Are you outside looking in or inside looking out. Which side of the fence are you on. Aren’t all perspectives merely definifed by their relationships to others. Isn’t your experience one singular unique perspective and we’re all just throwing our hands up in misunderstood frustration. Isn’t death accepable merely because you won’t exist to mourn your own lack of existence so it should be fine why am I even upset etc etc etc rah rah rah.