001:12:30

Your scarey clingy girlfriend keeps reminding me of this girl:

Wow the girl was crazy...

I know about Japanese culture. I taught beginners Japanese language class at a community College as my first teaching job. I can share, if it's desired.

Been there. As you said... EXHAUSTING!

OMG this sounds exactly like my ex. Still 4 years since we broke up is messing around. I had to ghost her by all means.

Yup. Sounds VERY familiar. My ex’s dad was out of her life by the time she was 13-14ish. All of these lined up. Just not quite as bad though.

I also have same problem. Some one please help how to get rid of them.

Wrong. Nothing to do with NPD. This is Borderline Personality Disorder to a t.

I could really tell by your tone of voice that you really liked her. It’s too bad that her personality was the way it was

AMEN, AMEN & AMEN. I'm dumping my gf this weekend

Your describing narcissistic abuse or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, e.g. covert narcissism

She was needy

I predicted her intelligence at the 6:00 mark. Smart women are VERY poorly socialized. They're rare, so they don't relate well to other women. And women don't handle social alienation as well as men.

100% BPD... Had a girlfriend whose mother treated her like this. Took a terrible toll on our relationship and we eventually broke up. Pretty sad how it ended but looking back we were doomed from the start

Great video, my ex was exactly like this. It's nice to hear that other people have expieranced this. It was a mind fuck in the moment.

100% BPD. Spent 4 years with this girl, was my first experience. She moved in after just one week of being together. Slowly fucked up my mind and drove me insane and at the end left me completely alone and isolated, cheated on me and dropped me in the cruelest way possible, so that I had some kind of C-PTSD afterward. Worst experience of my whole life. It's a pity I hadn't have any experience before to know better, but it brought me to you Coach, and to the whole RP society, so now my whole life is different. All for the better, I guess :)

I dont agree its the father. Had a girlfriend like this, and found out she suffered from "INSECURE ATTACHMENT DISORDER", also called "Anxious-ambivalent attachment". Basically her mother's fault. A woman like this needs constant attention from a man, so she does not feel abandoned.

She was dependent on emotions, when everything was fine, or calm, she would freak out for whenever reason. After breaking out with her, then I realized she needed drama to stop the feelings of the abortion. Shame, it was a nice girl apart from that.

This sounds absolutely exactly the same as my ex-girlfriend. Found out her problem: had an abortion at 16yo. Completely damaged.

I dated a girl like that, everything Coach said is true, so sad

I personally love when girls are a challenge and who don't agree with you on everything. Yandere girlfriends sound like the type that are absolutely no challenge at all and thus incredibly boring and unsatisfying

Holy fuck, this video is SPOT ON. I’ve been there.

I’m actually in this situation now, and literally everything you said applies to her.. she gets upset when I talk to other females and text. She wants to hangout everyday and will text and call me several times if I don’t respond.. on top of all that, she’s my coworker 😭 and not even my girlfriend. We’ve had sex a number of times and it’s okay; but it’s getting to the point where I’m getting to the point where I have to break it off. It’s tiresome and silly how she gets mad at me for being social with other people.. also I’m an introverted person so alone time is precious to me..

Robert Hamilton

You pretty much nailed the concept of Yandere, figuratively and literally. Great vid coach!

She was likely abused or neglected as a child. I'd assume sexual abuse. Sounds a lot like Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), they really fear abandonment and don't really care about you as a person, they just want someone around. They'll consume your time and your life and try to remove other people from your life so they have no "competition". They don't want other things to make you happy because then you have other sources of happiness and they feel replaceable. They are never really happy because then that puts them in danger of that happiness leaving them. They are also very sexually active and use sex to bury problems.

maybe she was sexually molested in her younger years

dominic v daley

I disagree tons of value here.

Damn this a deep one. I thought this one was brilliant. If you made it public on youtube you would probably got a lot of views but then risked another strike on your account. Im starting to feel like i dated a single mothers slash yandere yeah.... starting to make a lot of sense.

Thanks coach again! I love to hear more of your past experience. Do you think that kind of girl or equivalent could be fixed in anyway? is the father figure the major cause of the damaged?

Most women are self centered, they don't really care much about you, as long as you serve the purposes they have imagined you can fulfill, they'll be happy, when you don't serve those purposes anymore, they'll forget about you at the flip of a switch, their "love" is opportunistic, I've seen it.

Coach, we all appreciate your content. But I gotta be honest with this one. I liked the story but it feels like there isn't much value given. Just my humble opinion tho. Keep it up Coach!

You got me! lol

Hey u didnt put the title of this clip on ur laptop!!!! Tsk tsk! Slacking off!!!

Actually, I don't—but I came across the concept, looked up the word, and became fascinated by the stereotype. But anime is just not my cup of tea.

I knew you watch anime!


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