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CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Strategies for Online Dating and Job Hunting”

These two issues are more similar than you'd think. A discussion. 

CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Strategies for Online Dating and Job Hunting”

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You know what's funny? Learning how to read people helped me understand quickly what girls want from an interaction. Their needs, the things they expect from me. And more often than not I'm not willing to offer them those things (attention for example) and they feel misunderstood.

99 nos and 1 yes is a yes.

TunaXonXtoast

Forget online dating. It's a scam. Focus on your self-development.

Just a grammar note: "Stand you/me in good stead." "Stead" should be pronounced to rhyme with "bed" or "red." A "stead" is a "place." In good stead is pronounced like "instead" with a "good" in the middle. CRP says this wrong in several videos, so I thought i should speak up.

"...be a thinker, not a stinker." - Apollo Creed

Personal description:A good speech should be like a woman's skirt; long enough to cover the subject and short enough to create interest. Winston S. Churchill

Job hunting and online dating are not exactly identical as Coach might make it seem. Yes the strategy has overlapping principles, but the way a man is selected for a job is not the same as the way a girl sexually selects a man. For online dating you need a good profile, including proper biography and capturing pictures. I'd get a person that is well versed in online dating to do a check up for you. Keep in mind that online dating for most men will be a loser's game to start with. This is because if you are average to start with, you won't pull hot girls off it unless you can make your profile look like you are of higher value than you are. Girls date upwards, meaning that they try to pair with men in the least of similar value but preferably of higher value. Guys online always are forced to date downwards are sometimes can get with girls of similar value. That's why most of the time, especially if done without a strategy, it's a total waste of time. Honestly, I would recommend you to start engaging with women in real life, as this is much more effective and rewarding.

I'am very good in job hunting but in online dating i get only fat ugly girls in israel .... what should i do? I don't want date some one from my corparate job .my profile photo and cv looks great .

I've had the exact same experience with my 2 dream jobs, but when I don't want the job and do the interview as a courtesy, I always get it :P

Giacomo Vaccari

Can you describe what you mean with emotion?

on the money. I used to do that on a dating site bumble write long messages and slowly see the girls messages get shorter 😆. Now I have a rule of thumb always write less than her and with some thing that has emotion and now her messages get longer

I've a feeling the same rule applies in the job interview as in dating, if you are a total fanboy of the company. It is unlikely to get the job. The only job i didn't got was my dream job. I've nailed other interviews even shitty ones where they used intimidation tactics. Being aloof is key. This video has sharpened my claws even further, thanks.

Good point! Hadn't thought of that.

Just from the title it sounds like so much bullshit.

Coach Red Pill: What do you think of this post? https://medium.com/@JessicaLexicus/sex-with-strangers-is-good-for-you-f27d925b27a7

I made this connection a month or so back, so it's cool to see a video on it.

Ryan Stallard

In addition, girls on internet dating sites are also the girls in HR and head hunting firms

lol, it's that I'm ambivalent about it. But where did I outright say you should avoid online dating? I don't recall that I did, though I might have. Thanks, and thanks for your support, Anonymous!

You're absolutely right: With the current deregulated sexual marketplace, any combination is acceptable—including polygyny. And you're right, it is a cultural issue, not a moral one.

I agree with pretty much everything you say here, Coach, but I do have one point of contention. You say that polygyny is immoral, but it's been practiced in other societies throughout human history. The only reason we don't have it in Western society is because the Romans weren't cool with it (although, ironically, they were okay with pederasty and homosexuality, which brings me to my next point). If Western society is accepting same sex marriage, how can it turn around and say a man marrying multiple women creates a morality problem? As long as they're all adults, and nobody's there against their will, there shouldn't be a problem. I think the real issue is that women know that they themselves wouldn't want to have multiple husbands. Because multi-partner marriage is one of the few things women aren't going to bums-rush (unlike the gamer world, barber shops, sports bars, and competitive sports, which they're invading in droves), they don't want us men to have it, either. Sure, a lot of women (especially young women) like jumping from guy to guy to guy with no constraints, no strings, and no rules, but they're not going to commit to several men in a marriage or in any other construct where rules are involved. A lot of men, on the other hand, have no problem marrying one woman, two women, or three women, committing to them all, and living pursuant to specific guidelines. That's why there are much fewer men filing for divorce than women. So I would submit that this is less of a moral issue than it is a cultural issue.

Ray

I’m here to pledge and say those three advices from Coach are so damn true. Been there, done that. 1) Indeed both are number games 2) I don’t ever bother to write a cover letter nowadays instead I only send 5 really short sentences highlighting my skills that fits the position (which I’m now a project manager of a multinational software firm) 3) I tried opening a female account on a dating site and simply copy the profile that I find appealing. I’m still using the same profile getting girls ;)

Hey, Coach, I want to thank you because you taught me something today. I have the habit of writing too much material in many things in life in general. I have to admit that I find it hard being a minimalist in many things. I also agree with you about the loss of human interaction in the job search market and online dating. It is also true what you said about recruiters reaching out to you for higher level positions. I have had this happen to me in Vancouver BC. Anyway, I gonna take your advice about less is better. I do have a suggestion for you. Have you ever thought about starting a service as being a Youtube Video Development Specialist? Essentially, you would be working with people looking to develop their youtube videos. I think you could probably do a lot of it through Skype or Zoom. Also, doing paid motivational speech tours. We would for sure retain your services in helping us develop our channel since my speciality is US Immigration Inadmissibility Law. MyYoutube video development skills suck..lol

Before I watch I'm guessing it's all about casting a big net

CRP: Why you should avoid Online Dating Also CRP: Strategies for Online Dating (not complaining, though - keep 'em comin')

Great advice, thank you!


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