✨The Truth About Girlfriend Role-Plays✨ [Positivity in Pinches] [And That's the Tea] [Thank You For Everything]
Added 2020-07-26 18:58:54 +0000 UTCTeacups!
A thought has occurred to me, and I feel I must share it! Not just because I have poor impulse control, but also because I’d like to spread a bit of positivity (if I can). So, I’ve been reading some comments on my videos that basically say ‘I love your content, but I can’t help feeling ashamed for needing it’.
As a content creator, part-time friendly internet stranger, and occasional real-life person, I feel I need to address this.
So, whilst I understand the fun of self-deprecation better than most, I must also be honest: ✨There’s absolutely nothing shameful about listening to girlfriend role-plays.✨
Call this biased, call it self-interest, but in all good consciousness: It’s just entertainment. It’s no different than watching a romantic comedy. And more importantly, there's nothing wrong with wanting stories that you can connect with.
Everyone wants to feel special, everyone wants to be loved. Stories are so vital for these very reasons. We need stories to help us, help us unwind, help us escape, help us dream that what we’re experiencing as a medium could one day even come true. Stories are our wants, our fears, and aspirations, and most of all, they’re completely and utterly normal. Please don’t ever let anyone tell you otherwise, especially not yourself.
This is not a bid for new people to watch my content. This is for those who already do. If you don’t enjoy the content that’s absolutely fine. But if you do, please just allow yourself to do so fully. Fuck shame, fuck loathing, fuck self-sabotage! Entertainment is medicine for our minds, hearts, and hopes. It is positive and beautiful, no matter what format, shape, genre, or tale.
We need stories, and we need to love them with everything we have!
✨They’re here for us to enjoy, so let’s just enjoy them!✨
I truly hope this post has done some good.
Thank you for allowing me to become what I’ve always wanted to be; a storyteller.
All the bloody best,
Tea
✨HAPPY LITTLE DISCLAIMER✨
I hesitated on whether or not to add this last part, but sometimes it's best to clarify.
I am in no way suggesting that these audios (or any such similar content) are the same as real relationships! They're not. I think that is more than obvious! As stated plainly above, these audios are entertainment, they're a creation, art (if I may be so bourgeois).
I would never imply that these audios can replace human interaction or connection. Because they cannot. And most importantly, they're not designed to.
These audios are here to fill an entertainment void. And hopefully, that is what they do!
May contented vibes be with you.
Comments
So. I think what makes some of your roleplays so good is that they feel genuine. Despite some people claiming to not want that kind of thing, they do. We all need the affection that you bring to life in those roleplays. And you're right, it does NOT take the place of real human affection, but it does help.
Rafen Carino
2020-08-25 20:56:12 +0000 UTCI agree, there isn't anything wrong with listening to gf role plays. It doesn't replace real human interaction either.
Jeremy Knight
2020-08-05 10:19:44 +0000 UTCTea's girlfriend roleplays: the tub of ice cream & tv binge for the soul
FireMunc
2020-07-27 09:22:18 +0000 UTCYou know listening to your girlfriend role-plays records I never felt embarrassed or ashamed that I like them, but it's great that you are trying to cheer others up!
VitAnyaNaked
2020-07-27 08:29:48 +0000 UTCHUGS Thank you Tea.❤️
Nosscheech
2020-07-27 03:08:07 +0000 UTCI wonder if the shame comes from the fact you are so connected to us via the comments we leave and that many times you reply. So, you know we are listening to you, which makes us more self-conscious. But that is exactly what I love about you. You take the time to respond and value our encouragement, our input, and our feelings. P.S. I had a great weekend listening to your old posts. I hope you had a great weekend, too. 😊
AudioFreak
2020-07-27 02:24:25 +0000 UTCNow waiting for the new series including bourgeois, art gallery owner Tea as she walks us through all the fascinating oddities she's collected lol. All the best Tea
Weylen
2020-07-27 00:34:18 +0000 UTCPerfectly worded, I think we just live in a world where people think making fun of themselves is the cool thing to do when it's not.
Dub
2020-07-26 23:36:32 +0000 UTCThank you
The Professor
2020-07-26 23:27:42 +0000 UTCyou dropped your crown queen 👑
2020-07-26 23:05:10 +0000 UTC"Fuck shame, fuck loathing, fuck self-sabotage!" That bit made me want to raise a fist and yell my support like a Viking lol.
2020-07-26 22:39:01 +0000 UTCI’ve found that they have helped me reconnect with my wife. We’ve been married for 26 years and over that time kids, jobs, and aging parents take a toll on our intimacy. Your work has helped me with ideas on how to rekindle our love for each other. Your work also helps me relax after a shitty day so I can be a nice person around my wife instead of heaping my frustrations on her. There is no shame at all in listening and imagining oneself in these stories. It is a perfectly healthy way of dealing with the ups and downs of everyday life.
Chris
2020-07-26 21:59:29 +0000 UTCThank you tea. I am one in a long line to admit that what you and a bunch of other VAs do actually help me. They give me a little sense of normality. I come home, I do what I need to do around my house and I go to sleep listen long to your sounds (as creepy as it sounds). They help take the weight off my shoulders so I can sleep easier. They have a certain kind of love that I am looking for and a passion for the content that they put out that showed that they care. And it may give me a sense of non reciprocal love it is something non the less and it is what’s helping me believe that I can have someone for myself whom I can share my love with. Until then I’ll happily listen to your audios
2020-07-26 21:49:40 +0000 UTCYou’re awesome!
Diamondo! !
2020-07-26 21:40:26 +0000 UTCSomebody with an intuitive understanding of the depth of love and its importance to our lives wrote this. Why, oh, why do we feel we have to hide this need? Why does this most valuable need feel so shameful? I cry watching romantic comedies. Your audios go right into my soul and assuage a hunger and satiate a craving that's as powerful as anything in me, and your gentle voice soothes. It's truly a kind gift you give.
Stephen P
2020-07-26 21:29:13 +0000 UTCI needed this... thank you. <3
Pablo Mayorga
2020-07-26 21:28:57 +0000 UTCYour audios help me alot ,it makes me feel less lonely at in general , you're a big help to mine and everyone's mental health. Thank you and please keep making audios:)
Nathaniel Bachelder
2020-07-26 21:24:59 +0000 UTCSometimes you wanna hear another voice comfort you, sometimes you just don't wanna feel like your alone, sometimes you wanna hear a good character driven story. Either way, there's no point in feeling shameful about enjoying something that isn't real. Be happy with yourself and know that this doesn't make you a pitiful or sad person. It just means that there are times when we need to hear another voice other than our own.
2020-07-26 21:23:32 +0000 UTCI work in a hospital doing 16 hour shifts as a nurse. These audio's help me cope with the things I see and deal with on regular basis.
H0B0 420
2020-07-26 21:21:25 +0000 UTCNothing wrong with a loneliness aid.
Alphonse Baldino
2020-07-26 21:21:21 +0000 UTCI love this post and just want to say thank you for all the content and entertainment you bring us.
Aaron DuBose
2020-07-26 21:20:23 +0000 UTCI mean, I have a Girlfriend. And I'm Asexual. I'm here for character driven stuff. It's all good under this hood
Connor Kidd
2020-07-26 21:05:17 +0000 UTCIt's things like this that show what an caring, wonderful person you are. I hope you have an amazing day Tea!
Weylen
2020-07-26 20:42:56 +0000 UTCHow are you so precious smfh
Joshua R
2020-07-26 20:07:32 +0000 UTCThank you for saying this. I wish I could find more words to say something more profound than that, but... Just, thank you. :)
Peyton Helix
2020-07-26 19:33:07 +0000 UTCMy heart is well and truly warmed
Michael Eker
2020-07-26 19:23:33 +0000 UTCThanks tea you sure do give a lot of wisdom
Zack
2020-07-26 19:19:49 +0000 UTCYou’re the best Tea
2020-07-26 19:19:06 +0000 UTCFor a lot of us, the girlfriend role play videos are the closest we can get to the real thing.
Jonathan Stark
2020-07-26 19:17:16 +0000 UTCThis is one of the reason I’m so happy I found you Thx tea
Ethan
2020-07-26 19:12:40 +0000 UTCI feel ashamed for liking your audio. But thats because I've never had the experience of having someone like this talk to me. And by god does it hurt.
BAR0SS
2020-07-26 19:12:32 +0000 UTCLike, if im honest, ive actually gained a huge boost of confidence in the last week or so of being a patron from listening, so thank you for everything Tea :D
Christopher Haist
2020-07-26 19:11:38 +0000 UTCI admit I did feel that way at first. I was so embarrassed listening to these role plays even though no one else would ever know or care that I was listening to them. It was like I was judging myself. I'm still getting over that weird feeling, I'm still not completely comfortable, but you're right. Its entertainment. There's nothing to be ashamed of, and I'm here on your Patreon so I like the audios enough to pay for them. I just need to get out of my own way and let myself have fun, and I think looking at it though this lens will help with that. Thanks Tea 🙏
Althecor
2020-07-26 19:11:24 +0000 UTCHalf the time I feel like I’m getting a better sense of what I want out of a relationship by listening to GF role plays, and from a lot of other kinds I’m learning what kind of behaviour serves as red flags
Richard Hardslab
2020-07-26 19:10:55 +0000 UTCThat's really sweet, as always. Hope you can have some fun this week Tea! :D
Gnot
2020-07-26 19:09:37 +0000 UTCAll of this is something I basically know. Still, even tho I usually don't say it out loud, I'm one of those people who think exactly like that. And I can't help it. No matter how hard I'm trying, I always come back to thinking like this. I hope you know how much it helps getting told that I'm just imagining it, that it's just in my head. Thank you Tea <3
Flurio
2020-07-26 19:07:37 +0000 UTCThank you Tea for all your beautiful content and the emotions you provide us !
Thibaut K
2020-07-26 19:06:49 +0000 UTCY'all hear that? That's the sound of a boisterous, bodacious babe bestowing benevolent bombshells betwixt her brethren.
2020-07-26 19:06:43 +0000 UTCGod I love how positive you are. It's really nice to hear someone say stuff like that. Even if it is the "internet stranger". I appreciate it very much. Much love to you
Kurohime Toyotomi
2020-07-26 19:05:52 +0000 UTCAnd that's the motherfuckin TEA!
Warden D.
2020-07-26 19:05:41 +0000 UTCThank you for this message, Tea! Although it may not apply to me, I think there are a lot of people that need to hear this. Much love! 😁💗
David Murphy
2020-07-26 19:04:58 +0000 UTCThis hits deep... But yeah it's the truth... We all need some safe place to escape sometimes, and most of the time it's our own mind, so why not allow ourselves to upgrade that space with some good story. Thank you for helping me feel less like a lonely disappointment
Mr.Inkognito
2020-07-26 19:03:57 +0000 UTCIt's nice to have some affirmation, since I do often find myself ashamed of listening to so much girlfriend stuff. Thanks for the kind words.
Jacob Griffith
2020-07-26 19:03:57 +0000 UTCI appreciate your words, T. The girlfriend uff is my favorite character of your content and it helps me feel connected to the idea of someday having a girlfriend for real. No shame, no embaressment, just honest. Thank you for providing content that allows us to enter that world
2020-07-26 19:02:48 +0000 UTCAnytime I see: "The Truth About" I get worried. But this is a sweet, and true message. Be unashamed about what you like! A lack of shame got me where I am today... Take that as you will
Jmann1892
2020-07-26 19:02:25 +0000 UTCWord.
Vodyinoi
2020-07-26 19:02:01 +0000 UTCPerfectly said Tea. That’s exactly why you’re the fucking bomb. Thank you for everything you do. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥😄
Noah Davis
2020-07-26 19:01:27 +0000 UTCThank you
June
2020-07-26 19:01:27 +0000 UTCThank you your always the best 💙🐺
Viltaryn
2020-07-26 19:01:12 +0000 UTCQueen shit
2020-07-26 19:00:40 +0000 UTCI already watch them just because it’s nice to hear somebody talk in that way to me
Duke The Rebel
2020-07-26 19:00:25 +0000 UTC🙌🏽
Elijah King
2020-07-26 19:00:17 +0000 UTC