CRP Patreon Exclusive: “How To Have A Good Marriage”

"Babies and properties" - Golden.

Hey CRP, you said the best way to have a good marriage is to give the woman babies and a nest to focus on because a working woman is half way out the door, but nowadays in this social media age, even when the woman is at home, she can just go on social media Facebook etc (the world is still in her home via internet social media) and would have guys orbit around her and get pull into that distractions, so how do you advise on that?

Been asking for something like this for a whilllllleeee. Nice!

Coach you're too smart.

I've been practicing the rhythm method for 10 years. Now that she is over 40, it would be too dangerous for a child i think.

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Why not ? There are pros and cons to any situation in life.

So the gist of having a good marriage is to knock up the wife and buy her an additional apartment (regardless of living in it or not) on top of the house I have with her already. That's a good philosophy. Yeah. I can already see a smile on her face.

Dude! No way! Why would you want children?

Or she can have post-pill amenorrhea and hyperprolactinemia that suppress ovulation. It is more complicated

I knew some girl, and I was her lover (I think one of ). We were "together" for 8 years . In this time she gave birth to 3 children, and built house with her LTR partner. So even that women can cheat on you and find time for other men

Holy shit I was laughing my ass of this is so fucking true. I have a great marriage. 4 kids and counting. The nesting part is spot on. Sometimes I get a text in the middle of the day with a pic of ripped up carpet. "Look at the hardwood under here!" I think God damn it, drafted into another project. But hey it keeps her happy so fuck it. She's so preoccupied with the kids (all age 5 and under), but days when they take it easy on her she'll rearrange shit in the house just because.

I was with a woman for four years with two children from a previous marriage. She and I moved in together, and things were fine until she went back to (office management) work, then once she thought I was 'secure' in a new business (after two years...) she 'quit' and went back to being a "stay at home mom." Unfortunately for them I wasn't interested in marrying her, or playing co- father to two soon to be teens (as the non-biological father) and didn't want children with her... so I ultimately left, after four years. In retrospect, "single mothers" are mostly to be AVOIDED... as you will never BE "the father," and many (desirable, under 35ish) women today will "monkey branch" to some other "better breadwinner" (even with kid/s) if you're working 60- 90 hours a week, and she's at home 'bored...' so "keeping her BUSY" after having at least one child with her... is indeed, very sound advice! Great video, GL ;-)

Hi Coach, what is your view on astrology?

Hi Coach, could you do a video on the way you speak and carry yourself in speech?

Absolutely true. And as a doctor , I can explain to you why when you take a woman off pills , she gets super fertile...so without going into deep scientific and endocrinological details , pill stops ovulation , so once you remove the pill effect , the ovaries get hyper stimulated, and may push 2 or 3 ovas at once...as if you are releasing the pressure off a compressed spring. I hope this makes sense

Not an outside job. Next week's video will be about how an outside job is cancer to a long term relationship.

I think this applies to marriages and long term relationships. Also it doesn't have to be babies or property - can be anything at all - make sure she has a job if there are no babies, have dogs, housework, other projects, running errands for you, doing the tax filing, get her to do meaningful hobbies etc etc. While they may protest, I think women need their man to lead and keep them busy!

What are other alternatives to “property”? Like let her have a job or nah?

I second this

I see this with my parents: They recently build a house with a rather large property around it. Before that, they lived in an normal apartment building in a mayor German city. Right after they moved into the house, my mom started to plant flowers, get decoration, everything. Now she has a job 5min walking distance away (in a kindergarten), so she basically spends most of her free time in the garden making it look beautiful and at work she cares for children. And guess what? She is so damn relaxed and happy. And my dad? Yeah, life could be worse for him, too. So that totally supports what you are saying. I (25) know what to do - buy a house with lots of land around it. :D

Nailed it - give them a project that's not you.

I'm not divorced.

Coach is right, this is about 1/2 of the equation though. The other side is relationship game

If your serious about her, wife her up and get her pregnant.

Some guys on the YT Channel wrote in the comments that he is divorced. So i am not sure if his advices really works or not.

How does this principle of keep a girl busy apply to a girlfriend coach ?

Sorry mann

Keep her below that level of level of comfort, ya doof.

One branch of evolutionary psychology argues that men and women only stay together so long as it takes a child to develop enough to be independent of needing TWO providers.

Good stuff coach! So basically make money work for you, get married, and then buy property ;)

So what to do when you're not Smaug sleeping on pile of gold and can't buy a new house every 6 months?

Sage advice here. Another thing Coach said one time was, when you see your wife doing behavior that you like, compliment on her for it. If she’s short with your children but you see her doing it different once, compliment her on that. If you notice that she’s fixed up something nice or the meal tastes good, compliment her on that. But don’t do it dutifully, routinely as in thanking her dutifully every day for cooking. That’s just phony.

Is divorce normal? Is the 7 year itch real? If it is real, then for what purpose does it serve? Does Living in 'hard times' strengthen or kill the marriage relationship? If having lots of kids is good (reflecting on Mormons) why are they so expensive in our contemporary world? Not declaring or advocating, Just asking.

Didn’t work for me. I thought I married a good mother type. Got married, had a boy, then she got caught up with a guy at her new job.

the bible warns against idle women, they feed off of gossip and are generally useless

...and we'll have a happier society. I fully believe the rampant Karenism that's ruining America is due to idle women. Technology (namely, the washing machine, dishwasher, etc) has freed them from half of their domestic responsibilities, giving them several hours a day to bitch and moan about anyone or anything that catches their attention. For your sake and mine, keep them busy!

Huh. Guess I'll go buy property now...

For both things (baby and property) first you have to know how to manage money. Coach mentioned about it but didn’t emphasize enough. Because first thing she wants to be sure about is your power. Without power supply, nothing works (by the way I’m an electrical engineer :D )

man, the things i learn here. crazy to think almost all of his content is free too. im very grateful to have stumbled upon coach in my vital years. Ive already saved myself from two or three people in my life who were out to harm me (not to mention situations with women). I truly owe it to coach

Hi coach, could you do a video on French boycotting and Emmanuel Macron? Freedom of speech vs beliefs.

We should be thanking you for your profound advice. Many people our age don't know the stuff you tell us.