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CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Managing Gay Acquaintances”

A discussion for heterosexual men on how to manage their work and social interactions with gay men. 

CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Managing Gay Acquaintances”

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Happened to me recently....they try and try....to the point of their own embarrassment....treat them like fat chicks.

I used to follow the blog of a guy who had a lot of experience with homosexuals in the military. He said the repeal of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was one of the worst things to happen to homosexuals in the military because the military consists of such a disproportionate number of alpha males -- and even worse, a disproportionate number of alpha *gay* males -- that same-sex rape was a plague in some areas, and DADT was an escape hatch for gay men who couldn't otherwise escape the alpha males who were out to assault them sexually.

Great video. Important message.

If you go to jail as a man then you will be getting more dick than you can imagine so chill.

Coach, I just joined your Patreon because you've been an IMMENSE help and influence on me (though you're no hero of course), and I've been watching the backlog of Patreon-only videos. This one is spot on, and runs tangentially to the “Dangers of the HR Department” video. A few years ago, I worked at a small company with around 50 employees. One of the vice presidents of the company was gay, and it was common knowledge - not a secret at all. He was not flamboyant, but his mannerisms did give him away. I never had any problems with the guy; I didn’t work for or report to him, and he was always professional in my dealings with him, like the majority of gay men I’ve worked with. One of my coworkers, who DID work directly below him, came to me and told me that the guy made an advance on him in the office. My coworker was around 30 and while not the most manly of men, he certainly didn’t give off a gay vibe. He had pictures of his fiancée all over his desk and the entire company knew he was about to get married. The VP propositioned him in the parking lot after a late night at the office, and my coworker politely rejected his advance. He tried to make a joke that his fiancée wouldn’t be happy with him if he said yes (or something to that effect). Knowing this guy’s nature, I’m sure it was something that was said with nervous laughter to try to make light of an awkward situation. It was apparently taken in stride, the VP seemed to laugh it off with a “no harm no foul” kind of statement, and they went their seperate ways. Two days later - fired for “poor performance” - seriously. Absolutely no recourse. The VP just had this sick smirk on his face after he was escorted out of the building. People started to put two and two together after several weeks, though no one dared bring it up, even outside the office. It was like a black cloud of paranoia descended on the office from then on out, and I soon left for greener pastures. I now realize that I must have been the only person he told, and he had asked me not to tell anyone out of embarrassment. Wish I would have known better at the time and told other people. I don’t care what HR rules it breaks; if this ever happens to me or anyone I work with, I’m spreading the word. To see this guy get fired out of sheer maliciousness, months before his wedding, really fucked with my head. The work environment went from pleasant and enjoyable to being dead silent. Sage advice Coach, l’m binging these Patroon-only vids. Very happy to support you and your channel.

I never heard of this stuff and I can never relate to this. I grew up in a very conservative culture where being gay is considered the worst reputation a man can have, especially someone who bottoms and acts feminine. Of course, I grew up and developed by own opinions on the topic. I think that everyone can do whatever they want in their romantic and sex life, whether they want to have sex with their same sex, with their parents, with a tree, or even with a turtle if the turtle is into it, as long as I'm not included in that. That's their life and its non of my business. However, if a gay guy went on and hit on me, I would take that as a threshold of an insult, as if he assumed that I take dicks up the ass. I would reply with something along the lines of "Hey take that homo shit elsewhere.". If he persisted, then I'm getting physically violent with the dude. The judge can take that as self-defense or I can go to jail as a man.

I've had 4 gay men come on to me. Two of them didn't do anything physical. The first one did and I just left the room. Another physical situation was in a night club on the dance floor. I got sandwhiched between a fat girl and a gay man. They both were grinding on me. However, I got out and I am fine now.

As a gay man I normally won’t befriend a guy I fancy, gay or straight. To be on the safe side.

Coach is absolutely correct and precise. I have seen and experienced (and heard) first hand these things . The PC crowd doesn't know this.

When I was younger, I am 56, I ran in circles where there were a lot of gay men and lesbians. I was friends with many of them. One of them told me something that made a lot of sense. Domestic Violence is VERY high in the gay community. ESPECIALLY among lesbians. He explained it like this. If a man and a woman, boyfriend/girfriend husband/wife etc... have angry argument the man does not hit the woman for several reasons. He can hurt her. He will be shunned for striking her, etc... Among Gay men and Lesbians there is no such pause. Two gay men will beat the shit out of each other and not worry about hitting another man. Lesbians are the same. I no longer befriend gay men and women. TOO MANY ISSUES. Domestic violence was just one thing. Other issues are drug and substance abuse, not to mention they suffer from A host of mental disoders(bipolar disorder/OCD, Paranoia, Schizophrenia...on and on) WAAAAY above what heterosexual people suffer. Just too much drama and it brings healthy people down


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