CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Why Women Reject You”

This has happened to me so many times! OMFG I sometimes feel like I'm retarded actually. lol... Right at the lull point I push things too hard, and then she bails on me, tragically, painfully. Its been a source of great frustration, but now I know what to do. Thanks!

This is actually something I heavily struggle with. Since the start of the pandemic (March, 2020), I’ve be unsuccessful in my sexual pursuits with women. I don’t exactly know what I is. I go to bars, get numbers, go on Tinder, go on dates, but often these women tend to say the age old: “I’m not looking for a relationship, just friendship.” The reality is that I’m not looking for anything serious. Mostly just fun. I tell them that after the fact. But maybe I’m too blatant, as Coach says.

how did you proceed after they tried to follow up with you weeks or months later?

Interesting, I haven't thought about it. The moment you described "when we have exhausted the talking topics for the night" I always felt off and moving in on never works at this exact moment.

At THIS point in my life… I don't ask women for their number. I don't flirt with them or even ATTEMPT to get their attention. I just walk by them. I FULLY understand that women are attracted to whoever they're attracted to and, in most cases, they aren't going to go for you unless you're the Chad. I did a video about this… The BRAD PITT RULE plays directly into this. https://youtu.be/_mzqVgxUu58

'' in the business world what are we dealing with ? robots ? AI ? no! we're dealing with people! '' Mark Zuckerberg : initiate laughing protocol

I agree with the Coach here. Here are my two cents and my personal experience on the subject: I slowly started to understand that I would become obsessed on one particular lady causing me to come on too strong or I wouldn't be able to think straight. The solution came when I started dating multiple girls at the same time. If I couldn't date multiple girls at once or if I went through a dry spell I always made sure I was hanging around a few such as in the library or the gym or at work. Their presence made me relax and provided a distraction allowing me to disengage from the girl I had been chasing. It would allow me to loose touch with them for few weeks or even months. Eventually, the lady I had been chasing would suddenly start to seek my attention. It usually happened when I least expected it and in one occasion it happened 6 months after I had completely lost touch with the her.

One of your best / most important videos I think. Crucial Knowledge, if you want to win in life

Stop being a crying bitch. By doing so you will do better

The real reason is that I'm short and unattractive

Mr. K

Any chance we can reset this after overdosing a woman? By time I guess?

attention is like salt, too much and you ruin it

"Your social security check will become so worthless (if hyperinflation) you can wipe your ass with it". What a great visual ! LOL No doubt some Germans were literally doing just that using the deutschmark during the 1920s. But hyperinflation is hell, even for those who have their wealth stored in real assets, as daily transactions still must be done in fiat money that is plunging in purchasing power.

I think I have an interesting video idea: when we present ourselves to others, to what extent is it a "performance"? What is inauthentic?

I saw your Part 4 on YouTube. Wow. Awesome! Hit it out of the park! Loved the Biden/Harris put downs. The best you’ve ever done? Gettsburgesk? Way way too hot for you tube. Bravo!

if you are well off almost every place is good

“Shit video for Wednesday” coach you killed me 🤣

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As a general rule when negotiating in business for something you want once you’ve basically stated what it is you want.. say nothing.. the person who speaks first loses.

Because of title I almost didn't watch it. But turned out to be interesting

I have to disagree with the coach here. The coach left it too late to make his move and as a result got friend-zoned. Also you don’t ask a girl if you can kiss her you go for it. If she says no and pulls away fine a bit of surface level embarrassment. I know this because I found myself in many scenarios as the coach is describing particularly whilst on Erasmus in Spain.

Thank you Coach.

Big lesson... thanks

Everyone, check out CRPs earlier video "Chasing Indifferent Women". Its an accomplement, goes over similar material. CRPs at his best with his personal stories, success & flops with 'ladies'. We can relate, because we all have similar experiences. * I contend time is a friend. Memory faids over time and so does the sting of a broken heart.

Coach, another example of you teaching me about a subject that I kind of knew about but you articulate and go deep with insight

great video as always Coach hope you are well and live long I experienced some of these scenarios in college fun times

"I remember that moment as I was speaking that I was making a mistake. And of course when the words were out, game over." Did you try to woo her again and fail by making the same mistake of applying too much presssure? I'm sorry but you sort of left that part ambiguous.

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Nah they reject me because I'm unattractive

Mr. K

I remember this cliff moment when I was still playing poker. There was a game when I was 50/50 sure if my opponent had a better hand than I or not and the only way for me to know was to raise his bet and see how he reacts. The dude was pondering my raise for about 4 minutes before he actually folded but I knew it the instant I made the bet. His confidence fell immediately, not visibly but I felt the tension of the situation disolve - he'd made the decision to fold, he was just pretending to be thinking about it so it looked like he was doing calculations. It's a similar feeling with a girl. There's a moment of tension because you both want the other person to do something but you're not really sure. Someone has to give the tension a tug. Lean back and you will make her want to come closer. To be fair, I've had moments where I could see that the girl was interested. I told everyone I was leaving and sort of gave her the opportunity to come after me. Problem was she often didn't. This happened more than once whereas I can remember only one girl that actually came after me. I might be a problem of our national character. We guys are wimps but then again so are women.

you discuss this video already here with comments.

FAQ is pinned post at the top. Don't know how it looks on app.

Gentleman, at the end of the video it says to visit FAQ for the index of vids. I’m on the app and can’t find FAQ anywhere! Apologies for the tech deficient question, but any help is appreciated. Cheers to CRP for another gem.

Some guys think you can't tell anything positive, I think you can compliment her looks and character if you are already together. You can also tell, that she really turns you on. But just for the sake of it, there is no point telling her that you love her. Anything that is strictly about your emotions is counterproductive to tell.

Hey, Coach. I've made a Discord Server. Currently we don't have any platform to discuss your videos, share tactics of applying your recommendations, etc. I hope you don't mind. If you do, just tell me I'll shut it down. Everyone is welcome to join https://discord.gg/kJdygcvB

One of the biggest problem with dating is my sense of scarcity kicking in when there is good chance with a hot girl. I figured I have to fight back against this feeling diligently. It is too difficult to let go off control when I am really interested in the outcome. My solution is to try not to give a shit about the results and possibly have some backup dates/girlfriends/opportunities. The more alternatives you have, the easier to brainwash yourself that failure doesn't matter.

I see you a lot in the comment section, I hope you are o.k. And yes, I really hope Gonzalo gets it done and brings the book out in time—I am curious what he is able to do with it. I always say, a man’s soul or lack of it will be evident with what he can carve upon a white sheet of paper.

Average guy don't have sex appeal.

6-7 isn't average, 5-6 is average

"Nobody teaches you these things" should be the title of your book

Too much talking and no Physical escalation, muh man

What if you have chemistry you pull back but she never makes the move?

Agree.

So Zen in the Art of Archery?

Thanks Coach for your absolutely remarkable insight!

The Art of Seduction covers this topic. “Give them space to fall. The precipice.” The two things I’d say your old self did wrong was asking for the relationship, and not going for the kiss at those awkward moments. A kiss communicates much more than words ever can. Demonstrate, don’t explicate.

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I often times get this feeling. When wile I speak I realise it's the wrong thing to say

Thanks coach, great vid. This is classic CRP. This is how I got my current gf and didn't even realize this is what I was doing.

lmao

You should call the next one shit video for Wednesday.

Desperation is one stinky cologne. Women are way more socially in tune to when a man comes off needy or trying to get qualified. If you project and show that you are the prize (while not coming off as a dick) the confidence will naturally draw in the woman ( or anyone for that matter). Until the attraction is established in her mind the close will never happen. As soon as you verbalize your feelings you are done. Coach has mentioned this in previous vids -NEVER TALK ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS TO A WOMAN!

thanks coach!

THANKS, COACH! I join last week!

First looks good coach