CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Sexual Fetishes”

Yes. Even something as simple as recording yourselves...which is awesome...takes si much time and can be addictive...develop a fetish for chicks licking your balls...and there you have it.

well, I would not give up my fetishes... :D

Spend your dopamine wisely.

I have a friend who got really messed up by a fetish. He got involved with an older woman he met through the community, she had the dominant role in the relationship, she got ahold of his bank information, used his bank account for money laundering, got his account shut down, then stole from his new account, and he says he still loves her. It's fucked.

my ex was lost in bdsm-porn. was fun the first few months than ruined everything.

I think it's quite boring when you have a hot chick in bed just lying there like a hag being all narcisstic and conceited like she owns willy wonkas 'golden vagina' and she's just like "yeah, just fuck me." and expects you to do all the work while she just wants to lay there. In this regard, Sexual Fetishes can quite bring the necessary excitement.

My take on fetishes is it’s a culmination of where someone is at in their life.

Dave Smith

A more accurate title would be "addictions can easily ruin your life, and I knew a guy with a weird one that did."

Agreed. You’re exactly right about a woman wanting to have sex and nearly getting caught by the public fetish. Thinking back I’ve been with quite a few women who wanted to do something sexual in more exposed areas that I wasn’t comfortable with. Or I’ve had women get completely naked in my house or apartment at the time with all the windows wide open and they want to fuck in the most exposed part of the house. When taking them to the privacy of the bedroom sometimes they were less turned on. I’ve never understood this.

I have mixed views on this topic. One thing is that not every guy will want a family/wife and kids so the Fetish will not destroy the marriage if the guy is not married. A person's fetish should not be one that will consume their life in general whether it is sexual or not. A person should have the proper focus in life and not let their fetish consume their daily activities. I have one where I have a thing for 18-24-year-old Russian speaking girls in mini skirts drinking wine on my Vancouver BC Yacht. However, I don't allow it to consume my daily life. I think the main key here in the video is that these guys need to focus on positive things that will benefit them in life and not allow anything negative essentially bring them, down. This can include a fetish whether it is sexual or not. Plus, I don't know if an actual sexual fetish will necessarily destroy their life...I think it really depends on the individual. Plus, I want to give a twist to the Sexual Fetish idea. I would say that some women have these sexual fetishes. A lot of them like their hair pulled and spanked while shagging. Her fetish is that she likes to shag in places where you both are nearly caught by the public. Now these guys need to understand that if they have a girl that has a particular fetish and the guys won't do it...She will for sure find a guy on the side that will do it. She may not necessarily keep the on the side fetish guy but you can best believe that she will allow him to do the fetish things on her and she will come back home to the boyfriend/common law from having a night out with "Sally and Sue." I know this to be 100% true as I have experience being the "Sally Sue" guy..lol

"And he was fucking 42 years old...." I died.

Coach, react to this video the school of life - "Why Do People Have Affairs?" It screams your name

Interesting point of view. I've been admiring your work from afar, and I've finally decided to become a patron because of this topic that is really close to my heart. I think most people go about sexuality the wrong way because they come from a mindset of perversion. It's not just fetish. Even vanilla sex can consume your life if you are a pervert. What most people don't know is that sexual energy is a creative energy and there are reasons why we are attracted to certain things. If you focus on being aware of what turns you on, it could help you know yourself better. If you have a specific fetish, yes it limits the number potential partners, but the few partners that fit you really are gems because you share something no one else has. Sexual fetishes can and do improve relationships with yourself and others IF (and a big IF) you approach your fetish in a shamanic way and not a perverted way. And from my experience, my career improved a lot when I just allowed my fetish to be, instead of trying to cure it.