CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Bedhopping”

You know, I read the title of this video and questioned whether it was worth watching as I assumed that it was about "slaying pussy". After watching however, I really enjoyed the psychology and anecdotes behind what Coach was saying. This is why I love his videos so much.

One of the best videos İ think

Sounds like you overdid bedhopping? There's a movie called "Shame" which is related to this topic. Very interesting.

That'll bring you nowhere. I was in a marriage for 10 years. No kids. The moment I discovered Red Pill, I lost any interest in maintaining it. It is hard to build the relationship when you fucked 3 new women in the last 7 days just because they jump on you.

I got it but what if you don't want kids but want a serious relationship?

Ugh, I hate to admit coach is right this time, but he is. I'm in my late 30s, have had far more sexual partners than most, and it just gets easier and easier every year... CRP is spot on about there always being a better girl just around the corner. I put in literally zero effort, and I'm pulling more and better pussy than ever before. That said, dating and bedding women has become so boring that I've lost nearly all interest, I almost never follow up with the myriad of women I meet, and when I do, they're just as boring as all those before them. Now that I'm thinking about starting a family, I fear that I've forever lost the spark needed to pursue a mate and do so. Dating is boring, sex is boring, and female companionship frankly isn't worth the emotional and financial costs for the little value that it brings. I absolutely do not want to go MGTOW, but with all the magic drained from courtship, sex, and relationships, I'm struggling to find a reason not to. Coach, I'd love to see a post on how to reignite interest in something you've mastered without treating it like the mundane chore it has become.

hahhaha “machismo” culture in Latin America is honestly harmless and not as bad as people think it is tbh, Toxic Masculinity is bs, but I feel that if your goal is to be married then both partners should be loyal to each other, and if you wanna sleep around then just be single and don’t waste other people’s time

yes, i do, you took the words out of my head, well, lemme put it like this: So far, most of CRP'S advice has been true ( i've confirmed with older aqcuaitances of mine) and maybe he's right on this one too, i'm thinking that you've got to get to that scenario ( bedhopping) to truly desire a commited relationship and appreciate a commited woman also, after that much pussy, you'll probably be less likely to make errors in judgement selecting a wife so, i see " developing game and bedhopping" as neccesary stages of a succesful adult life. Perhaps i'm not 100% accurate but this premises seem to work for some guys i've seen , even if they don't consciously know about them. Glad to see someone with a similar mindset here, hope this helps.

Speaking as someone who has not reached the stage where I am successful with women and can bedhop, it might seem strange that I am already at the 'mature' stage in which I'm looking for a long term relationship and maternal qualities. Having more notches under my belt and lots of casual sex is simply not as appealing to me as manogamy. Granted, this might not be very 'alpha' but if I am being completely honest with myself I am far more interested in a committed relationship. Does anyone else relate to this?

I'm not married and never cheated. I saw in other peoples lives that karma is a bitch. Coach, are you biased due to your cultural upbringing (machismo/cheating) or am I a still a soyboy...

If you're married and cheating, then why are you even married?

Coach, how do you turn down the inner voice (feeling guilty) especially when you're married (cheating?!) since you mentioned your second bedhopping phase...

Been there, done that. Philippines ~2 months at the age of 27. First week daily (+1 day 3 different girls one after the other) then slowed down to 3-4/week eventually ending in a mini-relationship for 2 more months. Bedhopping was due to recover lost time and avoiding a major change: transitioning from a broke backpacker into an average digital nomad.

I'm 30 yo, still living with my parents because rent is too expensive in Spain, and I've spent last 2 years fucking up to 18 girls via online and IRL dating. It's taken huge amounts of time and effort, and though I've become somewhat better at Game, it's taken a toll (wasted time and I've become sort of a mysoginist and lost almost all of my friends of uni because of it...

Do you recommend moving out if one wants to bedhop or improve their game

Talk about living at home with your parents. most millennials still live at home which is another reason why there are many incels

I've wondered the family timing question too. Hope Coach responds. What do you mean by "nothing more"? I think the question could be turned around and asked about women too. Why do women seem to have nothing more than children, gossip, and shopping on their minds? Is this really a gender issue, or the fact that few people, of either gender, have the ambition and qualities needed to really make something of themselves?

Ryan Stallard

Of course it is... makes it logistically easier and having your own place shows at least some level of financial success and independence.

Same here.

Coach, do you wish you'd started a family earlier? I often wonder why is it that most men have only money and sex on their mind and are capable of nothing more.

Quick question coach if you’re just starting game is it better to have your own place?

Why would you imply that girls find attractive the same things that you find attractive? From my own experience, it's not rare the preferences to be completely opposite and unintuitive

the discord invite is expired for me, can someone send out a new invite? thanks

This video came out just at the right time for me. Great insight as always Coach!

For me, I don't really desire to bedhop mainly because I don't find girls that have bedded lots of men attractive. If I had the resources (and time) to create and maintain several long-term relationships at once, I'd prefer that.

Ryan Stallard