CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Never Take Shit From Anybody”

Very similar experience with my single mother Ma and her boyfriend Coach, as well as with supposed ‘friends’. Thank You! 👍🏻

Thanks for the vid

Also, in your video about shit tests, you say women shit tests those they deem to be alphas thus to test for internal congruency, by saying something to test, but what about when a woman not say anything but go MIA leaving in the middle of a text conversation when the text conversation obviously still going texting back and forth but then she goes MIA like ghosting (she did reconnect back a week later), then is that a shit test or is that ghosting and how do we respond to that?

Hey CRP, in one of your videos you say to never take shit from anyone, but in your other video explaining about shit tests and using humor to pass it, so then what is really what, and how do we distinguish to respond differently to a shit test and not taking shit from anyone?

Ditto! Took too many shit from dad for many years too!

You nailed it in the head, coach. This is certainly one of your best videos and believe me, I've watched them all. You just nailed it in the head in this one, man! I'm 20, live in India and I went through exactly the same shit in high school. Till this day, I try to escape from conversations about those days because I got horribly scarred, I realise now. I got *diminished* to such a degree where I stopped expressing myself. I realise, this loss far outweighs any possible gains, really. How much would one trade a piece of their soul for?..... Of course, on the flip side, swallowing all this shit has made me real tough-- oh, yeah!... I guess, I'm just grateful I didn't let it break me to the point of no return.

negotiating

Amazing vid this is such a good lesson thanks boss

I gave you shit about the Rush video, this one is excellent !

I'm currently reading Chris Voss book about negociating. There are ways to minimize the shit people will give you and maximize what you can get from others. I know it seems like another guy trying to sell a book but tis book is probably the best book I have read since forever. This shit is probably especially important for people like us who are different from the normies..

Never take shit from anyone because? The damage they can do to you? Or what 'you' are allowing them to do to you? Or is it all the same thing? Options, You need options and Options are not free. Are you willing to pay the tariff? * * So, the idiot boss is a piece of work. But he has knowledge of value. Being nearby is good because you're absorbing that knowledge. Until it is time to leave. Do you know when?

Coach Red Pill tell us???

How do you think I got to be in the top 20% of earners?

This is bullshit. CRP is in the top 20% of earners so he has the luxury to do that. If you are not in the top 20,% you will get burned. This is why I hate America. It is a horrible nasty place...

I’m just now learning this in my 40’s. Wish someone would have articulated this lesson to me 20 years ago. But now I’m teaching all my kids this stuff since early in their lives

I understand you coach.... my father used to be like that.. didn't split completely from him but as he is getting older his way to behave with me is changing

Especially girlfriends, family, employers and clients.

lol, good idea!

This is truth

I have never taken shit but I've walked away many times from relationships and jobs. It's the opposite problem in a way. Wonder if Coach has any comments on this equally destructive pattern?

MagicWheel

Great Video coach, I figured this out over the last 9 months as well by myself by watching red pill videos everyday. To be honest, I have the feeling I have become a kind of monster, but in a good way, willing to take brutal action if someone gives me shit. I tell people upfront that I am hard as fuck if necessary and I am willing to protect myself at all times. You are only a victim when you allow it to happen. It‘s good to be feared to be honest. There is a good video by Jordan Peterson about „Transform yourself into a monster“ https://youtu.be/2myI8x4iwb0

Free is priceless...

You'd be surprised at the number of parents who cannot handle seeing their kids do well.

This is balm to my soul. Because of my upbringing, through the years, I have attracted and allowed people in my life who give me shit. When you allow someone to give you endless shit, it eats away at your dignity. As Coach said, they do it because they feel badly about themselves so they try to diminish you. It becomes a real battle for your soul when you have people who are close to you like this. If it's a continuous thing, as Coach said, it may be best to cut ties and go.

Unrelated: You've said that you'd show us a video of you building that new desk you've been working on. Then you've said that you'd make a response video to that video by Optimus. And now I'm thinking about you combining the two videos: You responding to him over a footage of you building that desk. Why? Because you can mock him forther by copying his style but doing something more productive than playing video games.

Thomas Levy

Like the new intro song..might wanna let it jam out a little longer lol

Miggie88

Deep life advice, no political bs, this is a good one

Wish I had heard this advice when I was in high school and had also learned martial arts back then. Would have saved me years of trying to get back my pride and self-honor

How old are you? I know what you mean, I'm almost 30 and feel sometimes the same way. In Plato's Republic that conditioned is explained, and how great it is to be freed from the slavery of desire.

My opinion? One of the BEST videos you have ever made. You explained a lot of my problems myself with others and my former relationship. Thanks for your great work to waken us up! Please do more of such topics!

Fuck...this one hit home. My dad kept me at home and away from my friends as soon as I got home from school. I didn’t realize it at the time, but he bought me and my brother all the entertainment to stay at home. And when I did try to get a job, he made sure I worked at the university as a janitor...imagine that shit being a 17 year old and all these girls looking down on me... On top of that he would take my money and give me $40 of my check every two weeks so that I would not learn how to take charge of my finances. Even in my early 20s I was like the large elephant tied to a tiny tree, I had been conditioned so deeply that I didn’t even know what to do. Once I finally got a gf and had sex for the first time lol, I would use her car to sleep in and only went home few nights out of the month. Slowly I pulled away, and now I don’t talk to the fucker. Yeah I don’t know if this is of value to anyone else, but maybe it will help someone to see that they may be in a similar situation without realizing it

Your suffering as a kid enabled you to help so many of us who grew up without dads. I'm not religious but my grandma used to say: "God writes straight with crooked lines"

Great video! Makes me feel even better about filming myself verbally destroying this stupid old fuck who tried to gave me shit for not wearing a mask back in November. hahaha

People in groups are surprisingly passive. You tell them all off in one go, they'll back off—and some might even change sides and back you up.

I never understood parents that feel resentful when their kids are faring better than they are. The goal of parenthood is for your child to do better and be better off than you. Great video as always.

This video was long overdue. My cardboard cutout father never had this conversation with me. He was a weak man emotionally, spiritually, physically, and mentally. So, I entered the world like a bear raised in captivity, ill equipped to "manage relationships" with challenging people. Furthermore, I agree with Coach 100% on this. I put people in two categories: those who benefit me and those who don't. In the first category, I tolerate it so long as the benefit far outweighs the cost. Once cost exceeds benefit, hell yes I talk shit back and if it escalates, so be it. In the second group, it depends on a myriad of factors, but I generally ignore them altogether unless it'll hurt my reputation or wallet. If it does, I go scorched earth on them. But if they just talk shit to me, I laugh it off like they're a retarded kid playing in the ballpit at McDonalds. I totally agree with everything said in the this video. It's kinda scary how much I have in common with Gonzalo lol. Great topic, Coach!

What if it is a bunch of people giving you shit? Wouldn't they gang up on you if you told them all off? What is the solution for that?

You don’t need to clock them, just tell them to go fuck themselves

lol, good to hear!

This video is good example of experience counseling. My problem is that most relationships that i have had were abusive. That's why i am alone. I still don't know what are healthy boundaries in relationship.

You are so right on spot👍👍👍, ask me how I know. Growing up I took a lot of shit from all corners except my parents. I’m 60+ years old and a slow starter and I didn’t find out till the 5th grade I had a major vision problem that was caught by a school nurse in a simple vision test ; well by then the train had left the station 5 years earlier and later in life I surmised that I had other learning issues but back then they would say just do better or else back then. As the years went on my grades improved and I went on to college to earn a bachelors degree in industrial transportation industry. I’m now retired but through the years working for a major international corporation as a union worker in a union shop is where I had to grow some big balls or go on down the road. It was army boot camp everyday in the shop but I survived and learned the art of administration warfare. Needless to say I don’t take shit from nobody and I can play the game. And being retired I’m fireproof. Not to long ago a certain individual for whatever reason was sandbagging me about a pair of prescription glasses I needed right away. Well I ended up going to the top of the corporation and getting to the right person to expedite the situation. Well when all was said and done he got a lesson in that Shit flows downhill and payday is on Friday, 👍👍Wining , I’ve still got the touch 👍👍💯👍

At my age, I have lost interest in sex and I even have a hard time (no pun) keeping it up. It sounds like an embarrassing condition, but it may have its advantages too. I find that I defer to women far less than before.

Hmm...I find that the only people to give out at me are women. I am not sure I am prepared to clock them.

Goodmorning all