Oh God, You went through that?! I'm sorry you had to go through that, I wouldn't even wish sexual abuse on my worst enemy! I'm glad you managed to pull through after that dark time in your life and I hope you continue to have much healthier relationships both now and in the near future!
Davin Long
2021-01-23 11:27:12 +0000 UTC
I am glad you made it through your darkest hour and can share your story and your creativity with us.
AudioFreak
2021-01-22 16:26:17 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry you had such a horrible thing happen to you. No one should be subjected to such things. But I'm so glad that you chose to stay, the world is better off with you in it.
HoodedArcher92
2021-01-22 15:20:14 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry Tea. You are living proof that the strength of a beautiful spirit and a kind heart can overcome even the worst thing that can happen to a child. God bless you!
Vic
2021-01-22 12:52:28 +0000 UTC
Sex changes nothing about you, or your worth as a person. Don't ever, ever let anyone pressure you into having sex, or make you feel inadequate for not having it. I was sexually abused as a child and it did not make me a "woman". It made me suicidal. Sex doesn't matter, you do.
TeacupAudio
2021-01-22 01:15:49 +0000 UTC
Can someone read what she said please? I'm visually impaired and my text to speech program can't read images to me.
Jeremy Knight
2021-01-22 00:55:18 +0000 UTC
Iβm sorry you went through that. But you became stronger as you survived and became who you are now. So from all good hearts, keep being you because you are kind and strong and beautiful in spirit
Camilo Iribarren
2021-01-22 00:09:02 +0000 UTC
So epic! Tea has ended up harnessing the power of sex for her audios when it was originally used as a weapon against her in her past. That's some QUEEN shit! And wise words indeed πππβ€β€
bag
2021-01-21 23:43:08 +0000 UTC
Of course. I'm glad you've hit a relatively healthy stride. Keep it up π.
NotMyName
2021-01-21 23:34:34 +0000 UTC
That's seriously messed up... I'm glad the situation was resolved, instead of blowing up or being swept under the rug. Hopefully he's doing better now.
NotMyName
2021-01-21 23:27:21 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I have no words. Just speechless. Thank you for the words of wisdom.
David Murphy
2021-01-21 23:25:39 +0000 UTC
I'm sorry your friend was met with harassment instead of support. May he rest in peace. Hopefully you're doing OK after that.
NotMyName
2021-01-21 23:22:27 +0000 UTC
Yeah, I was in pretty bad shape for the first 5 months. Hit me down hard, but I wasnβt going to live on my knees. Rolling onto month 8 and Iβm back at it. If anything, take some advice. The best revenge is to live a better life than those whoβve wronged you. But thank you for the comment, I truly appreciate it
2021-01-21 23:20:37 +0000 UTC
I'm sorry Logan. I hope the healing is going well.
NotMyName
2021-01-21 23:18:42 +0000 UTC
I'm so sorry... Everyone deserves a happy childhood, to carry as memory into adulthood. The thought of that loss is heart-emptying.
Thank you for the encouragement and wisdom. I don't feel content yet, but it's a good reminder that it's not worth sacrificing health, identity or esteem for a metric of life success that isn't inherently valuable.
NotMyName
2021-01-21 23:17:27 +0000 UTC
Really brave of you to make audios and be so open to talking about sexual activities after what you went through, keep trucking on Tea! You're the best!
Res
2021-01-21 23:13:34 +0000 UTC
I...I didn't know that...but it is wisdom. I am sorry you had to experience such a horrible traumatic event as a child. I hope life repaid you for that. You deserve it.
2021-01-21 23:12:07 +0000 UTC
Tea the wise strikes again πππ
Viltaryn
2021-01-21 23:08:09 +0000 UTC
That is terrible to hear but you are proof that it doesn't have to define you. You inspire and support more people than you will ever know each day and thank you for everything you do for this community. We all love and support you.
Alex
2021-01-21 23:01:35 +0000 UTC
Lately I've been having thoughts about my virginity. I turned 21 in December and I haven't lost my virginity. I haven't even kissed a women yet.
Part of me wants to try and get to it, but another part of me feels it shouldn't be for some hookup or something. Love, dating, and sex is all complicated for me.
I'm still trying to work on my feelings and thoughts, hopefully one day I'll be able to actually act on them. Thank you for this great message, Tea.
I'm also sorry to hear about what happened in your past Tea. No one deserves to go through something like that, and I'm sorry you had that happen to you. I hope your doing better now. β€
You matter too, Tea. Know that we love and appreciate you.
Blindluck92
2021-01-21 22:46:10 +0000 UTC
Yeah, I know what your going through tea. I was sexually abused by my best friend as well and fairly recently. She was someone I had trusted for 3 years, only to be betrayed and taken advantage of because I let some pressure get to me. Iβm sorry that was something you had to go through but people around know your experiences and youβre not alone. I specifically subscribed to you so you could help me sleep away the horror of the experience and it was honestly something I could never thank you enough for. I hope you can realize how much your work helps people like me to find some inner peace. Thank you so much
2021-01-21 22:43:47 +0000 UTC
All love in the world to you Tea. I spent two years of my life with someone who went through equally awful things. We were in love and lord knows I can't fully understand what she went through but I saw the results years later. Time and love can help heal these things but I'm not naive enough to believe that they'll ever just go away. You bring comfort and characters and laughter to so many of us. Again, all the love and appreciation to you and your work.
JamaicanMeCrazy
2021-01-21 22:43:32 +0000 UTC
Sexual abuse changes people's lives forever. It destroys their ability to trust, their self-worth, and degrades them socially. I had a friend that was driven to suicide from his peers after opening up about his story of being raped. They called him weak. Bear in mind, men can be victims too. Please, don't be afraid to seek help. Much love to you, Tea π
Maxfield Grassy
2021-01-21 22:43:25 +0000 UTC
Jesus tea, that's awful (and I hope this doesn't come off as insincere) but yeah we all love you Tea with all your words of wisdom, caring nature and all round talent for your audio
Midge
2021-01-21 22:41:11 +0000 UTC
It's hard for many to even understand what it's like to feel like nothing, insignificant, damaged, and hopeless. Always know that you have help Tea, because some of us know what it's like. Much love and keep your head high. You are worth so much and we are better for having known you! β€οΈ
2021-01-21 22:41:01 +0000 UTC
Yeah, same here
Kirby745i
2021-01-21 22:39:07 +0000 UTC
There a special place in hell for those people how do that. Thank for telling that to usTea. You are awesome and amazing person β€οΈ
Arto
2021-01-21 22:36:09 +0000 UTC
Just remember, if you're shamed for being a virgin, you're talking to the wrong people.
FubstheFish
2021-01-21 22:35:17 +0000 UTC
*amazing woman
Phazin Kine
2021-01-21 22:32:48 +0000 UTC
You're an amz woman
Phazin Kine
2021-01-21 22:32:33 +0000 UTC
Your lenguage sir
Eduardo Enriquez
2021-01-21 22:32:28 +0000 UTC
Tea is immensely special to me, because of her I was able to quell my anxiety and get my life back and she never asksfor gratitudeor reward in return. I genuinely hope that she receives only the best in life because she definitely deserves it
RobDug
2021-01-21 22:32:26 +0000 UTC
Used to know a guy who knew an older woman that would give him nice things in exchange for "favors" as he put it he was 14 at the time and he didnt like doing what he had to do for her and when he wanted to call off 5he exchange if you will she snapped and told him she was going to tell people she knew to rape him too. He was terrified of his woman and wouldnt tell anyone except for his brother who then told me and a bunch of his friends who we then told to our parents who then told the police and the woman was arrested and presumbly got what she deserved in jail. Theres a special place in hell for those who manipulate others for sex and if you know if anyone is going through like or something like what my friend went through speak up and help them as no one should be exploited especially children.
2021-01-21 22:30:30 +0000 UTC
Tea preaching the truth, we're lucky to have her
Tony Silvey
2021-01-21 22:29:39 +0000 UTC
Youβre amazing
leviidagoat93
2021-01-21 22:27:53 +0000 UTC
I appreciate you tea π
2021-01-21 22:26:18 +0000 UTC
For someone with a similar story, it is comforting to hear.
Drinking_Buddy
2021-01-21 22:26:11 +0000 UTC
Thank you for those words of wisdom. β€π§‘ππππ
2021-01-21 22:25:04 +0000 UTC
I love you mommy tea......we all love you!!!!!β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ