The 100 wants in the Self-Care mod 🛁🫧🧖🏾‍♀️✨

Edit: Sept/21/2025, I fixed some of the wants where I said in a future update*

Yesterday, I posted the Self-Care trait and I said there was 100 wants in the mod and I couldn’t list it in that post because it’d be too long. However, I wanted to list it for you here to keep track for those curious what kind of wants your sim will have.

Note: some wants have details like day in the week, some have cooldowns or more than one way to complete it for your storytelling experience.

One more thing to note, this mod does have some negative buffs and I feel like some sims attract the negative buffs more than others. The buffs don’t weigh a lot and it’s mostly +1, but I feel like a part of self-care is that it’s not perfect or linear either. The negative buff doesn’t weigh a lot or stay for long (4hrs) and won’t overtake your sim’s other moods if they have other feelings. Maybe in a future update, I’ll make a mirror or journal interaction to “overcome negative mindset” or something to help our sims move passed it for storytelling purposes 🫂

SELF-CARE WANTS:

1. Jog

2. Take a walk

3. Meditation

4. Dance

   • I added the rumbasim dance, macabre dance and child of village dance

5. Turn on a candle

6. Turn the incense on 

7. Make tea 

   • added the recent tea from secret sanctuary kit, electric kettle from for rent and tea pot from business and hobbies

8. Personal hygiene

9. Yoga class

10. Take a nap

11. Moonbathe 

12. Sunbathe 

13. Watch stars (night)

    • You can do this with the lovestruck interaction on benches too

14. Watch clouds (day)

    • You can do this with the lovestruck too

15. Say affirmations

16. Write affirmations (computer or journal)

17. Get a massage 

18. Check in with someone

19. Back float (ocean or pool)

20. Stretch (energetic mood stretch or yoga poses)

21. Bath soaks

22. Workout

    • includes Cepzid x Hakrabr workout mod

23. Read books

24. Night out

25. Go out with friends 

26. Take a skill class (Discover Uni + Business & Hobbies)

27. Go on vacation

28. Do some at-home yoga 

29. Take a Vacation Day From Work

30. Blog about feelings

    • This want will only appear when the sim is sad

31. Watch a comedy

    • includes comedy tv channel, comedy movies or even lounge performance

32. Create a vision board (computer)

33. Listen to music/a podcast 

    • Includes Mizore Yukii's podcast + audiobook mod

    • Includes Ellesimworld lofi station

34. Apologize/forgive yourself 

35. Hiking

    • includes mt komorebi, san sequoia and ciudad enamorada trails

36. Volunteer 

37. Time for gratitude (journal) 

38. Set resolution (from holiday)

    • Set to get this want on a late winter day, with buffs related to holiday

39. Clean up

    • includes Mizore Yukii's broom mod

40. Throw a party 

    • plan the social event from the phone not calendar*

41. Go out for dinner 

42. Eat something healthy 

    • includes health nut lifestyle

43. Treat yo self! (Order food from a stall, order out, or purchase something)

    • Includes recent packs

44. Create a budget plan (pc interaction)

45. Pay bills 

46. Bike ride

47. Play a game
    sims with dislike game preference won't get this want

48. Go swimming 

49. Smell incense 

50. Get your nails done

    • includes Cepzid's self manicure and pedicure mod

51. Jump in a puddle (raining)

    • Sims with certain traits like neat or find cleaning a turn off won't get this want

    • This will only appear during the spring, summer and it is September (sorry rhoa reference will be used LMAO Sheree the icon you are)

52. Hug someone

    • Physical intimacy is a turn off sims won't get this want

53. Make a friendship bracelet (best friend) 

54. Wash your face

    • includes Cepzid face wash mod 

55. Wear a face mask

56. Have a spa day + onsen activities 

57. Go to a hot tub

58. Set Some Goals for the Upcoming Week

    • The want will only appear Saturday or Sunday

59. Take a selfie 

60. Buy yourself flowers

    • includes my wedding stories, lovestruck, b&h

    • I haven't checked if Enchanted by Nature has a special shop will update in the future

61. Declutter

    • Single select or multi select items stacked up in your sim's inventory

62. Watch your favorite show

63. Cook your favorite meal

64. Drink water

65. Grab a Drink

    • includes Riviera Retreat kit

66. Read inspirational quotes

67. Do your beauty routine

    • includes Cepzid perfume tray + sunblock mod (download all mods if you want more options)

    • includes Cepzid Bathroom Clutter becomes functional objects

68. Put on makeup (Vintage Glamour)

69. Complete bucket list goal (Life and Death)

70. Do something nice for a sim

71. Get a pedicure (time to pamper yourself)

    • includes Cepzid's self manicure and pedicure mod

72. Play your favorite song

    • Includes Ellesimworld lofi station

73. Eat dessert

74. Have a Nice Bath

75. Practice deep breathing

76. Grounding (corpse pose yoga)

77. Visit a friend or family member 

78. Dance workout 

79. Garden

    • includes live plant from enchanted by nature

80. Freshen up

81. Get your hair done/ makeup

82. Donate Money to a Cause

    • includes for rent

83. Make a Collage

84. Have a Picnic

85. Blow bubbles

    • actual bubbles or hookah/shisha lol

86. Do a Puzzle or Chess

87. Face Your Fear

    • this one is experimental idk if it will work pls tell me if it does

88. Take a trip to the local museum

89. Make a sim smile by telling them a joke

90.  Go to an Onsen

91. Go to the park and take a walk

92. Practice self-compassion

93. Time to Address Your Limiting Fears (journal)

94.  How to Romanticize Your Life? (computer)

95. Talk About the Benefits of Self-Care (social)

96. Talk About the Misconception of Self-Care (social)

97. Compliment Yoga Pants (social)

    • unlocked EA interaction only available in spas

98. What’s Your Favorite Self-Care Activity? (social)

99. Talk about Your Love For Self-Care (social)

100. Complete Aspirational goal

101. Offer Facial Treatment

Once the sim completes certain wants in this list they will get a fulfillment buff (above)

There may be a few more wants I have forgot, but I will track them down one day LOL ♥

The want itself includes instructions in game and some of them have multiple ways to complete it for your storytelling needs ♥

Take Caaaare,
Sashaaaa♥