Fed Up (sketch)
Added 2021-08-27 22:24:48 +0000 UTCHaha yeah. So. Honesty time. Song’s dialogue with Elon is based on a relationship I have irl. I’m trying to be kind, still stay in touch with her since we were so tight in school, but I’m starting to see just how toxic it truly is. And I guess how toxic it’s always been, I’ve just been trying to see the best in her. Of course you only have my side of the story here, but I have so many wonderful amazing friends who have never once made me feel like she does. This conversation (as well as the lines in my Elon sketch a while ago) are pulled directly from our chats. Song deserves better. And so do I. 😤
Comments
You do.
Ashfae
2021-08-30 22:08:08 +0000 UTCYou deserve to be in healthy relationships! End of discussion. Take care. ♥️
Kat Holtz
2021-08-28 21:34:55 +0000 UTCDoesn’t really matter the other side of the story. If that’s how you feel, then that’s how you feel and that what you have to work with. Just because somebody was your friend for a while doesn’t mean they automatically have full access to you forever because they fulfilled a need once upon a time. Setting boundaries is HARD and the 1st step is recognizing that you need one. Good luck!
BlueBaggins
2021-08-28 13:19:29 +0000 UTCYou do deserve positive relationships. It’s very fair minded of you to give it a chance but your happiness and well being deserve consideration too. Stay safe 💛
Nicola Coxon
2021-08-28 11:39:35 +0000 UTCYiiiiiikes. You’re writing this so realistically that I thought it might be from life. Stay grounded and get out!
Linnea Dodson
2021-08-28 11:24:17 +0000 UTCYou both definitely deserve better!!♥️♥️♥️
Marta
2021-08-28 10:47:05 +0000 UTCYou definitely deserve better
Linda
2021-08-28 05:03:10 +0000 UTCYeah you do 💛
werebear
2021-08-27 23:46:50 +0000 UTCYes, you do deserve better!🖤
rippingoffmyface
2021-08-27 23:13:09 +0000 UTC*hugs* I wish you only joy forever after!
AJ
2021-08-27 23:09:44 +0000 UTCYou do deserve better! And honestly the idea of ‘sides’ and ‘whole stories’ and justification in separating yourself from something harmful can be a tactic we use to talk ourselves into staying. At the very least, I did, but the ending of that friendship made us both sooo much happier and healthier in the long run! The truth is that if someone isn’t enriching your life, that’s all the reason you need to move on from them. Your comfort and happiness is justification in itself. You deserve love, joy, support, and fulfilling relationships, and there’s nothing wrong with outgrowing someone 💜
Phantasmal Owl
2021-08-27 22:53:08 +0000 UTCTake care of yourself! This pandemic made me realize that about several people. Ridiculously it was my HS friend who 'canceled' the friendship and I tried to repair it. Not as bad or blatant as Song or you, but enough that "well that's just her" was a ready excuse for making me have a breakdown. (I feel worse as I've realized that 'mutual' friends only put up with her for my sake.) Take it at your pace, you can't always extract yourself from those things as quick as you'd like. You know you deserve better, and that's really important - and it's very true!
catididnt
2021-08-27 22:45:30 +0000 UTCOw, fuck, yeah. That right there, the “I can’t control your interpretation”, the dismissiveness of your feelings. Manipulation I am ABSURDLY familiar with, and has been a topic of discussion MANY times with my therapist, lol. You DO deserve better, and it’s okay if you’re working toward stating what you deserve. I’m proud of you, and I’m so fucking proud of Song (and the you speaking through Song throughout this story). I know this asshole will get what he deserves, and I hope your equivalent either shapes up or gets what’s coming to them. ❤️
Ash S.
2021-08-27 22:44:06 +0000 UTCthank you for sharing something so deeply personal with us. i'm really glad you're recognizing how toxic this relationship is; that's a hard thing to do. and i echo what everyone else has said: you both deserve better, and please look after yourself ♥
Planetary System
2021-08-27 22:43:43 +0000 UTCYes you do! ❤️ Please take care of yourself
BigBadCat
2021-08-27 22:39:46 +0000 UTCyou deserve the best, and I hope you get it <3
ashbee13
2021-08-27 22:35:21 +0000 UTCOof. You (and Song) DO deserve better. "I have no control over how you interpret things" is such a toxic cop out and makes me see red
J
2021-08-27 22:35:05 +0000 UTCRecognising a toxic relationship is the first, very difficult step to freeing yourself. Well done for managing to make that step. I hope you're able to free yourself from that relationship one day. Someone who doesn't respect you or make any effort to listen when you try to speak up for yourself, doesn't deserve you, and definitely doesn't deserve to be given chances. Please look after yourself ♥️♥️.
Arctic Rose
2021-08-27 22:32:15 +0000 UTCYes, you both do. 😘
Ariana Lipman
2021-08-27 22:27:41 +0000 UTCwe don't know the whole story, but from what we see, Whiteley, Song and, much more importantly, you do deserve better! ❤️❤️❤️
sick_pineapple
2021-08-27 22:27:20 +0000 UTCGoddamn right you do.
gingerhaole
2021-08-27 22:26:03 +0000 UTCPlease look after yourself!
Atelerix
2021-08-27 22:25:52 +0000 UTC
