CRP Patreon Exclusive: “How to Prepare for Divorce”

If you want peace prepare the war. If you want a good marriage, prepare the divorce.

Tomek

I see someone has seen The Sopranos lol. Tony contaminated all the lawyers in the area.

Rumor is Rod Stewart always wins in divorce because he documents his ex-wives drinking/drugging use without their knowing, JUST IN CASE they ever think they have the leg up on him in the future. You play Chess to win, not draw, not lose.

savage

TunaXonXtoast

I ran out of words , YOU ARE THE BEST COACH!

This is some evil fucking shit, but so god damn valuable. I witnessed my father lose everything from divorce, only to then get knocked down once again by the financial crisis of 2008. He never found the momentum or support system to get back on his feet and recover from two massive setbacks. He eventually threw in the towel, gave up on life and turned to drinking and gambling. This fatalist attitude and lack of momentum would lead to him falling sick to ALS at 60. This marked the start of multi-year decline into a vegetable state before kicking the can at 63. I witnessed everything first hand. Everything from getting fucked in the divorce court to taking his last breathe when I was only 24. FUCK THAT. I WILL NOT HAVE THAT HAPPEN TO ME. Thank you coach.

cannot agree more - the western democracies is heavily rigged in favor of the women

Humphery

When you remember that females have no loyalty...

One thing to remember when you do this: make sure this video is nowhere in your internet history

oh fo sho'...

The advice relating to visiting to nearby lawyers was really clever.

I wish someone would of given me this advice when I went through my divorce, I didn't want to play dirty - but man if I could go back...

Dear Coach, can you please share a bit on how to manage a married relationship? It feels like the longer the marriage goes, the deeper the mug hole and it is getting harder to quit when things go south. And you know life, things always go south.

My brother is a divorce attorney and had a female client who took pics of their kid's scraped knee. Supposedly the father did not put antiseptic on it and the wound got infected. She showed this to the judge (who already didn't like her) and lost even more credibility. She already had an okay case but this diluted it and made her seem unhinged. The judge wouldn't even allow her supervised visits at a government building.

The lawyer thing would really piss off the judge tho

Ayyyye I remember the coachstream this is from.

He kept the kids and the money. He may be an asshole but he won in the end.

It has upsides and downsides. You've already heard about the upsides: wider range of skill sets and expertise, better able to relate to diverse clients, fresh perspectives that could spur innovation, everything the media-academic-corporate complex talks about. They never tell you about the downsides: rapid change in company culture, increased conflict, decreased synergy, alienation, screw-ups due to miscommunication, decreased trust, factions, fundamentally incompatible worldviews, inconpetence, everything our crowd talks about. You maximize the upsides and minimize the downsides if you stick to you high standards, value meritocracy over diversity, and let the diversity happen naturally. If you don't stick to your standards then everything goes to shit.

Congratulations on making the top 20. How about one on how an older man should view and act in his relationships with his adult sons and daughters?

Whoa! The vast majority of initial client consults are free, and typically last 15–30 minutes.

Coach is one man I would never want to fuck with

I just went to my first lawyer consult. One of the best in my city. Cost me $675 for an hour

'play to win'...fu*k ya!!

Hi coach, do you think diversity is really a good thing? Let’s say if you run a company

Coach I'm surprise you didn't use billionaire Jeff Bezos as an example. Also would it be a good idea to hide some money in an off-shore account? In case if the divorce happens, you have a back up nest egg?

I'll do one shortly.

Lawyers will have a log of their visits/appointments. They won't fake that (and possibly get disbarred) just for one more client. Just so long as you record in your notes exactly when you visited him, you're set. No need to get paranoid.

One of your best videos by far CRP

Any videos on pre-nups ? I saw a 100 of your vids prob but didn't run into one on topic of pre-nups.

Hey coach, I really appreciate this video...thanks so much..but How can you prove that you’ve visited the attorneys???

Damn . . .

What mix-up?

2003 and I was 44 years old, my marriage was in trouble. I chose a course of action we both agreed on to save that marriage.. two years later I was visiting my parents and -- she sprung a divorce action on me. 2003 I was a landlord and a home-owner, that house likely would be worth over a million dollars now, as for the rental properties... ? Fast forward to 2019. I'm now 60 years old. I lost everything in that divorce. I now live in a basement rental suite 2,800 miles away -- about as far away from that treacherous bitch as I can get, without leaving the country. I work nightshift as a security guard for Cdn $14.09/hour. Listen to Coach Red Pill's words my sons, for he speaks truly, wisely and well: Suicide would be a reasonable course of action in the circumstances he describes, and they indeed happen, all the time.. The one good thing I take from my ... "amicable divorce"? Thank GOD, we had no kids...

I'm surprised more men don't commit suicide. Virtual slavery for 20 years without the ability to invest for retirement because all your money is going to the ex-wife? Why put up with that?

Ryan Stallard

My nigg@!

Coach, this is solid good tips. Here's some more from Redonkulus on moving the $$$$ out of the marriage: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-OhdpPrE7wk&list=PL2-vNIPFVHq_9fveJE-irhMWlNwVD6Ks6&index=49&t=0s

I pledged just for this video - it's one of your best yet.

Fuck yea thanks coach

Well Coach there is a reason why you are my best friend aka Brotha. Your content is of impeccable quality and you really make men use their heads for more than a place to keep their toque. I do want to add something that only a "dreadfully awful bastard" would do. In support of what you said about visiting every local divorce lawyer...Only a real bastard(RB) would ask for a paper copy of the receipt that he paid each local lawyer for a consultation...Also, only a RB would wear a hidden camera when he has these consultations. Only a RB would announce the date, start time and location of each lawyer while he is in front of the law office and fully records the interview. Only a RB would then have a paper log book to document dates and times of each interview. Then perhaps the wife hires a crooked lawyer that already gave you a consultation but no receipt....So only a RB would show the judge the hidden video footage of the consultation with the said lawyer proving that he is lying...which he will be severely disciplined by the state bar society...Of course, only a RB would protect himself and shag for free and let the nice guys pay all the bills...Btw my middle initials are R.B...lol

This knowledge/advice alone is worth thousands and can save you a whole lot more than that in the long run. Thank you Coach! Your videos hold so much value.

I've heard about a prenup + marriage legally registered in an off-country, such as switzerland, but don't count me on this

Hey Coach, Do you ever wonder whether your wife watches these videos (and is subscribed to your patreon)? Maybe you already know? Does she even know about your youtube channel?

Life is full of such emergencies and battles. We need to pick which battles are imminent and worth fighting and then prepare the cards necessary. In many of the developed countries where life has become too comfortable, men don't see such possibilities and just sleep-walk through their life until they get really badly burnt. Comfort breeds complacency and degeneracy in humans.

This video is great. Coach can you give a few ideas of how to hide/withdraw money protect assets before the divorce in order to keep as much a possible. I have a few ideas but could you add on. Thanks!!

I told myself if I ever get married I'm giving it 5 to 7 years. If it's not what I thought it was. I am striking first and jumping ship.i will not waste anymore time I am 35 successful without any children.

I stand corrected CPR. Apologies for the mix up.

She's an albatross around your neck—you should try to get her to marry someone else. That way, in certain states/countries, you don't have to pay her alimony once she remarries.

I'm not suggesting anything—I'm just saying what a real bastard would do.

I'm afraid not.

If you don't play the game you are asking to get absolutely fucked by it. The best defense is an over the top offense and literally you will save more than you would be able to appreciate without experiencing it for yourself. I am speaking from experience with a brother that passed away leaving children behind which my side of the family including grand parents were denied access to. Be smart about it, do everything CRP says, because even with all that the cost is going to be extreme and the sooner you can crush your enemy the more you will save. Emotionally, financially and psychologically. Be the fool that doesn't and you are going to hate life for some time.

Coach these cunts are despicable absolutely despicable!!!!!

Very insightful coach. And if any of your viewers would like to see this played out in the Television World. Then I’d suggest they watch season 4/5 of The Sopranos. Were main character Tony Soprano did just that, by visiting every lawyer in town essentially blocking his wife from divorce. And I know many of the viewers cannot swallow what CRP is suggesting but ask yourself if the alternatives are any safer for you. Some women, not all, turn their compassion and sense of what’s right completely off when divorce is in play. And even though you may still love her she has lost those feelings for you a long time ago. So if you cannot do it for yourself think about your children’s future and their wellbeing. And maybe it won’t be so hard to actually save yourself for once.

Coach, spot on. I'm wondering, after divorce involving kids & being forced to support the ex financially (aka divorce rape; she doesn't work), should I view my ex-wife as my competitor, my enemy, as a scorpion who stung me, or what?

Hey Coach, is there any way to win the game besides playing dirty or not playing at all?