CRP Patreon Exclusive: “A Working Wife Is Halfway Out The Door”

it’s the truth what is in this video

Thats fine. They deserve to enjoy fruits of their labor.

Most tech women and women doctors quit job after they have 1-2 kids because family is more important. Its a big problem in tech industry. Women quit job when income of man is enough.

Wheres the statistics and link? ‘Look it up’ common scapegoat

Coach is spot on about women often identifying with their workplace as their 'default' / primary enviroment which in their unconscious mind degrades home and family to second place. Even to sort of a nuisance. I've seen this psychological mechanism play out first hand. In some western states there is another factor at play: Governments are pushing hard to nudge mothers back into the workforce as much and as early as possible (in order to squeeze taxes out of them). In Germany the state guarantees a slot for every kid in daycare facilities so the mothers can work full time jobs instead of caring for their young children at home. This is however not a free service and comes with a hefty monthly fee. After payment for the daycare and income tax it's often a zero sum game for the mother where the extra houshold income from working is negligible. In the end the only winner is the state that can tax the childcare workers as well as the working mothers.

Put hidden cameras all around your home, very easy and cheap to do now days.

This is literally what ruined my parent's marriage and it almost certainly ruined my sister's marriage. I swear a suscription is a small price to pay for this advice.

She is just as likely to have an affair if she is at home, maybe more so. See it all the time.

This is true. Couldn't have been so right. I see woman always looking for a fling at work especially the woman who are more as a career the more eager and willing to look.

i agree with this coach - - women should prioritize the family, the nest

I do have a married woman that I work with refer to me as her work husband.

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A bit late, but I feel like this might help you: I lived with a woman for two years, she and I are both translators and largely shut-ins so we both worked from home. It doesn't change anything; she's still going to be focused on her career, at least in my experience, and there's nothing you can do to change the 'one-track-mind' deal. She's just not going to care about you that much and certainly not going to put much effort into the relationship. So if you're like me at that time of my life and you're okay with being with someone not because there's anything 'good' or any feelings but just because it's comfortable, then go for it —I do know I got a pretty good and rare deal though, finding myself a shut-in. Relationships born out of pure convenience are great. However, it's largely true that women can't compartmentalize, and the only reason our relationship lasted so long was that she is a misanthropic shut-in (and tbh I was enabling that in her, only reason I trusted her). It won't be a long-term arrangement, and it's difficult to make it work.

I didn't read all the comments, so this has probably been asked already. I think you're right, and that kinda spells doom for me; I'm not sure what to do with this, because of two things: I hate kids. I've helped raise two nephews and I cannot see myself having children. More importantly, I cannot respect or even put up with a woman who, like me, isn't a hard worker and well educated. Which sucks because most career women are insufferable. Is there some kind of balance for a guy like me?

What about a work from home woman? Part time work from home.

My wife works fulltime. The problem is that the women I had to choose from here in the Netherlands are all left wing feminists. Also, almost all women here work. So I don’t see how I could have made a different choice except moving to another country. Plus, I wanted a high IQ woman since intelligence us highly hereditary and seems to be inhereted via the female line more than via the male line. A smart woman here will have a university education, and will not just give up her high paying job just because I say so. Please give me your take on this Coach. Thx

So where to find girls that don’t want to work and want to be homemakers in the West? Or how do you convince her to stay at home?

I had the same thoughts! Fuck I hate it when coach is right ! I just read your comment and saw this video..”these are not normal times” I seen that coming in a subconscious sense....over here in Toronto ppl in social media are “begging for lock downs!”

Back when I was in college coach months ago, your video "these are not normal times" woke me up to what was going on and I saw many students say that if a crisis happened they would take advantage of it for themselves such as looting. When the riots happened with BLM, it didnt suprise me. Now Ive been thinking about what you said about Trump being the trigger for the next civil war, and I think its not him being elected that will be the trigger itself although it may. But it will be the left being exposed, and their refusal to allow trump back into the office along with their hatred for the right increasing because of the fact they refuse to accept that biden won, and continue to lie that this was a fair election.

Any trailer parks in the Valley?

Then I'm screwed because even though I work in silicon valley and make a good salary, I wouldn't he able to afford to buy a house with my income only, let alone a stay-home wife plus a kid(s).

One of the best videos of all time!!! Thanks CRP for sharing such wisdom! And for all others, just think of why the wives of the richest men are not working and taking care of the children at home!

Being a woman I will say this about working women: they spend money indiscriminately. Just blow through it on what I consider wasteful, i.e., daily fancy fattening lattes, buying insane amounts of clothing at the highest possible price, lots of dining out, pet indulgences. They are quite indulgent with themselves in this regard. I think it is because they feel entitled since they are sacrificing so much by working. Spending money is a reward for sacrificing every other aspect of their lives.

Exactly.

This is too generalized, you make valid points Coach, but there are so many counter-arguments... 1. If u married the wrong woman who will cheat, she will cheat on u in ur own bedroom while u sweat ur ass earning to cover the bills. 2. Most ppl these days hate their salaried jobs and count hrs to be home. I don't think a coworker is a risk, until ppl from work start meeting outside work for beer, parties, etc. This is for sure something I would be against. 3. Women these days are different from our grandmas, they need to be active in the society. 4. A jobless woman will crap her whole disappointments on u, when u are already overloaded. Cheers!

It's not that she sleeps with someone else, it's about everything else. He was talking about the idea that if she spend most of her time, effort and heart elsewhere during the day - don't expect to be her best or most interested in you, your relationship or your family

It's not that she sleeps with someone else, it's about everything else. He was talking about the idea that if she spend most of her time, effort and heart elsewhere during the day - don't expect to be her best or most interested in you, your relationship or your family

I think have a business or climb the career ladder

I agree on the overall idea but letting the wife at home because you're scared she will sleep with someone else is too extreme. It's also good for her own development to have social interactions so she can grow and in order to do so she needs to go out. I think a wife working part time is a better option so she has time for the family, she's still connected to the world and she brings some income

Really great video and I totally agree. The only question is what a guy should do if his salary isn't high enough to cover all the household costs. These days, a $50K salary in middle America isn't enough to provide a decent home and necessities for a family of 4. Especially if you have to blow another $10-20K or so to get your kids out of the government schools. What would your advice be to people in that situation?

Any guy who marries a female executive is doomed anyway. Sooner or later.

I have a question, I hated my business. So when I found this girl I fell head over heels for, I made having a family with her the priority. Which totally broke me. I spoke with a guy who runs the biggest version of what I was doing (airbnb management) and he said that Australia was a shit place to do it because of the employment laws. a lot of guys say: “find your pupose” which was making that business, but once if hit six figures I didn’t have any drive to make it bigger until the prospect of a family popped up. So am torn between trying again after covid (in a more entrepreneurial country, thailand) or looking for something I enjoy more (have just been accepted into harvard in a masters course in the field I much prefer but is going to take 6 years AND a huge pay drop even after being qualified 🤦‍♂️). For context, airbnb is a SUPER stressful job. You’re dealing with big money, like $5000 a booking. But there is a thousand flippant reasons the person can cancel and airbnb now issues full refunds for almost no reason, which is so fucking stressful I can’t even tell you. So yeah. Everyone has been telling me ‘making a family’ is a bad blue pilled purpose. hmmm....

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There are more and more women executives in US corporates nowadays. I feel bad for them. Their husband would suffer...

Don’t have such a large family maybe?

this is so true, glad to hear someone say it tho. That's motivation for us guys to stay are our purpose and be big bread winner's. So both side win, your woman will be more happy this way anyway.

You’re ignorant about human nature, and the effect such actions will have on kids in the home

This video is gold and will help us avoid so many headaches and plan better for our lives. Thanks a lot Coach!

What if I don’t have the means to support a family of 5 by myself coach? That happened to me in my first marriage, and I don’t want history to repeat itself.

You don't need school teachers to be female. Male teachers are usually better.

YES. Why the hell would you want a woman who will literally never be there for you, your children, or be around to fulfill her domestic roles, who is likely too old to give you a big family, and likely to divorce you because she makes more money? Are you GD insane, that's the exact opposite of what you should want to date.

Sorry CRP you are incorrect again not every guy can make that much money to support a family with one salary. It was possible in the 50s but not today in most countries. Another issue - Are you really believe that another coworker will sleep with your women eventually? Realy?! You are that insecure?

She can teach online K-12 if she’s a school teacher, not sure about similar college programs

I got my girl working from home, and she also homeschools our son. On top of that, I have moved our home from Michigan to Florida. Took me some time to figure this shit out on my own, but glad to see I’m not the only one who thinks this way

Wow, very helpful video. So important, thanks Coach. One of your best I think.

Fantastic topic. But if no woman work, who’ll be the nurse and school teacher, lol

What about a college professor or a school teacher?

Coach, is a woman in medical school always a bad long-term prospect?

The family business for a woman should be the kids and the home—no exceptions.

What is your opinion on a family business?

Great Topic Coach!!!