CRP Patreon Exclusive: “Your Disorders Are Excuses”

I legit have dyslexia and I never let it be an excuse, because back in the day people would just think I was r€t@rd€d

I wouldn't say it is ALL BS/excuses but what matters is that you do what you need to make it not impact your life.

Tyler Carelli

I have a CPAP machine too, for the same reasons. If you have a genuine disorder, fix it permanently, is what I say.

Lmaooo

Severe obstructive sleep apnea here. Made it impossible to stay awake at work, sex drive went to zero, went on for a couple of years - and I'm a young guy. Got over needle anxiety and doctors, was diagnosed, I need to wear a CPAP every night. I look like an ICU patent sleeping. The machine worked, brought me back to life. I felt crippled by the machine, afraid I wouldn't be able to date again out of judgment from women. Got over it, dated a couple of model beautiful women, but it is hard making that leap for a lot of people to define themselves not by their weakness/disorder. Let a disorder embolden you, not define you.

Disorder is the "get out of jail free" card (to not fix yourself and be lazy). This is one hard truth that people refuse to accept. Thanks for the Sunday morning video (It's morning here in my country). It's worth the $10 monthly subscription. :D

Jay Dee

Man i wish this was public video. I would share the shit out of this.

Parents are not useless—they’re just so scared of doing something wrong (and possibly getting into trouble over it) that they’ve become paralyzed.

Of course they won’t return—so long as you keep it up.

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Thanks Coach, I needed this video. I always allowed myself to think that me being terrible at speaking and my bouts of laziness was caused by some mental illness. I've been given the option to go to a counselor, but part of me knew that absolutely nothing would be fixed by going ("Ah, yes! He'll tell me something insightful that will change my entire worldview"... sure.) Truth be told, my lackluster speech likely stems from going entire weeks without having a conversation with people, and I'm just plain lazy. Of course, no one needs a doctorate in psychology to deduce that, but there are so many people in my social environment that believe in it that I almost found myself falling for it too. Ultimately, I don't need anymore excuses to not improve myself and I'm glad someone like you is out here to call people "bitch-made."

Interesting. Upper class neighbourhoods in Chile are preferring Sinovac Jabs over Pfizer's. Poor neighbourhoods, on the other hand, lead Pfizer vaccination rates. Source (in Spanish): https://www.latercera.com/la-tercera-pm/noticia/donde-se-inocula-mas-pfizer-cerrillos-la-granja-y-san-ramon-ranquean-y-sinovac-predomina-en-las-condes-y-vitacura/WMOEHSYBT5FFZNQUBGLMPWBM2E/ Europe and USA are now the 3rd world livestock to test new vaccine technologies.

I don’t think it’s also laziness that you tell fool your self for me choosing disorders or sexual rape ( which is worse ) is a form to get empathy from people around. For us women yes we crave empathy and attention but for men it’s just weakness how says to the world don’t require me do anything don’t you know that I have a disorder!

I still have it. Still getting help. As long as people are trying to improve i say. Is a very real condition.

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Great to hear. Great attitude. You really hit on a key point. The younger you are when you realise this and start making changes, the better your life will be the older you get. Message to anyone who reads this- own your shit now, and move on. What's done is done. The best thing you can do about the past, is to have the best possible future.

Fuck yeah. PREACH. A huge turning point in my life was realizing that I was using shit like this as an excuse to expect less of myself. I look back at what a failure I was and feel nothing but contempt. I’m not bitter though: I am just glad I learned that lesson when I did because a lot of people never do.

Back years ago, I ballooned up to 260# and was very depressed. A therapist said I had social anxiety and depression. Long story short, a Joe Rogan guest basically said those things are just nonsense and excuses. So then I got into BJJ, lost the weight and these "disorders" haven't returned.

This one would be a youtube strike haha

I believe you’ve already had this one uploaded on your YT a while back. Most of the vids on here seem to be.!

Instead of giving young people practical advice, that helps them navigate their lives, they prescribe them all kinds of crap that then makes them sick. Parents got so useless nowadays, that they send their children to psychologists, instead of putting hard work into their kids and teach them valuable things for their future. And now everyone is a victim, very special, worth of a lot of attention, and ass full of meds.

You are fucking awesome for doing this

I used to have PTSD, now i got help for it

The boomer is someone that never grew up , not talking about you but mainly the white american boomer , also european boomers

Then you don't have a disorder. You have a disease. You get a clinical diagnose from a doctor. Just remember psychology degree it's not a doctor's degree by any chance.

Adrian Adrian255

What if I have something chronic that doesn't have a clear cure?

Coach, you need to publish this to both CRP and GL channels. Loving the new guitar intro!

It’s videos like this that lead me to your channel. I’ve been watching your content for 2 years now.

Coach, in a really strange way this video was EXACTLY what I needed. There’s other areas in my life aside from career I’ve been a complete chicken shit. The way you broke the video down was simple yet genius. Thanks again man!

That’s amazing 😍😍😍

It was just a publicity stunt to enhance her reputation.

Can't agree more. I grew up with a mild stutter and everyday was a challenge, but I forced myself through theraphy and managed improve a lot. Then a year later I landed my first job as a call centre agent which was extremely ironic but at the same time very helpful to me to improve as a speaker. I still struggle a bit to this day, but having faced the fear I managed to have overcome most of it. My advice, don't succumb to fear. Face it and you'll not only not lose selfrespect, but also overcome whatever it is that is debilitating to you.

That’s why I don’t recommend therapists—therapists convince you of having a disorder. Let's say you are socially awkward and not very articulate—they don’t say that you need to practice to get better. They don't think it came from all the years of alienation, isolation and ostracism—NO! IT'S AUTISM! YEAH!!! You are on a spectrum!!! FUCK YEAH… here are some pills.

When i found your Chanel a few years ago I was dealing with problems of my own, mainly developing socially, fear and all that was an ever pressing concern of mine, but because of the videos you made and the attitudes that were conveyed in them I managed to push on and develop and today my life is far better than it was back then, so thank you very much.

If you have a disorder. Don’t tell anyone until you overcome it. Then it becomes your success story. I was born with autism and have overcame it with hard work on myself. Now it’s not even a concern of mine.

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I have seen Kendall Jenner on YouTube with her videos with experts in psychology talking about disorders that she has. It’s pathetic 🤣🤣🤣 I don’t know how she has any nervous problems while being the top buying model alive ??? Good for her but no need for more shows Kardashian !

Here if someone has ever visited a therapist ever if they need help will never tell nobody and it’s a shame !