CRP Patreon Exclusive: “When Can You Cry”

You who are watching this man, do not realize how lucky you are to have found this.

Environment, including the people around you, is more important than genes though. EXAMPLE: If you grow uo with no masculine, heterosexual, male figure in the house… you might turn out to be a whiny little bitch who is always in his feelings… because the only stimuli you received was from the FEMALES in your family (mom, sister, aunts, etc.). A LOT of these gay guys grew up in a single mother household… but then they say "they were born gay".

Crying over a non-tragedy is a signal by a dependent person trying to get a superior to solve problems that the dependent can't solve. But men are where the buck stops in life. Nothing but men's ingenuity lies between the life and death of humanity. A man who cries for attention is a danger to the species. That's a man who has run out of choices. But men can't run out of choices. When we run out of choices, nature punishes us, our family, and our tribe with death. Women are right in viewing such men with disgust. A man who runs out of choices is a man that can't adapt. Maladaptive men shouldn't spread their genes.

How about crying by yourself?

Exactly, the conversation is the most important part. That's what sticks with you, the visuals are just there to project the message.

IMHO: who cares about production value, just start pushing out more! content. just push out a video, talk, get it out. I don't want to wait a week!!!! record it in an elevator, car, !! doesn't matter!

Coach, I realised that people who live life on autopilot (making decisions based on what society tells them to be correct) resulted in people being happier back in the day, when society was more conservative. Nowadays living life on autopilot either leads you to being an incel (in case of men) or a completely depressed feminist (in case of women). Pretty indicative of which morals are more healthy huh.

Coach, your video about Physiognomy is so real. This is why good mums are so good at figuring out which of her son's friends are good people and those sketchy.

People in this chat room seem to have the oddest questions.

Hey Coach, do you have any insight on how to train oneself to resist crying for things like giving a speech at a funeral? I'm going to be in such a situation somewhere in the future for my father and I want to appear as strong as I can for the audience despite the inevitable devastation.

I think the main idea was the public display of a vulnerability. Feeling on a story message in private I don't think would do any harm to one's self or public image.

What??? Crying in your 20s? You are grown man in your 20s. Crying is only acceptable for kids below 10.

Coach. I have to ask. What about if you cry over an old film that just stirs up the pain inside?

Its a learning process...if it happens in your 20s early 30s...so be it...but fully grown experienced men...nobody reapects that

Crying over some millionaires running around a field and failing to kick a ball to the posts is unacceptable.

Coach crying over your sports team is unacceptable. Crying over a pet or a family member is acceptable or someone else who had a significant effect on your life.

At the end of Jingle All the Way or Home Alone.

In this society, all the gawddamn time. Sigh.🤢 Matriarchy. 🥳

Talking about weak spots, my family always tries to push my buttons. I have the right answers, but I noticed that I have anger in my voice. The weird thing that I am already in the middle of it when I notice the emotion. I don't know how I could be more stoic in these situations.

I cried at my grandfather's funeral. A great man who survived Normandy and, even more remarkable, survived the return home.

Tears of obvious joy/triumph are okay. But don’t overdo it.

Read the FAQ on consultations and get back to me.

No it’s nothing to be ashamed of—but it should be dealt with. The best treatment for PTSD is Ecstasy, as per recent scientific research. Not kidding. Look it up.

Must be my psychic powers, wcis.

Coach, the opening of this video I cried like 😂😂😂

What about tears of joy? I’ve teared up after a huge long fought victory that was an amazing personal accomplishment.

Good point Gonzalo, thanks very much

I have Never cried in my life at my grandmothers funereal also I didn’t cried but sometimes I wanna cry and let it all out but I am not able to get it out.

Not gonna lie, I did tear up on the "time" video, luckily I was in private.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1j4YE71Lycw Holiday Inn employee hits himself during mental breakdown

Cry for a dog? NO. You can't do that. Dog is a dog.

What? She just said bye to some guy and that's it? I don't understand where is the problem.

The last time I remember I cried was when Chester Bennington from Linkin Park killed himself. I’m sure many of us can relate to that.

I think I cried 2 to 4 times since turning 18 (I'm 34 now). Once when I had a mental breakdown because I wasn't sure I could walk again (post surgery) and I was depended on others to care for me. Obviously I can walk and into fitness now. Another is more personal and the last two was because the stories moved me. The latter it was more like a 10 to 15 second cry. It always been in private and I never made a habit or took some form of pride in it like many of these genX chumps.

Hi couch i would like to have a chat with you on cam some time if do not mind thanks .

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Thanks dad. Have a wonderful day

Question for the alphas. A women who I regularly have been talking to and who has an interest for me specifically said bye to another co worker of mine who was standing next to me and she completely ignored me. Is it possible that she lost interest in me or is she trying to make me jelly? And if I want to get her back, how do I respond to this kind of behavior? Should I move on?

Remember Tom Hanks as the captain in "Saving Private Ryan"? He always walks away to cry on his own because he doesn't want to undermine the confidence his subordinates have in him. That's how it's done.

Tomek

Is this to say "when can you cry [in public / in front of others]" or when can you cry at all? I totally agree with your conclusion of crying in front of others for the reasons you gave. However, in private I believe as a stress relief system or otherwise it has been proven to help people through hard times of any kind, be it loss or stress etc. I certainly use crying (in private) at times to let out emotion only to channel strength within myself. Get back up and get to it type of thing. Would you consider that being a bitch?

Is PTSD weeknes to be shamed of?

Can u also make a video on how to handle the aftermath of a destructive emotion. I can honestly say i didn’t handle it good because i spend all my savings, fail most of my college classes, and stopped hitting the gym. I thought i was the real shit until life hit me hard and fuck me over. Now im building what i destroyed in heart beat!

lol. Two minutes into the video I was about to call you out on that Neil Peart video but you addressed it pretty well. Yes we’re all big strong tough guys and we need to cry sometimes but I find it’s like taking a shit or jerking off. Go do it somewhere in private, nobody wants to see that. Still love you bro!

One of you best videos so far coach. I don’t know how you do it but you seem to always have the right video for the right time

I'll do a video on how to let out your emotions—especially the destructive ones.

I didn’t cry at my dads funeral, or in front of anyone. I had to get really drunk to let everything out, and i did. After that i open up to my mom about a realistic dream i had of him. When i told my mom about my dream, we both cry like babies. All my life not many people have seen me cry, but my dad’s death really hit me hard. Is been 7 months since he past away, and i had all this hate inside me because when he was in the hospital dying they didn’t let me see him. Sometime we build all this feelings inside of us, and the only solution is just let it out .

Never in front of any woman. They automatically lose attraction for you and are actually disgusted.